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Topic: A question and a bedroom dream
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Emsie
Knowflake Posts: 978
From: Hungary
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted September 26, 2017 08:05 PM
  
Is it possible for the dreamer to be present in a dream scene twice at the same time? By this I actually mean that in the role of the outsider observing the situation passively as well as in another role being active, but looking and behaving like someone else.A few days ago I had a similar dream, and I suspect that I was present in it this way, but I'm not sure yet: In my dream I am standing in a bedroom. But I feel I am only an observer of what is happening. I can see my love partner laying on the bed seemingly sleeping or trying to. He looks like as if he was tired. There's a girl standing there, she does not look like me at all. She is trying to tease him, but he isn't responding, he does not seem interested at all. Soon, the girl gets closer to him, lays next to him on the bed face to face, continues teasing him by giving kisses, she becomes a little pushy. He slowly responds by giving small kisses, but still seems sleepy and disinterested. At the end, he kisses her shoulder.
Suddenly, I am no longer an observer. I grab the girl by the hair, push her to the wall, and smother her neck with my arm and repress her that she can't scream, roar, or give any voice. IP: Logged |
Ayelet
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posted September 29, 2017 07:28 AM
Hello Emsie,
I don't know whether you were at two places simultanously. You may have been an observer and then leaped to be a participant. I wouldn't negate, though, the possibility of being in tow different locations at the same time in a dream.
It seems like you're worried some girl may tempt your love partner, and you feel possesive of him. Is your love partner more passive then you in your relationship? Can you identify with the more pushy girl, even though she doesn't resemble you at all?IP: Logged |
Emsie
Knowflake Posts: 978
From: Hungary
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted September 29, 2017 01:39 PM
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Originally posted by Ayelet:
Hello Emsie,
I don't know whether you were at two places simultanously. You may have been an observer and then leaped to be a participant. I wouldn't negate, though, the possibility of being in tow different locations at the same time in a dream.
It seems like you're worried some girl may tempt your love partner, and you feel possesive of him. Is your love partner more passive then you in your relationship? Can you identify with the more pushy girl, even though she doesn't resemble you at all?
My partner seems to be the more passive one in our relationship. 2 weeks ago something happened: I basically tried to seduce him, but he didn't seem to be in the mood, and he also rejected me by saying it. Instead, he remained gentle with me. Later, I had kind of a "tower-moment", because I imagined what could have happened if I crossed his personal boundaries, and I realized it could have easily been "rape". This is a very sensitive topic for us, because we've both went through this experience before one way or another, and after the realization (which also hurt me) I promised myself and him as well never to turn into an ego-fueled, selfish wild animal, and never to go into power-plays. As for the girl in the dream: I was very surprised, because she was the girl I met not so long ago via my partner at a mutual friend's b-day party. I really sympathized with this girl, she seems to be the calm type I am, we talked a lot. This is why I suspect that she could have shown my identity in the dream, and when her wild animal side came to the fore, then I immediately stepped into the scene. Somehow I felt that when I pushed her to the wall it reminded me how I restrained my own wild animal inside. But it is also true that I have a (now not so) secret fear of losing him to someone else. This also came to the surface from my subconscious not so long ago. My partner said that we're going to discuss these topics tomorrow together. c: IP: Logged | |
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