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posted January 27, 2010 08:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KYM31     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can anyone offer some insight on these particular cards? I feel I might be biased but a 2nd opinion is always welcome.

I began dating a guy about a month ago and it seemed okay. He explained he was seeing someone, a "friend" because he was afraid to start all over. which was fine with me as I wasnt ready for a relationship. What I did began to notice was that he wanted me around all the time and if i couldnt be there he would get upset or imply that i had someone else when I clearly told him im not seeing anyone which was true. Anyway, I have seen a few things that could be of concern so I decided to draw a few cards. I drew the Knight of Wands, Ace of Wands, and the Tower. Now my questions were 1. what does he feel for me? 2. Will a deeper relatinship happen or is he seeing another woman? When I saw the Knight of Wands I thought - not going to last as the knight is a mover and cant be tied down. He's also an Aquarius. The Ace seemed to be maybe down the line a new beginning for us, but then I got the Tower and I said oh no its probably over meaning I had illusions about him. Now that is possible. Anyone have any ideas.

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posted January 27, 2010 10:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, you could look at the Knight of Wands as a thinker, since wands are about ideas. So, when you say he's an aqua, that would fit. I'de say, he's definetly thinking about you, just MHO.

The Ace of Wands is a new beginning. Any Ace is. Again, wands, so a new beginning with an airy=aqua guy? Why not?

The Tower can simply mean that this relationship will be very meaningful for you. The Tower card scares the bee-jeebies outta most people, but really it can be just signifying starting over. And a new love is starting over.

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posted January 28, 2010 07:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KYM31     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Gyspy that sounds way better than what I was thinking. Well I think too with the wands he has alot of fire in his chart Sag. So I was thinking with freeminded Sags commitment was far from his mind. Well we havent spoken since Tuesday and Im not calling cause I want him to call me first lol. I will keep you updated as to whether a more serious relationship takes place. Thanks again.

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posted January 28, 2010 10:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sure, no problem. I'm a Sag. I would definetly wait for him to call you. We prefer to do the chasing. But, again, just my opinion. Yes, keep me posted!

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posted January 30, 2010 01:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KYM31     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL...good to know about Sags.I love Sags though, just never had alot of experience in the dating realm with them. I dated one. He chased me for a month and when I showed some interest he started disappearing. Than when I became involved with another he popped back up and acted as if he was mad because I was dating another person. So that was my one relationship with a Sag. But this guy liked me from years ago and I just never took him up on the offer b/c he seemed like a player so just admired from afar which was cool and in the meantime continued other relationships. It just so happened that I ran into at a club and I walked up and started a conversation with him. Now I know that if I wouldve never done that he woulda continued to act like I never existed (only to me) but I already knew he was interested long ago through a friend of a friend. Well sorry so long. again will update.

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posted January 30, 2010 02:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No problem, I love long stories- more detail.

You nailed us in that first sentence. We do love the chase, it's once we capture you, well, we don't know what to do from there!! So, you gotta keep him guessing, keep it interesting, you know? Be late, or break a date here and there. I know it stinks to have to play the game, but, unfortunately, thats kinda the way it works. Of course, that is just a Sag generalization, I don't know what else he is besides Sag/aqua.

Good luck!

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posted February 01, 2010 06:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KYM31     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well as of today I have only contacted him once and left a vm ONLY because I had some wine lol. But the extent of the convo was basically about me catching him in possible lie and I just brought up what he told me in the beginning which was no lies and no games. I havent heard from him since that time so Im beginning to think that now he knows I know the truth and now he doesnt know what to say to me. So I dont think he will contact me, but oh well. There goes Sags honesty! LOL... Blame it on our double whammy venus-neptune!

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posted February 01, 2010 06:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Uggg, sorry to hear that! Sag's are just like alot of people, we will lie if it's to save another persons feelings. And of course, you have to take into consideration lots of other things besides just him being a Sag. Like his other placements, and his upbringing, some folks are just not taught that lying is wrong, you know? Signs or no signs, that is sometimes the way it is.

But, I don't know the context of the lie, so it's hard to comment.
Maybe his silence is just a pause to figure out what he wants to say, and how to adress the situation? I don't know.

I wish you luck though!

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posted February 01, 2010 08:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KYM31     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Gypsy . Well i'll give you the context and you tell me your thoughts. I agree with you some times it depends on your upbringing. My mom is a Sag and honesty was her main thing. So the truth will set you free is what I learned growing up. If you want to know I will tell but I need a second.

