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posted May 09, 2018 07:01 AM            

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I had a dream my boyfriend was texting this girl at first. He said she was his friend and they were about to meet up to hang out. My gut instinct kicked in and I knew they weren’t just friends. We were in our apartment. I was right. The minute she texted him, I rushed downstairs to tell her he cancelled, hoping she would leave. She was all dolled up. She was short, had medium-length black hair and glasses. At first, she believed me and walked away. But the minute I turn back to go upstairs, she came back waiting at the door. I freaked out because my boyfriend rushed downstairs to meet up with her. His little sister came out of our apartment to ask the girl if she liked makeup. Then his sister went and put on some funny-looking makeup on her, which amused me. But then he grabbed the girl and fixed her up. They were going to the mall. I changed really quick and followed them. While we were all at the mall, I did everything I could to destroy this girl and separate them. I would throw things in her way or people in her way, but somehow, he seemed to still find her. Then at the very end of it, we got to a boutique. He was still out there looking for her. I, on the other hand, was still trying to sabotage her. I threw clothes racks and jewelry at her. She got back up. Then few minutes later, my bf came to her rescue. He caught the clothes I was throwing at her.

I felt defeated. I could not accept what had happened. I woke up right after the dream but it still truly bothers me. In the dream, it was the third time he cheated on me, so I should have just left him. But that wasn’t the case.

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posted May 10, 2018 01:34 PM            

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Do you think this is your "fear" playing out, or, that this IS true in any way?

How could you process or 'position' yourself were the dream to be reflecting either the fear OR the reality?

Are you able to be free-enough yourself to date other guys? .. or is there a kind of 'underneath unspoken agreement' that you are going 'steady' now?

What do you think his reaction would be if you shared these feelings with him?

ADD .. Is he 'cheating' on you in real life (3 times), or does this only happen within your dream realms?

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posted June 16, 2018 06:24 PM            

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posted August 09, 2018 03:17 PM            

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Often, what we dream is actually the reverse.

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posted August 10, 2018 06:17 PM            

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Like Linda said: "Sadness rhymes with gladness."

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posted January 29, 2019 03:37 PM            

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Bump!

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