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posted January 25, 2021 11:06 PM            

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This one is a pretty fresh dream I thought I'd like to share with you c:

So, in my dream there was a guy who was interested in me, and it was mutual on my side, too. We were 9n the verge of starting something new, but there was some kind of trouble I felt guilty about for a few hours while the guy was away.
Then, this trouble turned out to be some type of misunderstanding. He was suddenly standing at the door peeking at me with this guilty puppy face sniffing towards me and ready for apologising to me.

After that, suddenly I found us hugging each other very tightly on top of a water slide which was light blue. We were like some kind of bundle, in a position of down with our heads. I remember, while we started to slide down, he even said out loud exactly what I was thinking, that this exactly looked and felt like a womb and us being born as we slid. Heavy water was also pouring down, for a few times I even gasped because of too much water. I can recall he told me something like "this woman obliged me to do xyz for the child", but I didn't understand it clearly.

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posted January 26, 2021 08:14 AM            

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posted January 28, 2021 07:37 AM            

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It sounds like a dream on your other half. You may have fixed, in the dream, whatever went wrong between you two at one time or another. There are thete a happy reconciliation, unity, much emotion and rebirth.

What do you think brought this kind of dream now? Could it be a yearning, together with things falling into place in your life?

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posted March 26, 2021 07:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Ayelet:
It sounds like a dream on your other half. You may have fixed, in the dream, whatever went wrong between you two at one time or another. There are thete a happy reconciliation, unity, much emotion and rebirth.

What do you think brought this kind of dream now? Could it be a yearning, together with things falling into place in your life?

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I think it can also be partly because of that. Otherwise, I feel I still love him as a person, but not necessarily *in love* with him anymore (which would definitely require rekindling from my part), but I'm still open to resolve things between us - either for reuniting and being together, or for closure and moving on. c:

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posted March 27, 2021 07:02 AM            

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I misunderstood the guy in your dream to be unknown to you from life so far. You're not in love with him, as said, but so much water indicates much emotion, perhaps even overwhelmingly so. I wonder where you feel obligation is taking place in your connection. What is the "child", the outcome? Do you have any expectations from him at this point? The water slide is fun. Rebirth - a renewal of the relationship, maybe in another form.

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posted April 03, 2021 04:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Ayelet:
I misunderstood the guy in your dream to be unknown to you from life so far. You're not in love with him, as said, but so much water indicates much emotion, perhaps even overwhelmingly so. I wonder where you feel obligation is taking place in your connection. What is the "child", the outcome? Do you have any expectations from him at this point? The water slide is fun. Rebirth - a renewal of the relationship, maybe in another form.

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Our connection ended very abruptly 8 years ago. Nothing interesting has happened between us so far, only this silent, mystical recognition of each other via eye contact and the longing. The ending opened the gates of buried hurts and painful emotions, no wonder the overwhelming emotions and the pouring water... Our connection is very intense and heavy, so heavy it's literally tiring physically.

I expect him to reappear in my life in divine timing as there's been loads signs and readings always pointing at it without exception. Even some of my dreams. I'd be more than happy and willing to restart with him, only it would require some time to become friends first, then rekindling of feelings on my side due to the heaviness still present at this time. There are so many heavy and painful things we would have to talk through. We'd definitely be in need of lightness and playfulness.

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posted April 03, 2021 07:33 PM            

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Waiting for divine timing sounds good. In the dream it is he who appears at your door. Could it be it is he who needs to make the first step towards reconciliation? Perhaps. Or maybe him appearing at your doorstep in the dream IS, in fact, his way to say 'I'm sorry'. It sounds like, while on the outside not much has happened, a lot has taken place innerly, and on the emotional realm a future reconciliation and union is being prepared. But that is not enough to know for sure when and how such a reunion would manifest. Even if both of you are innerly willing, for this to materialize would need the combined free will and action of the two of you. It seems the dream implies the root for your trouble and seperation was a misunderstanding. Thus, understanding is what both of you might need. And maybe you already understand each other better than before, or else the dream shows you the approach you'd need to cultivate if you're ever going to be together in any form of relationship.

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posted April 04, 2021 04:34 AM            

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Yeah, the ball is in his court, he has to be the one taking a step towards me as I've already expressed back then what I truly felt and wanted. He ran away from facing me and his feelings by ghosting me. Major denial and self-deluding on his side, he probably tried not to pay attention to me and the whole thing anymore by labelling our connection and saying to himself that it was nothing more than attraction and chemistry. Not to mention it went against his core values and morals as he is religious and had a rigid belief system. The whole ghosting thing felt like as if a part of me was cut out. My world literally collapsed.

And I brought up divine timing, because I don't really have social media accounts anymore where he could easily reach out to me. Basically, he cannot reach me anywhere, I only have LinkedIn. It would take some work on the side of the universe to bring us both together again by some kind of serendipitous event - which also happened when we first met each other. c:

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posted April 05, 2021 06:43 PM            

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Even if you don't yet come back together, and even if he doesn't yet appear one day at your doorstep, it seems like the dream suggests both a closure and a renewal on the psychic and emotional level, so that it helps release emotions that resolve this "unfinished business".

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