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Isis
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posted September 15, 2004 02:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Isis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've been reading through a lot of my ancient history books of late, and thinking about historical movements of population, overpopulation and it's results on civilizations in antiquity. It got me to thinking about parallels in our civilization (in the west - I'd like to keep this to the west for now if possible please).

As the population increases, of course it follows that there isn't enough land for everyone. Sure, you can get a box twelve stories in the air, but I'm talking about land itself.

Living in a box like bees in a hive, well, it's demoralizing IMO, and disconnects humans from nature. I know many a philosophy book has been written on the subject - the result of technology and industrialization on man's connectedness to nature, etc.

It seems to me as population increases, people's ability to NOT live in a hive is going to decrease as the cost of owning land increases exponentially. I find this to be a scary, unfortunate and disheartening propsition for our future.

I was wondering what people's thoughts on the subject are.

**Please keep partisan accusations out of this discussion.**

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posted September 15, 2004 02:49 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think overpopulation is a myth, the idea is intended to scare people, but the world can carry at least 50 billion more people and animals. I have complete faith that our basic resources are limitless and nature will never be lost. As you can see I'm highly unconcerned about overpopulation. It's not the reality that exists.

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Isis
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posted September 15, 2004 04:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Isis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, then you must live in a small town with lots of available land to buy. I'm not talking about material resources (food, minerals, etc), I'm talking about the availability of land. When I refer to overpopulation, I'm talking about how much viable physical space there is within a reasonable distance to employment, not how many people you can pack like ants into a high rise, and still be able to feed and water them...

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LibraSparkle
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posted September 15, 2004 07:35 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know that it's possible to make this a partisan dispute... really? Hmmm... I guess I'll have to sit back and see what unfolds Anyways...

Are you speaking of current population, or future?

I can definately see this becoming an issue in the future. But, I've also thought about this subject myself recently and was wondering if the gay movement (for lack of a less corny cliché) might have an impact on that... or maybe they're supposed to be having an impact on it. *shrug* Just an idea I was mowing over.

Also, I was thinking about how many couples I know that have chosen not to have children. This is also a pretty common movement among couples of my generation (I was born in 75).

I have to agree with you about living like bees. I'm in an apartment now... second floor . I have to go way out of my way just to put my bare feet in the grass (which is something I really enjoy doing and try to do as often as possible).

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Isis
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posted September 15, 2004 07:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Isis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I guess I'm speaking in general, both for now and the future. You do bring up a good point about the gay movement. It's a pity people of our/your (1970 here) generation don't want to have children. Although it may be timing - as they age a bit they might change their minds - people born around the same time as you are in their late twenties, so in the next ten years is when the hard-core 'biological clock' thing may kick in, as they're more settled in their careers and don't view having children as a restriction but more of a joy.

Anywho, I guess my biggest concern is that while urban populations increase and competition for land w/in employment centers increase as well, that we'll be forced into a hive-like environment (see Japan for a prime example of this).

I wonder what can be done so that we can preserve the American Dream (owning your own piece of dirt - which IMO doesn't include box-like condos) w/out people having to drive several hours each way to work.

The area I live in, housing is just plain untouchable in areas that are FAR from affluent, and it all has to do with demand, low interest rates, and proximity to work. It seems like, in major cities, we're being forced into boxes and so many don't even seem to be bothered by it, they are just grateful they can buy something at all, which I think is an dangerously acquiescing attitude to adopt. Meanwhile, developers are getting rich selling air...

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LibraSparkle
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posted September 15, 2004 07:50 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"selling air"


We do have a whole lot more land than Japan. It's possible we could reach that same problem here, but it would take a REALLY long time.

We still have a lot of rural areas here. Even the Hawaiian Islands are mostly rural (excepting Honolulu, the only major city).

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Isis
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posted September 15, 2004 09:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Isis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
...and Hawaii is VERY expensive...for everything from gas to milk to real estate...

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quiksilver
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posted September 15, 2004 10:59 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
From what I've read, the population in the western world is actually decreasing.... Europe has a negative population growth rate and the US is ever inching closer to that as well. I think some areas are highly congested b/c people flock to centers of commerce or the coastlines or what have you but all in all, I was under the impression that the western world is in fact on the decline.....

