posted November 23, 2005 06:44 PM
Greetings....Here is my opinion, for what it's worth...
Negative events, accidents and even death are all a part of Life, as we currently know it.
It is a personal Choice for each reader to warn or caution or even to help prepare, as the circumstance requires. This is a responsibility that we take on when we Choose to read for others.
As Linda was fond of saying.. remember to plant that little policeman in your mind to remind you to STOP, take a deep breath and look again before you make broad staetments.. Though God(dess) is infallible, WE are NOT!
Sometimes people have come to me asking about the health of a family member. I usually describe the past history and if this is correct.. based on that information, I try to get a read on the outcome. Sometimes that will be that the person has Chosen this illness/accident or what have you to leave the planet. The person you are reading for may need to make some amends or come to some closure with this person... so in this case, it might be appropriate to say something of this nature..." It appears that this individual may have Chosen this experience to exit this plane of existence... if you have any loose ends, now might be a good time to tie them up. Remember though, death is always a Soul Choice, and this individual could very well choose to stay. The point is.. do what needs to be done."
In terms of health.. it may be wise to couch your insights in such terms as.."... may be prone to troubles in this area (fill in blank if you know). Have they seen a medical/alternative practitioner? Perhaps they would be well advised to make an appointment".
In this way, you offer information, and a solution. Once that person leaves your table... what they DO is their decision.
I have had the privilege of helping to prepare some individuals for the passing of significant people in their lives... you may not Choose to do so.
My thought, simply, is if you are not willing to "go there" perhaps you ought not read the cards. We are all put here as Angels/Mediums/Teachers.. and we may be called to help people prepare. Do you accept that calling?
Remember.. there is always tact and diplomacy. One needen't become a major drama queen in the face of a dire prediction or warning. But instead, turn it into a proactive situation. What is going to happen is going to happen... so speak to others as you would like to be spoken to. Cushion the blow if necessary... but be warned.. some people WILL ask those types of questions. If you are not willing to answer them.. then you should send them to another reader.
I hope that helps somewhat.
Bright Blessings...
A
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"The ALL is MIND; the Universe is Mental." *** The Kybalion