posted December 12, 2015 09:47 AM            

I was in a restaurant and I was helping clean it after a wedding reception. It wasn't my job, I was a volunteer. I was collecting empty dark glass cups, something like this:

I stood next to a wooden platform and I got a flash with an orchestra band performing this song https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1TG4LBBXedc . I saw a woman sitting nearby, she seemed to be 30-35. She was slim, pale, had long black curly hair. She was pretty but had somewhat harsh features. For a moment I thought she was my former teacher (who used to sing in a church band) cause she was somewhat similar. I relocated and saw my parents by one of the tables (they were wooden, dark brown and numerous, btw). I got the impression they were glad to see me help. Then I saw him walk in my direction. My favorite actor, that is His presence moved me. It turned out somehow we were assigned to the same table. I sat down and took a long look at my legs, I was wearing green panty hose. I also noticed I had a green-cream/white (more likely cream) dress with a small pattern. So, I was sitting there quietly, unsure if he'd want to talk to me and it made me sad. Thankfully, he initiated a conversation which made me glad. I can't recall the details though.

Any idea?

posted December 13, 2015 10:04 AM            

I was sitting on the stairs outside and there was a guy with me. A singer who used to be quite popular when I was a teen, it was a younger version of him. He was never my crush, btw. He's not from my country but his father is, hm. We were talking and he apparently cared for me. I wasn't indifferent to him either. It felt as if it wasn't the first time we met. Gradually it occured to me there was something romantic between us when I was 14 (funny thing, he has 4 planets in the sign of my DSC and Venus conjunct my DSC). And I think he wanted me back. The action moved indoors, we were in the kitchen and I was eating grapes. There were 2 cups, in one they were yellow, in the other one dark blue. Most of the grapes were unusually small. I believe it was him who gave them to me and they were supposed to make me passionate about him. I was pretty sure it wouldn't work though, I didn't have it in me, not anymore anyway. Besides, I knew I may be asexual (and I may be for real). I asked him if he washed that stuff and he said no and I said it was a bad idea to eat unwashed fruits because it might result in a parasite infection (so romantic, heh). I probably stopped eating it then. The end.

What do you think?

posted December 13, 2015 10:05 AM            

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Originally posted by GeminiKarat:
Please read it as an opinion:
The color brown is associated with security. The color green is associated with growth.
This dream indicates that there is space(=cup) that can be filled with growth(=green).

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Thank you.

posted December 15, 2015 04:27 AM            

It is difficult to explain exactly why, but I feel like both of these dreams have to do with inner conflict regarding your perception of self as possibly asexual. It isn't an intense confliction, at least on the surface, as it is suggested in both dreams that you feel well supported and stable with this perception, but I feel the confliction is there. There are suggestions within both dreams that the asexual perception/condition is not complete or absolute and that, in fact, "growth" is possible if you so choose it.

Am I on the mark, or no?

posted December 15, 2015 11:45 AM            

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in fact, "growth" is possible if you so choose it.

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posted December 16, 2015 12:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Aunt Anomalia:
..... I do consider the possibility that someday I may meet someone who I'd be sexually attracted to without a doubt. I'm giving myself a few years to arrive at a more definite conclusion.

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That sounds like a good connection. Nobody, but you knows the time frame. Somebody said:"Time is relative."