Anyone have any stats on this? I guess I should do my own search as well...

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quiksilver
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posted September 15, 2004 11:06 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.csa.com/hottopics/ern/01mar/overview.html

Here's an interesting link I found which points to the fact that developed countries such as the US have either low or negative growth rates while underdeveloped countries have much higher rates of growth. Will see what else I can find....

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quiksilver
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posted September 15, 2004 11:10 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.cia.gov/cia/publications/factbook/geos/us.html

Here's another really cool, informative link. The US pop. growth is .92% currently. That's less than 1%. Seems pretty low. Some other really interesting stats are included as well. For ex., Roman Catholics make up 28% of the pop., Protestant 56%, Jews 2%, other 4% and none 10%. Interesting..... you guys should check it out!

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Isis
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posted September 15, 2004 11:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Isis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do those figures take immigration into account, or just population growth re: birthrate vs deathrates?

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quiksilver
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posted September 16, 2004 12:04 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmm...not sure but I suppose I can find out....

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LibraSparkle
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posted September 16, 2004 11:38 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Birth rate:
14.13 births/1,000 population (2004 est.)

Death rate:
8.34 deaths/1,000 population (2004 est.)

So, the birthrate is slightly higher than the death rate. That does indicate a [slight] population increase.

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LittleLadyLeo
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posted September 16, 2004 11:53 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just wait about twenty years LS. As the Baby Boomers start dying off, after bleeding Social Security dry, and their children have to take on the responsibility of caring for them, leaving no time or resouces to have children of their own. **That's how to make it a partisan issue **


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posted September 16, 2004 11:57 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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Isis
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posted September 16, 2004 12:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Isis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't think that growth rate factors in immigration. I know for example that France has a negative growth rate becuase they're not having a lot of children, however immigration changes that from a negative to a positive growth rate. Just wondering how it factors in in the US. The reason I bring it up is that immigration puts pressures on housing demand, contributing to the increase in cost and (lack of) availability.

Hmm, there's something to consider - boomers sucking the system dry and their children dry, thus removing the motivation to reproduce themselves...well, it's not like anyone my age really ever expected there to be any SS for us anyway. But if we shove all the aging boomers into rest homes, then maybe it will free up some housing in urban areas for us younger folk, and still leave us some time and resources to reproduce ourselves

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posted September 16, 2004 11:57 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, that it what I found in my search. A slight population increase is present at the moment: .92% I wonder how long it will be before it starts to dip into the negative....

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QueenofSheeba
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posted September 17, 2004 02:39 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let the science shine, peeps. Here's how it works: people in wealthy countries have comparatively few babies, leading to decreases in population. For example, in Australia the birth rate is 1/4 of a baby per woman. In other words, only one in four women there is having a baby. This should lead to a halving of the population every generation.

People in poor countries, on the other hand, tend to have lots of babies (complicated reasons, I'll explain why if I need to). The natural thing for all these babies to do once they've grown up is to immigrate to rich places like norteamericana o europa. In rich countries they continue having lots of children for a generation or two, which keeps the population rising.

When you say you want to talk only about the West, Isis, it seems rather like you mean you want only to discuss white citizens of Western countries. This neglects the fact that most Western nations rest on the shoulders of non-white people, many of them first- or second-generation immigrants. Basically, poor countries produce an excess of people which they ship out to rich countries as cheap labor.

So on to overpopulation: Star, our planet could sustain many more people than it currently does if only we were better organized, in our political and social structures, and in the use of the resources we have. I believe we do have an overpopulation problem, but one that we teach us how to manage ourselves more efficiently.

