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Topic: I'm at the edge....
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Virgo-AriesArtist Moderator Posts: 714 From: USA Registered: Nov 2001
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posted November 10, 2002 11:28 PM
Hi Knowflakes...I don't know what to do. I figure someone here might be willing to listen, since I can't seem to find anyone around me at home who will.... ********************** 11/10/02What the hell? Why won’t they help? Unless I say I’ll kill myself Then everyone runs To prevent tragedy But till then it’s only A problem I tackle futilely I can’t deal I want out now The trigger will get teased The knife threatened Not because They’re real ideas, But because They can be seen My mind overloads And anxiety overheats Tears are the only friend Who want to deal with my scraps All other beings Are silently astray Absorbed in their drama They can’t look my way Why aren’t I serious? In the eyes of the world I spin frantically in the depths I prayed were long gone I banished those eons ago Why do they still linger? Dangling on to spoil What I had hoped was success Spine-crushing anguish The Ego was slain Nothing remains to evidence What might have been fully sane A normalcy I found And tried hard to keep Giving pulp I didn’t have In vain, I slid down again too deep
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MARY Knowflake Posts: 341 From: Registered: Sep 2002
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posted November 11, 2002 10:22 AM
Hello Artist, If these are your true feeling, I am sorry for you pain. I have felt that way before, it is a horrible feeling. Do you want healing? Try reading Essential Energy Balancing: Diane Stein The book is wonderful, she says we can heal all pain. When I felt that way I couldn't even trust anyone around me. So if you can not trust, how do you talk to them? Sending Love Light and Healing! IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist Moderator Posts: 714 From: USA Registered: Nov 2001
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posted November 11, 2002 11:09 AM
Thanks Mary. These are my true feelings cause I think I've been in an out of depression for the last four or five years, and it's a daily battle I fight to stay above it. I will try to get ahold of the book you reccomended. I do want healing because I can't go through this up and down torture for a lifetime... I'm also thinking of trying to ge that mixture of liquid herb that Linda Goodman suggests in Star signs for my personal health number. I've yet to find any outlet of healing thus far besides writing dark depressing poety, but it's no longer enough. Appeciate your response, and the light you sent.
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Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 1396 From: The Mists of Avalon Registered: Jan 2002
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posted November 11, 2002 11:23 AM
VAA - We all go through struggles but yours seems to be unduly long and hard. Creativity and fresh air help me. and light for you...Hopeful IP: Logged |
Aphrodite Moderator Posts: 3280 From: San Francisco, CA, United States Registered: Feb 2002
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posted November 11, 2002 12:24 PM
hello Virgo-AriesArtist,i just wanted to express to you how much i enjoy reading your work. thank you for posting them on the website. sometimes i would like to read more of your previous work, but can't seem to find them because they are on single threads. would you mind creating a single thread and posting them all on there? that way they are all together as a collection. it's a beautiful way to see how people grow. i also write poetry to express my deep feelings. there is something musical, ebbing and comforting about making words dance on paper. it's like an epiphany being able to scribe letters that sing out what we feel. i am currenty reading Ovid, Horace, Borges, and Cattullus. are you seeking professional help for your depression? it is never a sign of weakness or defeat to enlist in the help of someone who would be able to help guide us to a healthy state---physically, mentally, and emotionally. i believe you are worth all the joys the universe has to offer. it is something for someone to believe and expect in you, but you have to know it for yourself too. aphrodite IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist Moderator Posts: 714 From: USA Registered: Nov 2001
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posted November 11, 2002 12:59 PM
Thanks much, Hopeful and Aphrodite. It's funny you should ask about my previous works because I just recently felt inspired to begin putting all my poetry together in some form of chronological order. I have a bad habit of writing on whatever material happens to be nearby when the urge to express myself comes, so as you can imagine, it's scattered all over the place. If you'd like, I can mail you (snail or e-mail) you a copy of it once I've gotten it put in a semblence of organization, which should be finished soon. Yes, it is an awesome feeling to be able to put words together that express and make sense of inner emotions. I did seek professional help for a while, but then my schedule of the last few months made appointments almost impossible to keep. Life, activity-wise has slowed down, so I'm keeping return to it as a viable solution for the future. But see, it seems when I have the chance to talk it out each week with a skilled person, major things aren't going wrong, so it feels like a waste of time, yet the times when I don't have that resource are the only times when issues that need dealing with come up. I know it will come down to whther I believe good things about myself... Yet it's so darn hard having that confidence and self-esteem when so many people are making me feel inferior and bringing me down with their hurtful words. I will get through it, that much I know cause my :Aries: rising won;t let me give up on anything, myself included. Thanks for your support. It means more than you can realize. ------------------ -K "Most people love with restraint As if they were someday to hate We hated gently, carefully As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |
