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Topic: Wedding party cancelled
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SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 1646 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted May 11, 2016 02:50 AM
Hello allI had a strange dream this morning. I was staying in a villa house with a swimming pool with my boyfriend and his friend. We were out for the day but I had to meet my female friend to discuss the party they were going to have in my villa. I met my friend and got angry as it was not a small party but a wedding! Lots of people in the house, my boyfriend and friend were out waiting for me to call. I cancelled the wedding. It was a South Asian wedding and these drummers came and there were candles. I went out to the street to call my boyfriend and got his voicemail and saw him across the street. As a start - I seem very angry at my friend? for getting married? In my space and home? I seem to wish to be connecting to my boyfriend (phone/ searching for him). The south asian feel of the wedding illuminates my boyfriends family background.
Frustration and delay and punishment seem to be the themes? Sparkling IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 65106 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 12, 2016 10:41 AM
Did you kick everyone out?IP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 1646 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted May 12, 2016 04:58 PM
Hi RandallHope you are well. Yes I did  Sparkling IP: Logged |
Ra Moderator Posts: 1689 From: Kentucky Registered: May 2009
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posted May 12, 2016 11:14 PM
Hello Sparkling  The way I see it, it looks more like frustration, communication problems, and commitment issues. There could be something about being taken advantage of or being taken for granted (your favor to friend gets out of control). Do any of these things apply to a current situation? To your relationship? IP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 1646 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted May 13, 2016 03:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ra: Hello Sparkling  The way I see it, it looks more like frustration, communication problems, and commitment issues. There could be something about being taken advantage of or being taken for granted (your favor to friend gets out of control). Do any of these things apply to a current situation? To your relationship?
Hi Ra
Hope you are well. Absolutely yes. Just returned from a holiday with my SO - we have no plan! He could not give me a plan for next year or so, so I came away and was in tears of frustration and feeling lost. He shut the conversation down (sensibly) but it left me feeling out in the cold... Sparkling
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GeminiKarat Moderator Posts: 2645 From: Austria Registered: Jun 2014
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posted May 13, 2016 05:05 AM
May I ask: Can it be that the union with your boyfriend wants to go on the next level in real life?IP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 1646 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted May 13, 2016 08:24 AM
Hi GK  I would like it to... Sparkling IP: Logged |
GeminiKarat Moderator Posts: 2645 From: Austria Registered: Jun 2014
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posted May 15, 2016 04:41 AM
In my personal opinion your dream indicates the contemplation about that topic.I wish you all the best for your next level to come true!  IP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 1646 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted May 15, 2016 02:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by GeminiKarat: In my personal opinion your dream indicates the contemplation about that topic.I wish you all the best for your next level to come true! 
Hi GK  I hope so toooo! My other half does not quite feel the same...scared of commitment. Taurus too, so needs to come decision if he wishes too. Sparkling IP: Logged |