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Eleanore
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posted September 17, 2004 10:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Eleanore     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Isis, the current trend towards "hive-like" living scares me, too. I shudder at the idea of living in a place like New York City. That is not an insult to the city, or the folks who live there, but I personally could not imagine being so far removed from nature ... which is why I don't live there.
I also feel that a connection with nature is important to soul growth and spirituality and any number of philosophical ideals/aspirations.
Nevertheless, I also feel that, while unsavory to me, the "building up" trend is necessary for now. Certainly, there was a time when people had farms, worked the land and lived off of it ... that was the common life. Eventually, merchants and artisans began to congregate ... the city was born, or rather, the town which evolved into the city. I feel that this is the natural progression of capitalism. It's a trade off. I don't think it would be possible to have a capitalistic society without the majority of its people living in cities. It's precisely because people are no longer self-sufficient (as in, living off the land) and packed together in cities that competition between businesses is inevitable and a force for growth. Thus, technology advances as the demand for bigger and "better" things grows.
I feel that perhaps, for now, it is better this way. As it is, country living is becoming a dream, something to strive for for many; many people choose to retire in the countryside. My hope is that, once most people in America are forced by their own circumstances and ambitions to live in cities all packed together like rats that respect for nature will grow once more as the desire for "things" eventually becomes old.
I realize that perhaps, Isis, you did not necessarily mean country living, but I figured that you did mean more land than the tiny lots that generally mark suburbia.
It may sound pessimistic, but I don't think the majority of people are responsible enough nowadays to care for any substantial amount of land, nor do they have the time. Even on tiny suburban lots you rarely see (or rather, I've rarely seen) any effort towards gardening or even basic lawn/land maintenance.
I think that if someone wants to own land, which is still possible, they should work hard and smart enough to make enough money and then compromise, as necessary, to live on it. It is a privilege. It may not always have been so, but it is now, and thank goodness. I'd rather have only people living on land that can afford to maintain it, time and money wise, than a bunch of people with a bunch of land that will deteriorate from a lack of proper care and use.
I also think that our national forests and parks should continue to be preserved, regardless of land availability because, in the long run, a forest or mountain or valley or beach or what you have that has been around since before anyone can remember remaining healthy and beautiful outweighs any one person's desire to have a patch of land to call their own for 80 some odd years.
We will learn to appreciate this Earth one way or the other, lol. If we couldn't do so while we could each get our grubby little hands on it, then perhaps we will once its land becomes too scarce to privately own.
Someone mentioned it on another thread I believe, but I do feel that eventually capitalism will cease to rule. I am not trying to make this a partisan issue, nor even a political issue. It's simply that I feel people's ambitions and aspirations will one day change to include a true respect for nature and a desire to once more be in constant communion with it ... life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, whatever that may be for you. I, for one, don't think people can be truly happy, or rather, as happy as they could be, without a connection to nature ... it's human nature. I am not trying to state that as a fact, just as my opinion.

