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BornUnderDioscuri
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posted November 28, 2006 07:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Seriously whether against races, religions, ethnicities or whatever I notice this in my own life its an ongoing circle that people, myself included, do not seem to have a clue how to stop it. Couple of months back in a neigborhood about an hour away from me someone drew swastikas all over a synagogue, then last week just a few blocks from my house a group of Jewish teenagers beat up a Pakistani kid for no reason. Seriously like WHY? I understand the issue of Palestine vs Israel but it shocks me that people dont realise its about politics rather than religion and the leaders use loaded language to rally people and make it seem like an ethnic conflict. What I want to know why people totally unrelated to it, thousands of miles away still take it upon themselves to do such things...and i catch myself going down that slope because its seriously rediculous sometimes. A few people in my life who I considered good friends and trusted them completely and utterly bailedon me when they found out im Jewish. Which shocked me! I mean even if we disagree on political issues why should that prevent me from being a good friend. As Voltaire said "I may disagree with what you say but I will fight to the death for your right to say it". Now there is a difference between being passionate about a subject and attacking random people with names and biased language. Honestly no matter how open minded you are, unless you are an extremely strong person (which i dont consider myself), eventually after people systematically treat you like crap you will polarize and join with those who would "protect" you even if you dont agree with them. Honestly I support Israel in its right to exist and in its right to defend itself. But i do not agree with much of their methods of doing so, as any country it is obvious they have a political agenda. I also think Palestine should be considered a sovereign nation. Does this suddenly make me a bad person? I would like to hear from everyone and their opinions, not so much on the political issues but more personal one on one issues. People dehumanize each other too much and that is the problem. I appologize for my rant I really felt the need to vent today because of something, so please bear with me. Thanks in advance for your input.

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posted November 28, 2006 10:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BlueRoamer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I humbly suggest using paragraphs. I want to read what you wrote but its too hard.

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posted November 28, 2006 10:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL Im sorry i was quite mad at the moment, sorry

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posted November 28, 2006 11:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Johnny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Honestly I support Israel in its right to exist and in its right to defend itself.

I'm curious: why?

If there is one country on this earth that truly doesn't have a right to exist, I think it's Israel, simply because it was arbitrarily created by foreign powers in an already-populated nation based on territorial claims that haven't been illegitimate for thousands of years.

If the Palestinians resort to terrorism, I hardly blame them - pity the nation that hasn't an ally like the grand old US of A...

Ignore me if this isn't an issue you're looking to discuss.

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posted November 28, 2006 11:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Johnny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And I agree - people dehumanizing each other is the root of most racism. Along with most everything else that is wrong with the world.

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posted November 28, 2006 11:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I dont mind discussing it Johnny. Even though this nation was created by foreign powers, lets be honest most nations have. Most nations in existance today have been designated their borders by someone else. Given historical circumstances there is no reason why Israel's existance should be trouble.

If it wasnt for major failing of the British (just like in Kashmir) in their decisions and the first Israeli leaders there would be no trouble. Palestinians in the beginning were okay with the creation of such state as long as the British would leave, some minor conflicts here and there and the British set the borders how they liked it and the first Israeli leaders also screwed up in talks. Everything else is history. But thats just my opinion.

I was more talking about the fact that people just jump at each other's throats for no reason just because of this stupidity...for some reason its assumed that Jews and Muslims intrinsically hate each other which is just rediculous. I had a run in with this girl about a week back who is openly anti-semitic and admits to being such, using Israel as her exuse to spout racist propoganda...sure everyone has the right to speak their mind, but she kind of crossed the line and thus now there is this standing issue. So i honestly want to know when did such become ok?

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posted November 29, 2006 12:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Johnny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nice paragraphs!

Have most countries had their borders set up by foreign powers? I've heard that argument before, but I'm not sure it's really valid. I think most countries have had their borders defined by wars and/or diplomatic negotiations. Post-WWII Europe is probably something of an exception, and there are certainly others, (though none so controversial as Israel). But Israel was basically just plopped down into the middle of a preexisting nation after WWII... at least, if my history is right.

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. So i honestly want to know when did such become ok?

When did it become ok to be racist, or when did it become ok to spout racist propaganda? I would say that both have always been ok - annoying and stupid, sure, but still, like that Voltaire quote you mentioned...

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posted November 29, 2006 12:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
no no no not when did become ok to say things...when did it become ok to involve onself in another human beings life and try to tear it apsart just because of who they are...personal experience

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posted November 29, 2006 12:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Johnny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well that isn't ok. We have laws about that sort of thing, I think.

