posted November 24, 2019 01:15 PM            

I was with the girl in the same room at a type of slumber party, she wasn't paying much attention to me even though we were all together, and if she had she was trying her hardest to pretend not to-- on her phone kind of checked-out. she's leaves the room at some point, and a person at the party asks how do we know one another, and I explain to her kindly "actually, that's the girl dating my Ex now." as I say this, she walks back in the room angered, as if I had said something different in public to imply he and I are meant to be with one another, to which another person, neutral to either party, chimed in my defense "She said her Ex." This girl huffs off, and I couldn't help but follow her just to repeat ,"but you won't be together for long, you will break up, its not love you share." What startled me was that she had nothing to say back, she was fuming and wouldn't speak anymore, gathering her things to leave. It made me nervous especially to see her react arrogantly yet so silently, even made me nervous that I couldn't control myself by saying those things to her as she left, thats when I woke myself up.

posted November 25, 2019 10:43 AM            

I think in this dream your negative emotions following the break up could be projected back to you through the girl's behaviour towards you. Correct me if I'm wrong, this is just a suggestion, but maybe you would have wanted to ignore that girl's existence, the way she initially ignored yours. Later on, the anger over the situation lashes out from her direction. By the way, do you know this girl? Is this behaviour typical of her, or is better understood as a projection of your own emotions?
Telling her at the end what you did can have, in mine eyes, two possible meanings: one, you want the ex back and it is important to you to inform her she can't have your guy for long. This meaning is pretty obvious, on the surface kind of interpretation. What could be lying beneath, though, is the second layer, which means you actually acknowledge the break up, seeing no future for you and your ex together (in this sense, it is as if you were not telling what you told the girl at the end to the girl, but rather it was an insight about your own relationship...)

posted November 25, 2019 01:34 PM            

What I found intriguing was her reacting to me referencing him as my "Ex" because I consciously choose that term in the dream to be considerate of her time with him, because I do believe we could reunite. *

We don't know one another. She's likely a lovely gal in person, and mean her no harm because I do see her as a supportive element in Love, if only as a buffer for his own evolution. Yes, your surface reading is very correct. The alternative reading, in this case I wouldn't go so far as to say considering the circumstance of the rootwork. Normally I would with my own interest in analytical psychology, but in this case--my reason for the post--perhaps not.

Ah and your note 'about wishing to ignore her existence'. In the dream she wasn't ignoring me per say, only that I was highly aware that she was "here" (lucid) and waiting to see how we would interact as the dream commenced, as we hadn’t interacted yet despite being together, er so that is how it went down. We don't know one another, and so it was said when asked how do I know her. The more I write this out, I am giving some precedence to this particular sentiment about wishing her gone and the possibility of that from her "behavior" at the start, however, I have dreamt my entire life, nightly, to know what might be of the unconscious and the conscious; none of what transpired was narratively nonsensical, like say a train derailing at the drop of a hat. My intuition is fairly strong, especially for what goes on the 8th house. The 8th rules sleep, dreams and the astral plane.

posted November 27, 2019 02:19 PM            

The dream could be the result of your spell, then. You encountered her in the astral plane, perhaps. Do you know how she looks like? If you do, it doesn't say much still. If you don't, you may check whether she looks like she does in the dream (yet I guess you know her looks, social media and all).
So, your words might have arrived at her subconscious, dreaming self. whether a break up between the parties shall ensue, time will tell.

I personally am not pro this kind of magic, even if the intervention is but emphasizing an existing pattern. Even if it's for the best that they split, and even if he divinely belongs to you. This is because I do not wish to interfere with the free will of no one.

I don't think I have anything to add by the traditional way of interpretation I gave; it might fit or it might not. If he is yours divinely, than it's obviously doesn't fit, right? You know.

I wish you a blessed love life!