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If anyone is still with me after that, I'd like to address the issue of overpopulation. I realize that some comments I'm about to make will probably upset somebody so I'd like to apologize for that in advance.
I don't feel that overpopulation due to birth rates increasing is going to be a problem world-wide.
This is a quote I agree with whole-heartedly, and although it refers to "The Deluge", I feel it is relevant here. "It is barely possible that the human Mass Subconscious during that era anticipated world devastation and reacted with an ancient version of our own current sexual revolution to ensure the survival of the human species.
If so, we may speculate that the same Mass Subconscious foresees another cataclysmic event in the near future and has been seeking a margin of tremendous numbers to make certain that (at least) some will survive and carry on. After all, only one sperm out of millions that swam to fertilize the egg in your mother's womb ever succeeded in becoming you! Nature is profligate. Without this margin of tremendous numbers to ensure survival, man could easily go the way of the mammoth, the mastodon, or the dinosaur - this time on a global scale!"
I do not mean to be an alarmist with that quote (from Astrology: The Space Age Science by Joseph F. Goodavage) but merely to suggest that there is a possibility that there is some undercurrent of purpose to the seeming madness of overpopulation.
Isis, you did bring up a very interesting point in regards to immigration and, for the sake of simplicity, I'm only going to refer to the United States in regards to this issue. Someone brought the issue up of racial and national karma (as opposed to personal karma) in another thread recently. I feel that the immigration issue is a perfect example of these kinds of karma. The United States was founded upon perhaps the greatest ideals ever conceived of for any nation and can easily become, and is already in some people's minds, the best, most powerful, and richest country in the world. I am not denying that at all, and I also see the potential for greatness that remains to be achieved even now ... it could always get better, no? Nevertheless, this country was born out of conflict (it could be argued that all countries are but, again, we're sticking to the U.S. here). And not just any conflict ... immigrants, the "white men", came from their native lands, rebelled against their homelands (including the very bloody Revolutionary War), and took this land from it's current inhabitatants, the indians, by force. Today, such an invasion would be tantamount to genocide ... I don't think that anybody can deny that, not only were the indians killed in alarming proportions, but they were regarded as inferior because of their race and religion. On top of that, these whites also owe a large amount of the early successes of the nation to slave labor ... black slaves who were forced to immigrate from Africa to serve the purposes of this country.
Now, before anybody jumps down my throat for pointing out the obvious, please step back a second and try to view this from a larger scale, objectively.
In order for America to be born the way she was, immigration was necessary and racial conflicts arose. I'm sure it could've worked out a million other ways, but it didn't.
Hence, I think it is only logical that the current and or future state of the country is going to be faced with those same issues again. I think it is our national karma to endure immigration that threatens to take away what we hold dear, as we as a people devoted to the idea of this country successfully did to others, and that racial karma is also going to take a part as the white race sees itself invaded by other races which, interestingly enough, tend to be mostly from South America ... peoples who still carry indian blood in their veins.
Before anybody flames me about punishments or whatever, I would like to say that I don't see this as a punishment at all. It could very well prove to be a reward. Nothing remains constant, everything changes. It is how we react to this situation that will decide whether we learn our lessons, collectively, through pain or pleasure ... just as with personal karma.
I do feel that racial mixing is an inevitable process in this country ... the country that belongs to everyone and yet no one ... all it's citizens, not just one race or religion. It is a beautiful prospect, if we handle it correctly.
I feel that, once we accept our national and racial karma and work to make it as pleasurable an experience for all as possible, the scales will be balanced and America will remain the dream of all other nations, powerful and rich and wonderful. I don't think that the land will be unable to support the number of immigrants, but I do feel that the America of the future will be vastly different from the America of today.
Of course, like with personal karma, the more you fight it, the worse the situation becomes or seems to become. I don't think it matters how many laws are passed against immigration or whatever ... immigrants will continue to come, even as they do now.
Here's a really silly proposition: perhaps if the U.S. encouraged immigration for educational purposes and then encouraged those people to return to their countries, if they wished, to make a difference as educated members of society there, we would see a decrease, though not a cessation, in immigrants. It may sound like a waste of money and time and effort to some people, but I think it would be the simplest and, in the long run, one of the most cost effective ideas. Perhaps that is another lesson of national karma for us ... generosity, which I think we can all agree is a virtue. Poor people and nations may have many lessons to learn about humility, hard work, and acceptance of charity but rich people and nations also have many lessons to learn about generosity and compassion ... a perfect kind of balance if only we could see it.

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I really hope you guys and gals understand that I am just sharing my personal opinions and ideas about these topics and that I am in no way trying to attack or insult or be negative to anyone.

Have a good one!


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Isis
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posted September 17, 2004 12:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Isis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
QOS - Wherever did you get the ridiculous idea that I'm only referring white westerners (or non-white immigrants for that matter)? I'm referring to westerners period, regardless of their color, country of origin, etc - Hell, if you want to break it down, I'm talking about Americans (as opposed to Germans or Dutch or Moroccan)...The reason I didn't want to discuss non western societies, is because I didn't want to get into the "but people in ________(enter 3rd world country) live in hovels right on top of one another without any hope of ever owning land".

I would also take serious issue w/ this comment:

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This neglects the fact that most Western nations rest on the shoulders of non-white people
That is just plain incorrect. Western nations rest on the shoulders if its citizens, regardless of color. You are the one that seems fixated on the race issue. I was questioning immigration's contribution to the growth rate, and in case you didn't know, immigrants come in all different colors.

Poor countries also do not "produce an excess of people which they ship out to other countries for labor". Where do you get these ideas? People emmigrate to other countries because they want a better life, a better opportunity at jobs. Govts do not hold yearly meetings in which they discuss how much of their population they're going to pack into a boat and send to a 1st world country for work.

Eleanor - I'm not talking about country living, I'm talking about even that little slice of suburbia (although I agree that too few people seem to be able to or give a damn about their yard/gardening), as opposed to living like they do in Japan (crammed into apartments like ants or bees in a hive).

