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On the reading you just did for me, I have some questions other people might have an input as well.
Sorry if this is not is the right forum!
Reading:
It is important that any relationship you are in now makes you feel secure. When you are with your partner, you should feel at home and like you have no need to be anywhere else. A relationship from your past may come back into your life now. You may be surprised how your maternal feelings rise within you now.
Any problems you are now experiencing with your love life are probably the result of things you experienced as a child. This could range from simply you and your partner coming from very different upbringings to serious traumas one or both of you suffered as children, the wounds of which are still felt.
In modern psychology much emphasis has been placed on the importance of getting in touch with experiences of our childhood. However, there has not been equal emphasis placed on the value of constructive living--of taking responsibility for who you are now, and letting your involvement with the issues at hand put the past in its proper place. Even if your own childhood was extremely happy or sad, trying to apply experiences from your past to the present situation without enough consideration for the present conditions can create a great deal of stress for you and your partners. Learn from the past, but live in the moment.
Thank you...
Couple issues though..
You might know or you might have an opinion on it...
I don't have any dissapointments from my childhood or regrets, I don't blame my mother or my father for anything that has gone wrong in my life, in fact, anything that has gone wrong in my life I try to be in peace with to move on and be a better person.
I also DO NOT understand why people like to blame their childhood ocurrences with their own present, to me that is just a way out to not take responsability for who they are.
with that said and comparing it to what you just said...
It sounds like I am doing and always have done the right thing, I guess, when this partner comes, if he ever comes, I will know if he makes me feel secure with a sense of home, which I have felt already with someone else but he is no partner of mine.
Now, for an even more deep inside in all this karma issues...
Is there any karma I am carrying in this lifetime from childhood to this point that I can mend now and not carry over to the next life? and how can i recognize those? or are we just judge by the overall picture and who we are when we die? which reminds me of the murderer/violator that goes to church every sunday and ask for forgiveness after he has done the bad deed, or in his dying bed at a very old age???
hmmmm.....
questions, questions, questions.....
Lindaland
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posted September 02, 2007 02:06 PM
