posted November 30, 2017 04:13 PM
So ... You realize it was a 'dream' you had? Might be only dealing with the 'fear' of this?
You mention butting heads on this issue with him before?
Was there any specific new clue your subconscious may have picked up on?
After you consider this a bit....
Why not take a new approach, a softer and less defensive posture, and think of a tactful gentle way of Directly bringing this up with him?
Who knows? This act could bring your relationship closer, because it expresses that you desire to go to the 'next level' of intimacy with him?
There's romantic love, and affections.
Sometimes affections begin to grow more serious into the direction of wanting something more?
By having this discussion, you can become clearer on what you want... and find out what he wants?
It's better to know concretely and for-sure, than skirt around the issues?
If you do decide to leave the relationship, you might want to wait until mid-January when Mercury (which is stationing, reading for retrograde) clears its shadow... Otherwise the energy might bring you two back together again?
(?At least, that's what I've heard other people describe the effects of having breakups while Mercury is set to go backwards. Time to re-think things... mull them, review 'why' you were attracted? What traits did you like? Decide what's worth keeping or not... and you will have mined the wealth for what you want to attract in the Future?)
Good to see you...