I think you have a good point here,

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We will learn to appreciate this Earth one way or the other. If we couldn't do so while we could each get our grubby little hands on it, then perhaps we will once its land becomes too scarce to privately own.
and I hope you're right, instead of the opposite being right (further disconnection).

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Dear dear, Isis, you are naive about how immigration works. Do you realize that 10% of Guatemala's wealth (such as it is) comes from Guatemalan nationals working in the U.S. and sending money home? The figure would be comparable, if not greater, for Mexico. The issue of population growth is inevitably racial, because (simply put) white people have very few babies, and, on average, everyone else has quite a lot. This is important because the majority of 'everyone else' lives in poor countries, where, just like you said, everyone's dream is to come to the U.S. and "have a better life". America truly does rest on the shoulders of recent immigrants, mainly Latin Americans and Asians. You know who does the majority of the dirty, low-paid work that makes our country tick? Poor immigrants from down south.

And, actually, governments practically are shipping their excess bodies to rich Western countries. Why? Because they know they will send money home, helping the economy and standard of living in their own countries. You know why parents in places like Guatemala have so many babies? So they can go work in the U.S. and send money home to support them in their old age. Look at it objectively. The purpose of the Third World is to provide cheap labor for the First.

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Isis
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posted September 18, 2004 03:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Isis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, first of all, how bloody condescending of you. Who the hell do you think you are to speak to me as if I'm some ignoramus that was just born yesterday? How would you like it if spoke down to you - I mean, you are a teen after all aren't you? I bet that would really pi$$ you off if I did the same to you based on say, your age and subsequent lack of life experience.

You have some nerve telling me what I do and don't know about immigration. For starters, have you ever immigrated anywhere? I have. Do you have any personal experience whatsoever with the Immigration and Naturalization service of either this country or any other one? Are you a statistician, having ever worked in the field of immigration? Do you work for a company that conducts polls re: immigration? Are you well aquainted with each and every immigrant in this country? Before you go around calling people niave, perhaps you should think twice and hold your tongue, especially if you knowing nothing at all of the person to which you speak.

I challenge you to pull up the facts/support for your assertion that:

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America truly does rest on the shoulders of recent immigrants, mainly Latin Americans and Asians

Also,

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governments practically are shipping their excess bodies to rich Western countries

That's not what you said in your last post. You said they DID ship their folks overseas. That is false. Individuals come here to work, yes, they send money back to their home countries, yes. The statement you made: "poor countries produce an excess of people which they ship out to rich countries as cheap labor", is incorrect. They come themselves, of their own volition. "Practically" means nothing - it's your interjection into the subject, nothing more. Let's speak in facts. I know of no country that has a policy on shipping it's folks to the US to work and send the cash back. If any country does have such a policy, I invite you to post it here.

Your fixation on race sounds very racist to me.

And I did not say, "everyone's dream is to come to the U.S.". You need to read more carefully before paraphrasing people.

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You know why parents in places like Guatemala have so many babies? So they can go work in the U.S. and send money home to support them in their old age.
That is absolutely ridiculous. Are you a Guatemalan born and raised in Guatemala? Or does six weeks in Guatemala make you an expert on their reproduction practices? Again, please provide facts to back up these assertions. Perhaps some obscure poll taken in which Guatemalan mothers were asked why they had children? Please, do tell.

Regardless, let's just assume for a moment that it is true of a percentage of their population, it is still no argument supporting governmental support of exporting labor to the US.

Note that the adults in this thread conducted themselves as such, for example not speaking down to anyone for starters. Presenting their opinions without belittling others. While this is a free world, it is not well regarded to speak to people like a pompous, condescending know-it-all.

Finally, it is apparent you have some level of animosity and/or disrespect towards both Jwhop and myself. You would be well advised adopt an attitude of just ignoring people you don't like, who rub you the wrong way, or whatever. An antagonistic or contentious approach just causes strife and makes it unpleasant for everyone.

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QOS, Isis. Obviously you both have passionate views on this topic. And it is easy to see intensely you both feel. Without getting into who I personally agree or don't agree with, I'd just like make a suggestion. Instead of making statements which asssume that you already know what the other is saying, it might be better to ask questions first (in order to avoid being attacked later). For example, QOS, you said to Isis:

"When you say you want to talk only about the West, Isis, it seems rather like you mean you want only to discuss white citizens of Western countries."