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posted November 29, 2006 01:06 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Johnny, just wanted to say I was nodding to everything you had written above. As we would say in Arabic, Bravo alaik ya helw

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Very true BornUnderDioscuri, but this is my only message,

when people say in America "oh we've come so far from the decades of the 50's and 60's segregation laws and blah....da da", thats true in a physical sense. Racism will always be here, mark my word, why? because its not indicated by the action, it starts in the MIND, its personal, it starts with the persons "beliefs and set values", and only after its beginning in the mind can a "Racist" Action be initiated or thought be spoken. Also because it has been and will contiune to be instilled in the minds of our youths, from the moment that segregation became illegal. And I can only say that you can not change the way someone thinks, you can't change someone's thoughts, that is free will, that belongs to the person, and another thing, some countries say "a dictator controls the way you think", no thats not true, they put a tight constrain on their citizens actions but they can think whatever you please, as long as their not opening their mouths about it. And of course, after the death of civil rights leader does segregation not exist, but minorities being allowed in White places is only held by "tolerance". Its sort of like a "they don't want you here, but they'll put up with it because they know its illegal, now "

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BornUnderDioscuri
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posted November 29, 2006 07:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I most certainly agree Neptune its rather depressing actually. People cant get past it and it goes both ways and from all sides come to think of it

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posted November 29, 2006 07:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 28, 2006 10:44 PM
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I humbly suggest using paragraphs. I want to read what you wrote but its too hard.

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LMAO.. I thought the same thing....


Racism -

Oh yeah, it will always exist because some people need an excuse to feel superior while making others feel inferior.

Race is the lamest excuse and people actually fall into that because they can't find anything else to use against the person or people.

Rather than accept responsibility for being intellectually challenge, lazy and being an all around loser, they have to point at something that the person has no control over- the color of their skin.

The same holds true with all things, rather they be about religion or being an animal person. People use judgement at all times- we don't have to like everyone, but we should at least tolerate their choses. The only time am against being tolerant is when one persons choice causes others harm.

We have had arguments here equating the questioning of religious extremists to racism. I do not see how the two are at all alike.


Racism and bigotry sucks-the end..

Still, there is no need to get depressed- throughout time people have faced these issues, we are no exception.

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posted November 29, 2006 07:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@ pidaua Thank you so much! If you dont mind me asking wats ur Sun/Moon/ASc combo? I was rather upset when i typed this because my bf and I are of different religions and its just sad how many people take it upon themselves to try to "fix" us and show us how wrong we are for loving each other...

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posted November 30, 2006 12:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Born...

No worries about the post. I was just giving you a hard time- I do that now and again LOL...

My three biggies are;

Sun- Sag
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Religion is a difficult thing. My Mother is Lutheran and my Father is Catholic. I was raised Lutheran- which is kind of odd for someone of my ethnic background (my Father is Spanish and Apache while my mother is German with Cherokee- but she is blond hair, blue eyed).

I am married to Bear, he was raised Mormon- but both of us are more spiritual than organized. Even though religion gave us a backbone- we don't subscribe to all the traditions.

We share our stories, but neither of us pushes it and he doesn't practice his at all.

And should that sexy Leo of mine decide to go all Stormin Mormon on me.. well I will not stand for the BIG LOVE thing LOL.....

I won't share my Lion LOL.....

I am sure things will get better with you and your bf, if not, counting it as a learning experience.

I will add though- I knew early on that I could never be with an athiest or agnostic. There are also several religions that I would not be able to subscribe to nor could I have seen myself dating someone of too diverse of a religious background. Race was never an issue, but I believe that ones fundamental base is always going to play into ones life.

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posted November 30, 2006 08:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Both my parents are Jewish but neither follow so Im pretty much Universalist by choice. But coming from the former Soviet Union i had to deal with much anti-semitism which sucked even more because I didnt identify with the religion. My boyfriend is Muslim so you have an idea how people usually react to that from all sides actually. My sun is in the 9th house and I read that i like foreigners and foreign cultures and strong religious backgrounds. Which is true, ever since I was a child i was drawn to the east.

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posted December 01, 2006 01:30 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL Born under D,
get out of here!!!

we have the same sun/moon/asc.

AND your suns in the 9th?? so is mine...

so your chart is reversed as well? Mine is reversed..

I am always attracted to ppl of other cultures and religions. I had the biggest crush on a Jewish guy for like three years (Orthodox Israeli Jewish guy nonetheless lol) we were very good friends in high school. I am Muslim. He was not Zionist though.

