posted March 30, 2017 06:27 PM
Mary, just for interesting sake, why not have your partner go back to review their NOTES from those specific classes (classrooms) remembered?
Maybe there would be something hidden of value they would capture for themselves BY going back over the material? Who knows, maybe a Great Idea will spark, that could benefit some future-meeting or event?
Go back over any papers written.... If these were to get tweaked, would they be able to get published? In some jobs/careers, it's a boon to be able to say you published your work.
Anyways.... It's been going on for years?
Some experiences-- like the intensity of stress of going through University-- are LIKE having been going through a traumatic event. Need to decompress! to Process. We do that in our dream states.
I remember what it was like keeping up with full-time courses (double-major and a minor) and trying to have a social life, with a part-time job too. Everything amounted to living like there was a series of emergencies going on!
I hope that going back over notes, or even go to VISIT that university campus with you and 'talk' about the experience, and how it "felt" then, and how it "feels now", could help calm the mind?
Wishing you both great Success!