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Topic: Dream of wedding
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erickaf
Knowflake Posts: 1196
From: Europe
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted October 23, 2015 03:37 PM
  
Good Evening!!!
I was getting married. However it was a surprise. The guests were invited, from his side but not my family. I was a bit worried my family were not invited so I thought 'I guess I'll have a second wedding with my family.'
I opened a closet, I see a dress for me! The dress was a strapless very sexy tiny white beaded dress...size 34 or zero! I thought 'too small for me.' But it fit me like a glove!
I then saw the groom. I felt so happy I said 'it's him.' Like I couldn't believe I was marrying him.
We married but I had no ring! I looked at my hand! I was confused 'why don't I have a ring when we already married?'
What is your take on this dream?
No ring = symbol of the relationship
No relationship, but a wedding?
Hhhmmmmmm....dream was so vivid!
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GeminiKarat
Moderator Posts: 1682
From: Austria
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted October 24, 2015 07:00 AM
Please read it as an opinion:
A wedding can be interpreted as a union. A wedding ring can symbolize the binding of devotion which signifies everlasting love.IP: Logged |
erickaf
Knowflake Posts: 1196
From: Europe
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted October 25, 2015 06:02 AM
Thank you for sharing your ideas :-).IP: Logged |
GeminiKarat
Moderator Posts: 1682
From: Austria
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted October 25, 2015 10:56 AM
You are welcome.I wish you a lot more to come!  IP: Logged |
Ra
Moderator Posts: 1534
From: Kentucky
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 27, 2015 04:29 AM
Hello erickaf  This dream has something to do with a union, a desire for or seeking of balance, or a change/transition of some kind. But there is something not quite right. While you may be feeling good about the issue in some ways (nice dress/unbelievable groom), there is something unbalanced about it (your family not invited) and it is suggested also that there is a lack of commitment in some way (no ring). I apologize for all the unspecified "somethings" in my thoughts, but I am unsure about the context into which this dream falls. This could be about a relationship you are in or desire to be in, or it could be about something more internal (like self esteem, etc.), or some other issue/situation. I feel like this is about something or someone you are excited about or infatuated with and that you are choosing to ignore or brush aside potential warning signs. I am very confused about the dress size … 34 or zero? These are very different things. Is this what you meant? Let's figure this out. Any ideas?  IP: Logged |
erickaf
Knowflake Posts: 1196
From: Europe
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 02, 2015 06:19 AM
Hey there thank you so much for your detailed reply.
As for the dress it said 34 on the label since I live in Europe that would equate to an American 0. Too small in real life but fit perfectly in my dream. And no way do I desire to be that tiny in reality!
However I now 33 and desire a true union with someone, and I do believe in marriage. More so now as I am getting older.
You know one thing I left out and I did it intentionally was I was marrying my ex. And the reason we broke up after six and a half years together was that we had little communication with each other, but everything else was great. I do still love him but I am extremely realistic and the chance of us getting back together doesn't seem high. So I don't know if it's about "us" or my feelings about a relationship.
I've been spending a lot of times thinking of the dream.
I have an intense desire to settle down however I don't see relationships or marriage through rose colored glasses, I know relationships are so da mn hard!
More to think...
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Ra
Moderator Posts: 1534
From: Kentucky
Registered: May 2009
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posted November 05, 2015 04:15 AM
Okay, that makes a little more sense. Thank you for the context.The dream is certainly a reflection of your thoughts about, and desire to, get married. As you still love the ex, it is natural that he be the subject of the contemplative expressions of your dreaming mind. In this, we can see that the intense desire threatens to override the sensibilities, where balance and commitment are requisite, but missing in the case of the ex. I suppose the dream could be suggesting to be careful not to allow desire and emotion to overpower your judgement and sensibility. What do you think? IP: Logged |
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