In the summer I was dating an Egyptian (100% from the backstreets of Cairo) type of guy which ended up being too much (he just was too possessive etc).

Prior to that I have a WEIRD history of being attracted to people of other cultures and histories.

Interesting.

I travel a lot too, do you?

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posted December 01, 2006 01:35 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oh btw b.u.d

u asked if i come here more often than other forums-yes i do. Although Im not a regular on LL. Sometimes I post a lot sometimes i disappear (go traveling, get busy etc).

I was wondering, in my case (Muslim girl,Jewish guy) it is taboo in both my religion and culture since Muslim women arent allowed to marry nonMuslim men. But in your case, why would it be so? Doesnt Jewish heritage go through the woman, and so if she marries a man of any religious denomination, her children would be considered Jewish? And for your bf as well, Muslim men can and do marry Christian and Jewish women all the time--in fact Mohammad married a Jewish Persian princess called Maria.

I am curious as to how you look since we have a lot of similarities in our chart. If you have pics posted online somewhere let me know or you could post them here if you feel comfy with that (and then delete later...).

Just curious.

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BUD thats interesting your bf is Muslim...how do your parents feel about it? SGA my Gemini sister was talking to /seeing a Jewish guy (I wouldnt really call them bf/gf) for awhile last year...He was cute!!! I know a few other Geminis that usually go for foreigners.

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posted December 01, 2006 08:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OMG SGA u rock!!!! Yea my chart is reversed! And thats sooo cool u dated a Jewish guy, thats awesome we have so much in common. Actually to be honest i havnt yet met a Jewish guy i like (im 19 though) and my first bf was also Muslim and we dated for 3 years. Im dating my second one now. Both from Bangladesh.

If you dont mind me asking, whats your cultural background? My best friend is Egyptian btw I get obsessed with the culture and start liking the guys. I was into Chinese guys for a long long time. And before that into Greeks. Im a Greek mythology addict. I actually want to minor in Ancient Studies and History.

I would love to travel thats like my dream, travel the world with friends. My best friend promised to take me to Egypt soon, im loooking forward to that.

Btw sorry on a tangent when we say Zionist do we mean radical Jews against Palestine or do we mean ppl who want state of Israel to exist, because I want both states to exist and i thoroughly come under fire from both sides.

Actually even though its perfectly okay under Islam for a Muslim man to marry a woman who isnt Muslim but is from people of the book you would be surprised at how people are. First of all Jews from the former Soviet Union oddly seem to be very biased against everyone, they are for the general part racist and anti muslim and prone to stereotypes possibly because they are so used to living in such a system...Ukraine has more Neo Nazis than Eastern Germany. As for people from the Indian subcontinent they look majorly down upon their children dating...anyone for that matter, but especially a white girl and EASPECIALLY a jewish white girl and since im 19 and my bf is 20 its safe to say this relationships is secret. Though we think his parents found out. MY ex and i dated for 3 years and no one knew. Its rather hard. Its more of a cultural thing with the exuse of Islam than actual religious prohibition. Mohammed (PBUH) also married Saffiya who was the daughter of the leader of the Jewish tribe of Khaybar but she did convert though.


i posted one up on the forum Free-for-all there is a thread called Post ur pic and its on page 39. I would also love to see a pic of you

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posted December 01, 2006 08:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry for me to ask this but you said u dated a Jewish guy, how did his parents react to that? I know they can be hell, esp Jewish mothers (mine is the best though she doesnt care as long as the boy is good, also did your parents know?

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posted December 01, 2006 08:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Day Dreamer, my mom is actually okay with it. I mean sure i wont lie and say she didnt want me to be with a Jewish guy in the begining but she realises its no use with me and she doesnt care as long as the guy is good. She adored my ex (also Muslim) and my bf is exactly like me (Gemini moon in Capricorn asc Aquarius) im a Gemini/Scorpio/Libra

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I think racism stems from a fear of losing yourself and your social acclimations- if the tribe over the hill becomes dominent, then there's a chance you could lose all the traditions and moral ethics you know and cling too. Then, you could be lost in society, and have to learn all over again. That's not the hard part. The hard part is adjusting your sense of right from wrong. We're especially troubled when right becomes wrong, and wrong becomes right, especially if what we already know makes sense to us.

The problem is imaginary. Right is universal, as is wrong. The details are mearly window dressing. I think the fundamental difference usually lies in womens' roles and rights, which tend to differ dramitically from one culture to the next.

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posted December 01, 2006 10:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Too true

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posted December 02, 2006 09:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have you guys had similar experiences, you especially SGA with your relationship?

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