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posted June 26, 2002 12:06 PM            

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Virgo-Aries artist, may be there are unevolved creatures between You and Him, who are not allowing his loving words to reach you?

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posted June 26, 2002 02:22 PM            

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What do you mean, raj? "Unevolved creatures"? Please explain.

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posted June 27, 2002 07:36 AM            

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I think he means people who are negatively influencing him.

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posted June 27, 2002 10:58 AM            

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What sort of people would try to negatively influence him? his friends?
I didn't think he'd show something as personal as the poem I wrote to them...

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posted June 27, 2002 11:01 AM            

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And as far as writing him again about this, wouldn't he see me as too bold?
By not responding, is he trying to send the vibes that he wants to be pursued?

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posted June 27, 2002 05:48 PM            

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I don't think so either. I was just explaining what Raj meant. Yes, I do think some guys wish to be pursued, but you have to balance pursuit with temperance. Writing him once more can't hurt.

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posted June 28, 2002 07:48 AM            

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Women can be bold nowadays. The times they are a changing. *sigh*

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posted June 28, 2002 11:59 AM            

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Very true, Randall, very true.
BTW, I am possibly seeing him tomorrow at an event that was planned by a group we both belong to. That should be fun, even if he doesn't show up. I like having an active social life.
But if he does show, I'll still be my outgoing, happy-go-lucky, Virgo-Aries self.

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posted June 28, 2002 07:25 PM            

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You go girl! Maybe it's time to be visually social, but to intentionally ignore him. It will drive him nuts!

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posted June 28, 2002 08:32 PM            

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Oh, does intentionally ignoring guys work? Will it drive him nuts? I thought they never noticed...

But maybe he won't care, or not even look around... :/
Ah well, I won't worry about it til tomorrow.

Thanks for the encouragement!
And BTW, it's a water fight, so one of my friends suggested that I hit him good! I'm borrowing her huge Super Soaker...
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posted June 29, 2002 06:53 AM            

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Soak him good, and then ignore him.

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posted June 29, 2002 12:07 PM            

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Well, I did soak him a little bit, but he came fully prepared with every type of squirt gun invented....So the two other girls and I were sort of ambushed.

But he did seem to intentionally catch my eye or look my direction a few times, or maybe I'm imagining things...
I have hope.

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posted June 29, 2002 05:18 PM            

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Methinks he's interested.

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posted June 29, 2002 05:47 PM            

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That prospect makes me happy....
I typically don't let people this close, but with him I sense a connection.
He has managed to intrigue me, evasive-to-questions that he is.

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posted June 29, 2002 05:50 PM            

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I feel like you intrigue him as well. Of course, as Yoda says, "Impossible to see the future is."

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posted June 29, 2002 06:22 PM            

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Of course, another very true quote from Star Wars (and also said by Yoda):
"Do or do not. There is no 'try'."

and this Taurean guy also happens to be a Star Wars addict..

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posted July 01, 2002 04:27 AM            

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That's my fave Yoda quote of all time.

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posted July 04, 2002 12:26 AM            

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I'm wondering what to do next...Taurean men move so slowwly (or maybe it's men in general ;-) )....
I have much more to say to him, but not sure if it's worth trying to get across to him.
The last time we talked for any length was last month on the 2nd when the moon was conjuncting his pisces moon.
Perhaps I should wait for that aspect to happen again, I don't know.
I can't pretend this situation is easy to deal with, or keep telling myself life goes on cause it does but not so fast for me.

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posted July 04, 2002 09:40 AM            

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I just had a crazy idea. Why don't you have him delivered some flowers?

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posted July 04, 2002 12:11 PM            

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Randall-
We're kind of both teens and he lives at home.
If he got an unidentified bunch of flowers, he'd probably be freaked beyond belief....
Ah, chronological age....
I wish life didn't focus on that so much.

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posted July 04, 2002 09:47 PM            

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posted November 04, 2002 12:01 AM            

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posted December 25, 2002 07:45 PM            

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Well, I'm just bringing this to the top again. My mom, who I converse with often, thinks the aforementioned Taurean is freaked out by my feelings for him. I'm still confused about how to proceed so if any of you have some advice or want to reread the poem, feel free cause I'm openminded for suggestions.
Love and light,

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posted January 11, 2003 10:49 AM            

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posted January 11, 2003 11:48 AM              

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so what's the latest with the Bull boy, Virga?

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