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Topic: Keeping have terrible dreams after ex & I ended
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Saille
Knowflake Posts: 1088
From: Stubborn Aries
Registered: Apr 2015
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posted September 06, 2019 06:09 PM
  
I've had two dreams so far.
In both instance, I asked to dream about J.The 1st was us living together, and him bringing home the girl he was sleeping with, to live with us. At first she was a friend i knew, then her face changed to someone I didn't know. I woke up, with a really sad heavy heart. Second dream, I again asked to have a dream about him,..I'm lying in bed with him, and I fall asleep and later wake up to find I'd been raped by his roommate George, and I couldn't find J. I'm taking a nap now, and will ask to have a dream about him to see what happens... Has anyone else dealt with this, and does it mean anything? Thanks IP: Logged |
Ayelet
Moderator Posts: 3104
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 06, 2019 11:49 PM
Hello Saille 
It seems to me both dreams begin with an idyllic union between you and J, and then something bad, which might signify the breakup, happens. In the first dream you are living together, and then the topic of betrayal comes up. The woman appears like a friend of yours at first, but then changes to a stranger. It could be a symbol to the way in which J, until recently a close connection, turns into a stranger. Which thing makes you feel so sad, since it is as if you are losing the very memory of your former closeness.In the second dream you and J are lying together, you fall asleep, and upon waking up you discover his roomate raped you and J has gone.
This dream might prove similar to the first. You fall asleep, meaning, you might have failed to notice something, was blind, perhaps, to some hidden problem. when you finally woke up, you found out you were raped by someone else. This could also mean, like in the interpretation I gave to the first dream, that upon waking up from some illusion you find out you were violated, and by a stranger. The roomate could signify J as a stranger, someone you thought you knew well, but turned out to not be that person you thought you knew. I am deeply sorry for your pain and wish you to find happiness. I don't know whether your dream reflect facts, fears or both. Whatever the case may be, may you find happiness in the form of Love, whether an old flame, a recent flame or a totally new one, that is both new and familiar in the best sense. IP: Logged |
Saille
Knowflake Posts: 1088
From: Stubborn Aries
Registered: Apr 2015
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posted September 07, 2019 12:20 AM
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Saille
Knowflake Posts: 1088
From: Stubborn Aries
Registered: Apr 2015
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posted September 07, 2019 12:22 AM
Thank you A,That is exactly what happened, everything was great, and then he receives a letter from his ex asking to get back together, I don't know if he's back with her, or still mulling things over, but I knew it wasn't something I wanted to wait around and find out who he decided on. But everything you said makes perfect sense. Thank you for your kinds words...I do hope I find what I'm looking for as well. -S IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 08, 2019 05:25 PM
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Randall
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posted October 01, 2019 03:26 PM
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