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DannyCappy
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posted January 19, 2019 03:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DannyCappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had a very disturbing dream tonight if you can help me out I really would aprecciate it.

I was laying on a bed in a room with a big window in front of it.I was about to sleep when I saw through the window a small dot like from a flashlight straight to my room and I felt disturbed because I felt like someone was watching me.The light were at times entering my room.After a few seconds I closed the window.
I came outside to park a car in my garage.

We were living in like a condominium and on the house (the house from where was coming the light) in front of us had a man.He came outside, shacked my hand and we hold each others hands for seconds.It was awkward.I had a bad feeling about him I mean I knew he was the one watching me with that freaking flashlight a few moments ago so I thought he was a lunatic.Then my mom make a joke about it with him about how I take minutes to simply hold a hand..the man always entering the house and coming back all the time and I felt like he was coming with excuses to get close to me and then he invited my mom to see the cows?(wtf) that were on the second floor of his house and I was afraid that he would push her from there.I stood there looking at him carefully expecting to see what would happen.I were staring at him purposely like saying "I'm watching your moves".Nothing happened.After a few minutes that I spent sitted on a staircase (I felt like he was observing me while I was there I felt so umcomfortable) then I told my mom I would sleep and then when I came back to the house I saw the man coming and I had the impression that he was trying to kill my sister with a knife and then I woke up very scared.

This dream was soo disturbing to me that I can't sleep now:/ It woke me and now I'm here.

Details:
the man looked like a football player that I like a little bit.When I saw him I was like "it's him?"


*Ohhh I think I might know a little why I had this dream.Now that I'm a bit more calm I could see better.Anyways I would like to hear your thoughts about it.Please.

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DannyCappy
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posted January 19, 2019 03:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DannyCappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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mirage29
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posted January 19, 2019 04:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi DannyCappy.

From the last thing you said (Football player), do you currently have a crush?? LOL
(Or, are becoming aware of someone crushing on 'you'?)

Anyways, probably not?

Are you feeling cautious (even suspicious) about things going on right now?? Your "intuition" is perceiving 'something' is up-- something is going on???

Suspicious too, of "motives" ..
That's a good thing!
Some people have the Gift of Suspicion.
Treasure your 'spidey sense'.
Proceed "cautiously" .. with what's going on.

Car-- represents what you're doing in life, where you're going.

Cow-- Taurus!!!!
Provision, Wealth, Contentment, Security

Cows are also feminine.. as well as your female sister and mother.

Knife-- (Freudians would say this represents the Sex act??? ..)
You can be getting yourself ready to just "cut to the" heart of some kind of matter in your life?

Mother.. a nurturer …
Someone who watches out for you---
(Someone who can also be a 'meddler too'???? She tries to be match-maker?? LOL
Provides all kinds of advices-- sought-for by you, or NOT!! Lol)

.. She's conveying the message that you are spending "a little too much time," that you're getting too close??
.. Needing to be a little more aware of what you're holding on to??

Or!..your WANT of a steady stable strong provider in your life? (including Love?)

Could be too, you have an Ambitious part of you, eyeing some kind of Opportunity, dreaming of it (2nd Floor), that will BRING you the Security that YOU want, for yourself.

It's "near" you .. (you need to "cross-over" to the other side (decision), divided by a natural boundary {the road you travel}. Would require a 'move' or for you to leave the domain of your family.

Light shining into private bedroom--
Reputation worries?
Bed is 'money' too, kept awake by money worries??

Make sure that whatever you are doing is on the up-and-up..
Dream big, Have Integrity. …
Take Courage, Go Cautiously.

Enjoy the BEST of LUCK, Love, and Wealth!!!

humor!!
(and a *BIG hug*.. Good to see you again!!)

(music) The Jefferson's TV theme song (old TV show, lyrics) [1:15] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fIByI9ty6pA

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Ayelet
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posted January 19, 2019 07:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ayelet     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi DannyCappy,
So I understand you already know why you had this dream. If you want to share your thoughts, it could be very interesting to read, as your interpretation is probably the most knowledgeable, you being the dreamer.
Mirage has already made a thorough analysis. I will just ask you: what is troubling you at this time? Do you feel someone intrudes your privacy? Since the man you dreamt of is someone you liked, it could be (I only suggest) that you have some fears regarding love and intimacy, maybe also of sexuality, and you fear being vulnerable and getting hurt because of your feelings. Maybe you dreamt your female relatives were in danger at the hands of this man because it was too scary to put yourself in their place, so your mom and sister were actually representing you. I wonder about parking the car. You drive - you have control. You park the car, arrive home - you are supposedly safe. But you don't feel safe at home. Why do you think that is? I would love to read your thoughts, and whether mine resonated with you.

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posted January 19, 2019 07:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh sorry for interfering.

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posted January 19, 2019 07:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ayelet     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mirage29:
Oh sorry for interfering.

What?! What are you talking about? I was saying you contributed greatly!