theFajita Knowflake Posts: 2007 From: Boca Raton, FL USA Registered: Sep 2002
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posted November 12, 2002 12:11 AM
Hey VIrgoaries Artist, I can't find the right words to say that I just want to hug you and give you hope! I really am sad to hear you feel this way, I know those feelings very well. I admit, I take lithium for 6 years now, but sometimes I forget to take my doses, and the more I forget, the more I don't feel like taking them, and then in between my highs, I feel so awful, so worthless and sad and disgusted and hopeless and small. I am not saying you need medication or anything, i am just saying I do know how you feel. I also am in a relationship that has had a lot of abuse and that only makes me smile on the outside while i feel like I am dying on the inside.I have over come drug addiction and other forms of self destruction, but you know what, I still struggle with those feelings. Well I rambled but (((hugs))) and love and light. ------------------ Food is the only art that nourishes! IP: Logged |
juniperb Moderator Posts: 3936 From: www.Heaven.Home Registered: Mar 2002
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posted November 12, 2002 09:01 PM
VAA, I`m sorry to hear your so down. I can feel your pain in your beautiful poetry. A wonderful book filled with so much hope is: In Tune With the Infinite by Ralph Waldo Trine. It will teach/guide you to become master of yours-elf and in harmony with the universe ( & that includes our families ). Please try to locate the book & give it a try. I got mine off amazon but many libraries carry it. Grandma is still in my prayers; how is she doing?? juniperb IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist Moderator Posts: 714 From: USA Registered: Nov 2001
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posted November 13, 2002 08:02 AM
Juniper, Gram's been home for a few weeks now, and seems to be back to her old pre-illness self. The cancer had been eating away at her red blood cell count, and that was the reason she had been feeling the fatigue we were all attributing to old age. We should have known better cause she's always been so acive and full of life. It is nice to see her feeling hers-Elf again. Thanks for asking! ------------------ -K "Most people love with restraint As if they were someday to hate We hated gently, carefully As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |
juniperb Moderator Posts: 3936 From: www.Heaven.Home Registered: Mar 2002
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posted November 13, 2002 08:41 AM
Wonderful news VAA Hug her for me juniperb IP: Logged |
Worldly Man's Advocate Knowflake Posts: 29 From: Registered: Nov 2002
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posted November 13, 2002 08:47 AM
Sorry to hear about your depression; I also go through that. You know what gets me out? I just observe myself. I just watch what’s passing through the mind. It’s very interesting, because you sort of have to step outside of yourself, and then you start to wonder: but if I can step outside me, then what is me? I try to puzzle out what brought those bad feelings – there’s almost always a specific cause for a general bad feeling. I don’t try to judge it at all – I just look at it and think, WHY? Not as in ‘What’s wrong with me’, mind you – just, why, what is there in me that allows this to bother me? And always, always, I find out something new about myself; something I never suspected was there. It makes me scurry to my writing desk and I fill whole pages with the new things I discovered. And the moment I gain that, I feel, ‘Well! That was useful! I still feel pretty crap ) – but I didn’t waste my time going through all that.’ Sometimes I had those kinds of suicidal feelings… and then I thought, No Way! It’s much more interesting being like this. How interesting would it be if everything went smoothly, all the time. How unfortunate are the fortunate – they never got to look this deeply into themselves. Plus, we get some great poetry out of it, heheheheh! Worth the price, yes? ‘May you live in interesting times!’ [ancient Buddhist proverb]
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Virgo-AriesArtist Moderator Posts: 714 From: USA Registered: Nov 2001
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posted November 19, 2002 07:52 AM
No, not exactly worth the price today. I don't waste time right now analyzing...The pain too all consuming, devouring... And it has hit me again last night, I cried until I fell asleep.------------------ -K "Most people love with restraint As if they were someday to hate We hated gently, carefully As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist Moderator Posts: 714 From: USA Registered: Nov 2001
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posted March 08, 2003 12:49 AM
bringing to top... IP: Logged |
Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 1396 From: The Mists of Avalon Registered: Jan 2002
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posted March 11, 2003 09:06 AM
VAA - I remember this one. I hope things are going better for you now.Hopeful IP: Logged |
theFajita3 Moderator Posts: 1404 From: Sunny South Florida, USA Registered: Feb 2003
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posted March 12, 2003 01:48 AM
Hey VAA hows it going now?------------------ food is the only art that nourishes! IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist Moderator Posts: 714 From: USA Registered: Nov 2001
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posted March 12, 2003 08:09 AM
Thanks for asking. At the moment, things are better, but then again, I'm now diagnosed with Anxiety Disorder and on meds for it. It has taken away my inborn perfectionistic drive from every project, but let me live more in the present. ------------------ -K "Most people love with restraint As if they were someday to hate We hated gently, carefully As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |