Posts: 32
From: Tacoma, WA United States
Registered: Sep 2003

posted August 26, 2004 01:34 AM         

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Hi,

I am in a bit of turmoil. Of course it can always be worse but the anxiety and pain is really difficult. Thank you to any that are willing...

-C

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From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000

posted August 27, 2004 11:54 AM         

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Can you share any details?

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From: Tacoma, WA United States
Registered: Sep 2003

posted August 27, 2004 07:13 PM         

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Going through a nasty breakup. On anxiety meds, can't seem to shake this one and I refuse to call him and he refuses to call me. However, I wish we could make peace but not necessarily get back together I imagine that would be disastrous. If not I wish I could have peace within myself, I am trying everything. He sure took a piece of me. It's affecting everything about me. They say that these sorts of things are as stressful as death. I have been through enough breakups to know they suck, but this one's worse than most. Please help if you can. Thank you.

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From: Vancouver USA
Registered: May 2004

posted August 28, 2004 07:13 PM         

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Hi Crow,

Are you holding on to animosity? What is making it so hard to let go?

I really think the answer you are looking for is quite simple.

Let go, and move on. Don't waste anymore of your energy on this.

Sure, go through the greiving process. That's healthy.. but don't wallow in self pitty.

I've also read that it is a good idea to wait a minimum of 1 year before entering into another relationship. This gives you time to heal the old wounds and figure out what it is that you are looking for in a relationship. It also keeps you from entering into a "rebound" relationship... which is really nothing more than filling a void.

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From: Tacoma, WA United States
Registered: Sep 2003

posted August 29, 2004 01:47 PM         

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Wow....it's a fresh breakup. Of course I want to move on. I think you are a bit harsh in your assessment of the situation and I hardly call this a reading. Wallowing in self pity....thanks that sounded just soooo comforting. No I am NOT hanging on to animosity, I haven't been able to get angry. I am not too happy with you, aboviously, probably because I am not in love with you. In the future, I would like yo ask you to please refrian from responding to my posts if they are going to be that insensitive and condescending.

Compassion is a good thing. SO is time. I will get through this in time and there's nothing wrong with asking for some comfort and maybe a reading for a sense of direction.

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From: mumbai,maharashtra,india
Registered: Apr 2004

posted October 26, 2004 03:31 AM         

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oh crow....u must be really hurt to become this sensitive anyways....do u want me to do a reading for u....????
although i really like it when ppl touch my cards for themselves coz i think the readings are more accurate...
anyways if ud give me ur questions n a wee bit of info now....
il do an internal feeling and wat to do in future reading???

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From: Ontario, Canada
Registered: Aug 2003

posted October 26, 2004 11:57 PM         

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A saying comes to mind, something about "Eating Crow"
I hope once you are not as sour and hurting you read this again and apologize to LibraSparkle for jumping on her when she was trying to help.
Even if you do not like the words, even if they are not true for you.... she didn't say anything to get wonky about.
I mean, for real!
And she wasn't 'reading' for you, she was being the compassionate person she is naturally, and reaching out with a different perspective.
*jumps on the angry woman* Leave my LS alone! Go demand elsewhere, if you don't like her words. Okay, that's not very diplomatic of me, but neither was what you said.

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posted January 10, 2005 06:46 AM         

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its a late post but I made observation and thought ;

It is always easier to do the negative things than having the strength to do the hard things and responding positively ,
Libra was just being honest and responded intelligently .

Having negative feelings inside is something which needs release , Libra done just that by the way she worded her advice to Crow ,
If someone seeks help then it is upto the person to be open minded about advice.

Comforting them is alright but there is a point of relization where one should be honest about advice to not let the trouble person keep those negative feelings inside and then making them feel comfortable about it since it is not good luggage to carry later in life .

Good luck Crow ( if your still here with us )

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From: Columbus, GA USA
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posted January 10, 2005 09:50 AM         

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Welcome!

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From: New York, New York
Registered: Feb 2005

posted February 10, 2005 01:16 AM         

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I agree with libra. I don't think she meant to be rude.

I have been in the same position many times and jsut doing what she said has always amde me stronger.

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