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posted January 19, 2019 08:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh Okay. Thank you much for that.
I just feel sometimes you say things better than I do.

Have a good weekend!

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posted January 19, 2019 10:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DannyCappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mirage

Hi how have you been? No I don't think I have a crush now lol but the football player is handsome I felt like it was him at first but then progressing on the dream I didn't feel like it was him anymore.It's hard to explain.

Thanks a lot my dear ❤ I was missing the car part I had no clue about it but it makes so much sense when it gets mixed with the others parts.

I will reflect into your observation about the knife .I don't know yet what it means
You came up with some funny observations.I really do worry a lot about my reputation hahaha

I will put the info here about my perspective about the whole dream

Hi Aylet
Thanks a lot ❤
Yes I have issues with intimacy.I feel afraid about falling in love,having a commited relationship although I really want to experience it.

Interesting.I found out I had a masculine energy (animus) out on control for long years!

I will talk a little more about my relationship with men below check it out!

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posted January 19, 2019 10:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DannyCappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Please don't quote it 💜 This is the way I perceived the dream.Lately I've been trying to be aware of my thoughts and emotions,why I act in certain ways...etc I'm really looking inside.

The open window

might represent being "exposed".
There's a part of me that might be feeling uncomfortable with that investigation.The intruder trying to see me I believe it's actually myself.

The small dot of light

might represent the "light" I'm putting on the "darkness".Being conscious (light) about what is unconscious (the dark room).The dot is small so it seems to be coming from some distance.Anyways at times the light enters the room a little bit.

I searched for the symbolism of a flashlight and one of the meanings it's looking for discovery,insight.

holding hands with the stranger

Introducing myself to ME,to what I don't know about me.Again came the feeling of being uncomfortable.Maybe it's being afraid of the bad traits I must see and not like about myself?

ME staring at the man feeling worried about his actions.Letting him know I'm observing his every move

=Worried about my own actions?
=Letting that part ignored knows that I'm observing myself.

Sitting on the staircase

Waiting on my journey.

In the dream I was waiting to come to sleep = maybe having the desire to comeback to the comfortable position of my room with closed windows?

I think ME having a bad feeling about the man might also represent my challenges with men in general.But something unconscious.
They say girls that have a difficult relatioship with their father figure have a poor figure of men on the unconscious.

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posted January 20, 2019 12:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ayelet     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
DannyCappy,
So you see it as self exploration. You actually can interpret all characters appearing in a dream as different parts of the dreamer's psyche. And there are people who take this approach a step further, and interpret their waking lives that way... Other people we meet being mirrors to who we are. In addition to being individuals.
So I'm glad you came to terms with your dream and it doesn't disturb you anymore... We all have our shadow. But there wasn't a shadow if there wasn't a light, right? Talking about the father figure, psychologically it can influence your perception of males in general, but if you, or if one heals the wound caused by stressful aspects of a charged connection, the connection to other male figures will heal. And one can do it even without confronting the "real" dad, or making peace with him externally. It could be totally inner work one does inside himself or herself. You can meditate on any person that has been in your life and forgive them, make peace with them. Actually, it seems to me sometimes it's even easier then when you are actually in close physical proximity with the person with whom the tension or friction exist, and you need to cope with them! But inner forgiveness and acceptance of the other person (and thus accepting and forgiving yourself! Even if, as it appears, you did nothing wrong...) seem to me very beneficial even then, and can sometimes work miracles

Mirage,
You surely know how appreciated you are. You give so much of yourself, and in such a personal, loving, and many times funny way. I am grateful for your contribution here (as I am always glad to interact with you wherever)

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posted January 21, 2019 02:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I second Ayelet's thoughts on mirage.

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posted January 21, 2019 05:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
omigosh...
Thank you so much.

I've been in a crisis of self-worth-- realizing some of my limitations, feeling so incredibly limited by my circumstances, and sad to realize that it may never be able to get resolved.

Yeah,
I want you to each know how MUCH I genuinely care about you--
I try to do my best, and, maybe I "miss" from time to time.
Thank you for your Kindness, and all the feedback I receive. Helps me improve.

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posted January 21, 2019 05:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So cool to watch the dreamer unpack their own dream, after we've given it a try.

Good job, DannyCappy.

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posted February 16, 2019 08:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by mirage29:
So cool to watch the dreamer unpack their own dream, after we've given it a try.

Good job, DannyCappy.


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DannyCappy
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posted March 19, 2019 11:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DannyCappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks a lot Aylet!!!
This explanation helped me to think about new solutions to my issues.


Thanks a lot Mirage.This is the only dream I could interpret.Most of them are so difficult to understand!

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posted April 03, 2019 09:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DannyCappy:
Thanks a lot Aylet!!!
This explanation helped me to think about new solutions to my issues.


Thanks a lot Mirage.This is the only dream I could interpret.Most of them are so difficult to understand!


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