It may have been more productive to phrase this observation in the form of a question, to make sure that this is in fact what Isis was saying. For example:

"When you say you want only to talk about the West, are you referring strictly to white citizens of western countries? Unless I am misunderstanding, this is how I am reading what you wrote. Please explain...."

Similarly, Isis: when you responded to QOS's commment below:

"This neglects the fact that most Western nations rest on the shoulders of non-white people"


by saying, "That is just plain incorrect", it may have been more productive to ask QOS if there is any evidence or statistics that he researched to support this view, as opposed to just dismissing it. It's more important to know where people are coming from, rather than writing their views off as just a bunch of malarchy (even if that's what you think!)

Otherwise, we get into the "How dare you's" and "Who do you think you are's" and this is just utterly unproductive. Then it becomes an issue of "how well can I argue" instead of "how well can I understand".

Guys, I realize that now I am the one who may be sounding condescending or like the "know it all" or "holier than thou". Far, far from it. I am just trying to use my position as a neutral party here to facilitate more productive communication, more understanding. We don't have to agree with each other, obviously. That's not the point. The point is to communicate openly with the intention of really trying to understand why the other person thinks the way they do. I am guilty of not always approaching conversations in this manner but I have been trying to keep it in mind. Nobody is perfect but let's at least try to be more aware of this issue. One positive by-product is that this forum will be a lot less stressful to visit if we are aware!

Ok, carry on. I will not interrupt again.

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posted September 18, 2004 04:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Eleanore     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Isis,
I have seen some footage of "apartment" living in Tokyo, I believe, and it is very, very crammed, perhaps more so than even New York City. There still are many beautiful rural areas in Japan, at least, according to a friend of mine who's lived there on and off, but I'm not entirely sure whether it's open to private purchase. I'll have to ask next time I see him. I would guess that it would be very expensive if it were, simply because Japan is not very large. Well, not large compared to the U.S. anyway.
I hope I'm right, too, about my ideas that "absence makes the heart grow fonder" as it applies to land and nature and such.
Oh yes, I'm sorry I assumed you meant more land than the average suburban plot. I realized you referred to teeny, tiny apartment style lives but I guess my own dreams about having some acreage to call my own clouded what you were saying.
If you don't mind my asking, what's roughly the average sized lot where you live (I'm assuming you live in the suburbs)?
I'm not trying to pry or anything, it's just that I moved from Miami to a tiny city (town more like it) in NC recently and the size of the average yard here (roughly between 1 and 2 acres) dwarfs the lots back in Miami. I never thought I'd appreciate a "yard" but it was just because the yards back there were, I would venture to guess, about a 1/4 of an acre at the most.
Mind you, I live in an apartment and all for now, but the homes around here just look so much ... nicer with green all around.


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In Calfornia, it all depends on when the house was built. Lots are anywhere from 4000sq/ft + - one phenomenon I've noticed of late is that it seems people want large homes, so they'll build a tract of large homes (2500 sq ft +) with hardly any land around them (ie; 3000 sq ft house on 5500 sq ft of land).

I too would prefer acreage But at least a little bit of garden is a start. It's better than how they live in Japan.

When you get a chance to ask your friend about it please let me know. I'm keen to know how it works there.

Would you also ask him about something about how mortgages work there, specifically, do they have mortgages over 30 years? A family member used to live in Japan and told me they had 50-100 year mortgages there - you would take out the loan, and your children would see it paid off. Something to do with the rarity of land and the high cost of it, the longer mtge term allowed more folks access to ownership. Is this true and/or was it ever true?

Quick, with all due respect, I understand what you're saying, however I am of the opinion that QOS was way out of line in the way he approached the argument. If I did that to you, telling you you were niave and attempting to marginalize your opinion with condescention, while also putting words into your mouth, I think you'd cop an attitude too. Perhaps you can have a little off-board Mod discussion with QOS on how NOT to approach others in a debate. NOT calling people years his senior, who I might add he knows nothing about, niave, would be a start. I realize that's how teenagers can be to one another sometimes, but when you play with the adults you need to know how they operate and what's considered acceptable behavoir, and that is often nothing resembling what passes for acceptable in teen circles.

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