posted May 28, 2016 12:10 PM            

So woke up from a two hour afternoon nap. I had the strangest dream which had three parts.

1) I was in a hospital with my boyfriend, late at night. Very dark outside. We were in the waiting room, waiting for something. There were kids running around. He and I danced for a bit in the waiting room and then he enveloped me in this full body cuddle on a sofa in the waiting room. We were talking about children and home life.

2) I was at my parents home but in a garden I did not recognise. I was two hours late as had been chatting to a man outside and my mum was angry as I had not been there to witness a colleague's proposal. It was a sunny day in the garden and lots of pretty greenery around.

3) I was in the area I live in real life. In the street rescuing a very cute brown haired spaniel dog which was female and who had a pretty pink bow. She was climbing up this gate (I had her by the lead) to stop her falling over the other side and her owner came by as I rescued her.

I woke up feeling turmoil and lack of clarity.

Hospital - place of healing and death. Waiting for something good or bad?

Garden and proposal - my envy that someone else is marrying?

Dog - is that me being rescued? Is that me chasing something to go over the wall to somewhere that I do not know?

posted May 29, 2016 05:14 PM            

The hospital: we were in the waiting room and it was very dark outside, before the dawn and sun rise.

posted June 01, 2016 04:08 AM            

The second dream is unclear to me. When you wrote you envy, is it an emotion you actually experienced in the dream or your interpretation? Could it be you are late to be proposed, asked seriously to engage in a long term relationship, as you are chatting with the man outside, meaning engaging in a more light-hearted relationship/s? And that you feel your mother is angry at you because of that?

posted June 01, 2016 04:36 AM            

Ayelet ...

I think the first dream reflects the "waiting" issues in your relationship, the need/desire to heal, and the fact that it is all "in the dark" at the moment.

The second dream reflects issues with your family/mother (parents' home/mother angry) and perhaps general anxiety concerning family and relationship (late/missed proposal). The manner in which you are late (not rushed, but because you were chatting) could suggest that you have reached your limit regarding family and relationship stresses, your attitude taking on a sort of resigned, ho-hum energy, perhaps out of emotional self-preservation. However, this dream also suggests there is an opportunity for growth (garden) and understanding/"enlightenment" (sunny day) that you may not yet recognize (unrecognized garden).

You are right about the third dream. The little dog represents an aspect of self that is in need of "rescue". This aspect wants to escape, run away, or otherwise overcome restrictions (climb fence). But this is a self-rescue mission, as you are the one in control (hold of leash). Unconditional love, fidelity, loyalty, companionship ... which one of these describes the cute spaniel with the pink bow?

posted June 01, 2016 05:50 AM            

My feeling from your dream is that you do not want to marry just because its the right thing to do or because its about time you did it. Perhaps you prefer to wait for a partner to make that proposal in such a way that you will know and feel safe,you want to know this is unconditional love in every sense, that he will do anything for you "save your life" if he has to, that he will have your back. Perhaps on the soul level you have all these feelings of angst going on over this issue.

Apologies for not being very articulate, I just wrote the raw feelings that flown in when I read your dream, I felt butterflies in the stomach over not being sure about idea of life with someone, i felt some pressure, and concern about trusting your soul to another.

posted June 01, 2016 02:55 PM            

Thank you for your thoughts

I do think the first part is about waiting. IN the dark as Ra says. Hospital felt like a place of healing as opposed to death.

Marriage: proposal and missing the proposal is a bit like my attitude to my parents. I am not so bothered by it but I think the setting was lovely, Ra so you are right...room for growth and positivity (sun).

Dog: yes, very much really liked this dog! Pretty girl with a bright pink bow - love and companionship and sweet.

This dream really affected me - lots of symbolism here.

posted June 06, 2016 04:26 AM            

As always, thank you for sharing your dream.