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vansio
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posted November 22, 2020 02:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vansio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
not sure how to write this one out, it's been going on for a couple of years now.

there is a guy I've never met in person, whom I've barely talked to, though we know mutual people. for some reason, he started following me online when I used to have an Instagram profile with only one follower, my best friend, so it was quite jarring to have a random, real person also following out of the blue. note: I even forced an unfollow on him (reason being to cancel, he’s just some stranger what does it matter), only for him to refollow me later-on once he recognized the disconnect. odd.

dreamt of him. it got to the point that I had three dreams of him within the span of the year that I eventually reached out to engage directly. he has a girlfriend, so I mentioned to please not misinterpret this as an advance, only that the amount of times I've dreamed of him is what I'm curious about, borrowing his image so to speak. He was curious too, asked me more, and thanked me for respect in his relationship status.

Anyway, this was last year. and although I've since gone offline, I still dream of him, fairly often. last night I had another dream of him, and I woke up now just wondering how the heck to ever interpret this. by now this is the seventh or eighth dream.

the dreams are all the same: while considerate he has a girlfriend (she's not actually in the dream, I am conscious), being very respectful in this regard, us both being friendly and affectionate with one another. I could go into minor details, though they revolve in the same way.

May be that we have an astral relationship, where we get to experience one another, energy, without needing to involve the present.


when I reached out last year, had also asked for his birth-data, so including synastry and comp here as well. http://imgur.com/a/h3GTe6E http://imgur.com/a/YhnZ0Na What stands out to me as telling for astral behavior is the composite's 8th House Mercury/NN conjunction.

Besides the astrology, of which I could care less bc there is no real relation, any insight on how to proceed with comprehending these consistent dreams? having an astral relationship?

In the dream last night, his girlfriend was also there (this is new). the narrative is, they were too on a vacation and I happened to be in this town as well and ran into them. She was unassuming and kind, asked me a question about what brought me here, small chit chat, and thereafter, he and I began walking, spending our time with one another—which is always so pleasant, affectionate, and incredibly playful. much love.

apparently, I really like him but has nothing to do with waking life

begets the question about whether his face is being borrowed by my dæmon. either way, these interactions are satisfying and wholesome, perpetually leaves me impressed the entire next day, likely because I am dreaming of such an experience. 💔

second to last dream, was finally and unexpectedly, after all these years, a sexual one. meeting up secretly in a hotel in Greece (where I happened to be irl then), shocked me as well. considering I had recently taken a large step into unknown by moving back to EU, surely, these dreams could have little to do with him, and only symbolic markers. but they’re usually so consistently tender (rather than exemplary), I can only imagine what for. life in a different dimension.

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vansio
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posted November 22, 2020 04:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vansio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
From an astrological perspective, NN is going through my 12th house (hence my latest foreign travels), but this isn’t particularly special to me considering my natal SN is already placed there [Nodal Half-Return transit]

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posted November 22, 2020 05:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I once had a dream like this, about an actor that I’ve never had a thing for. We were really in love, married too, and that dream left me with the best feeling. In reality, the actor seems to be a commitment-phobe (he played Ben in “Felicity” if you want to look him up). I’m not his type (blonde and much younger than he is). The dream came out of nowhere, and I’ve never had it again, but I also never forgot that feeling. Really warm, happy, and safe.

I had a similar dream to yours last week, but it was very quick and didn’t get very far. It was just very “intimate” but that was about the Taurus who is in my life, and living overseas, so that’s understandable. I hardly ever dream about him, for some reason. I wish I had a proper response for you, more helpful.

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posted November 22, 2020 05:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It could relate to a couple (or few) things. Yes, you both could be from the same Soul group and whose Spirits have had Love based and positive experiences with each other. Soul friends if you will. Naturally there is an attraction on a deeper level, but because it can't be expressed in this dimension, it has to take place in the nonphysical.

Simultaneously it might also be a way of your subconscious trying to get certain messages across to you. I've noticed that you seem to have rather strong feelings and beliefs about what people should or shouldn't do when they are in a relationship and commitment.

Perhaps your Higher self is trying to tell you that Love transcends some of your beliefs about what is and isn't appropriate? And that we can be in love with more than one person at a time, and that's ok provided the other person doesn't get hurt.

This isn't so much related to the dream, but rather just throwing the observation out there in case it relates. I have noticed that in a percentage of people (a slight majority) with very strong Cancer, there is often a strong, usually unconsciously driven, tendency to want and/or be intensely attracted to what they can't have. It's possible that the dream is also speaking to an unconscious aspect of you that is similar.

And it could be that there is something about him that your Higher self is using as a symbol for you and something that you may be starting to positively integrate--because in these dreams, you are becoming more and more intimate (merging with) him in a positive and pleasant way. What does he symbolize to you?

Don't really know which, if any, is applicable--the dreamer is the best person to interpret the dream. The interesting thing about dreams though, is that they can have multiple, layered, simultaneous meanings and messages.

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posted November 22, 2020 07:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vansio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
erased what I wrote previously because of regret in potentially sounding rude and ungrateful. my apology Galactic. it may surprise you, I naturally identify as polyamorous, though don’t want to talk more about this.

thank you, both, for the engagement. enjoy thinking about the underlying topics presented regardless, ultimately from a place of detachment. A lot to cover.

dream interpretation is such a vulnerable practice... the more I think of it out loud the more it kind of depresses me, how such a small dream of enjoyment and affection can stand as a stark contrast to waking reality and potential underlying complexes.

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GalacticCoreExplosion
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posted November 22, 2020 12:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You are very correct--rather surprised by that. Need to work on my intuitive tuning in apparently... (actually, wasn't trying to tune in--I try not to much of the time to respect the privacy of others, unless they specifically ask for help).

Anyways, hope you figure out what it means.

And, don't be so hard on yourself. It's ok to be vulnerable and be affected by these things. If the first interpretation is the main one, well the nonphysical is actually MORE real than this physical level. This physical level is the most illusionary one (besides the temporal hellish levels). So no wonder why this connection affects you. It's ok.

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GalacticCoreExplosion
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posted November 22, 2020 01:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also, I apologize for presupposing too much.

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posted December 09, 2020 06:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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