posted November 06, 2017 08:32 PM            

Feeling nostalgic?

I read some of the meanings of 6 of Cups.

It's human and very natural to reach back into the good parts of the memories.

And with this being the sexy scorpio season??, and wanting to have someone to snuggle the holidays with? (And with tMars working to square tPluto?.. you might want to touch a tiny bit of the reality brakes on, to round this corner? {{is tMars in your 8th (Libra?)}}
yeah... LOL

Anyways.... I really hope you get to sort out WHAT you want to do with this relationship.

Are you going to draw boundaries?
What limits will there be?
How porous can you afford to be emotionally in all this?

If you think (or know) that he only wants this relationship to primarily be about sex, can/would your heart/emotions do that without feeling a sense of inner-isolation and almost-mildsemiviolated inside? Violating your OWN deepest wants needs and desires?

posted November 06, 2017 08:42 PM            

You might need a song antidote after that last posting!!

Lets DANCE IT!! Go sistahs!!!

Dancing to the Key of Life!!

(music) Sir Duke (Stevie Wonder, 1976) [3:57] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6sIjSNTS7Fs

posted November 08, 2017 09:53 AM            

Happy Birthday, Bonnie, from your soul sistahs at Lindaland!

(music) Something to Talk About (Bonnie Raitt) [3:37] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BQLpRBDrhn8

- http://www.astro.com/astro-databank/Raitt%2C_Bonnie

posted January 05, 2018 01:19 PM            

Speaking of my Solar Return for this year... it has Venus, Sun and Saturn conjunct in the 10th house. It definitely feels like I have worked myself up to a more sober and serious approach to relationships, after much disappointment. But I have been afflicted by Venus Neptune aspects in the past few years which explains my misfortunes in relationships. I also have Aquarius Moon on the 12th house cusp, and next year I'll be having a Gemini one (like in my natal) in the 12th house again. I'm already loving the Aquarius one as I feel I have seriously overextended myself regarding my associations with people in the past 2 years, and I'm enjoying a more detached approach and feeling better when I'm by myself, rather than around people. I really just want to be left alone doing my things. It seems this will be the theme for the next 2 years. I really don't want to deal with anyone else, others have become annoying and a source of stress. They always try to impose their opinions and views on me, even though they rarely have my best interest at heart. I have abandoned myself and I need time for myself to get my stuff together.

And speaking of the guy who features in this thread... he has reminded of himself, again. He made sure I get my birthday, Christmas and New Years wishes. But I really could not care less. No, I'm not a sex toy and do not wish to be, ever. It was an unhealthy relationship. Thankfully he is physically very far from me now. Across the globe. So that is actually comforting. But he'd probably try to make his way to me once he is back. I hope I won't be weak enough again to let him in my world.

posted January 05, 2018 03:32 PM            

I'm not that familiar with doing SRs ...

Good for you, for deciding to invest in your self for the next several years.

A woman I do volunteer work with gave up a long association with a man who was 'just using her' and 'toying' with her emotions and sense of belongingness all the time.

She's had a radical transformation occur in her since she decided to finally say no to him.

She is Fabulous, sooo grounded and has a Celebrity kind of charisma, style, and glam-appeal-- now that she is 'owning' her self. She was hired into a supervisory job, making money now.

Amazing change in her when she became Captain of HER OWN ship.

Wishing YOU a Happy Transformative New Year and Attitude