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posted February 01, 2010 09:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KYM31     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay so here we go. He just had a bday last weekend and I just moved into a new place so I was trying to get myself prepared. As we all know moving sucks! Especially after you've accumlated so much over the years in one set place, but for financial reasons I need to move to a smaller place. Anwyway on top of that I had just started a new job after being laid off for 5 months so I had alot on my plate. A relationship wasn't something I was looking but I didnt mind dating. Anyway his birthday fell on the weekend that I moved and had just started a new job. So I was trying to spend some of his bday with him, but I just had so much to do. I did drop off a bday card to him and told him I'd try to see him later on that evening. Anyway I didnt make it as I was extremely tired. Prior to that night he was supposed to come and stay over with me, but he ended up going out with his friends for his bday. Sunday rolls around and I call him, we speak briefly and he thanked me for the card. He told me he was in recovery lol. I thought fine I will try to stop by during the week one day after work. So Monday comes (day I pulled the tarot cards) and I stop over. He has his own house and he has a teenage son who he has custody of who lives with him. Okay not a problem. Anyway I go to his bedroom and notice that one his sheets are changed. Now I was just there 4-5 days before. Now that doesn't mean anything really. I mean if he didnt change them I'd think something was wrong lol. But what I did notice was a half bottle of wine and a jar of women's hair products on his nightstand!!! So I asked where did that come from? He told me HE DIDNT KNOW!!! Now this is a person who has a lock on his bedroom door and NO ONE HAS A KEY BUT HIM!!!! I didnt say word I let it go for the time and we continued talking. Its when I got home that I asked that question. I mean if it was a woman's (which I know it was) why couldnt he just say that he had company. I mean we both stated that we'd be honest and upfront with any other situation we may have been involved in! So it tee'd me off and Im a little ****** . Because at his request lets be honest with each other and it was like a slap in the face. I mean we've only been seeing each other a month but come on be HONEST!!!

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posted February 01, 2010 09:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yup, I see why your mad.

If you search the back threads in Astro 1, you will find sooooo many threads on Aqua men it isn't funny. I think they might just tie Scorpio, and top Cancer and Libra in the complaint department.

Well, I don't know what happened, but yeah, I would suspect the same thing as you.
When I was first reading, and saw that he had a teenage son, I thought maybe the son had used the room, but you said he had the only key. Sooo,,,

Does he have a recent ex, or do you think he had a one night thing for his b-day?
Could he have had friends over possibly, partying, and a couple used the room???

Just covering all the bases here.
What is his Moon, Mars, and Venus in. Just curious.

But, the Aquas I know, although they are all women, are not too big on giving answers on demand, so that may be an Aqua trait, I don't really know.

If he did do something, maybe count your blessings that you only invested 1 month in him, and not 1 year, you know?

I know that isn't much comfort, but it's all I have to offer at the moment.

*But you are right, that is def not a Sag trait, we would tell you what we did, and probably say, "I'm sorry, but you weren't there, and it was my birthday, and I got trashed, and it just happened," and let the chips fall where they may, at least that is what I would do, in that situation, only a month in.

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posted February 01, 2010 10:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KYM31     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay now I know that I'm not just imagining things or being paranoid lol. A recent ex according to him no, BUT there was a an ex who he would see from time to time. But as far as I knew once we began seeing one another that ended?!?! Now I really don't know, but I just feel that it was early enough to state anything you know. Given we didnt make a commitment to one another but he clearly showed jealousy whenever I mentioned a random guy. His Venus is in Sagittairus which is sextile my Pluto. He doesn't know his birthtime but on the day he was born early am is Sagittarius. If around 12mid it might be Scorpio I think. His Mars is in Sag too. Most of his planets fall into my 5th house. Also I dont think anyone got into the room without his knowledge. I mean his friends couldve been over that night b4 his bday which they were clearly in the background when he called. But he told me that he had been drinking all weekend which understandable, went out with coworkers for lunch. But later that evening I asked him to come over because I was too tired and he told me he wasn't dressed. So right there Im like okay well we haven't seen each other in a few days so what guy wouldnt want to come over and hang out if youre seeing each other. I even said to him "oh you must have plans"! And he snapped at me. His words were "bullsh^t"! So I left it alone. I didnt know what it meant until I went over on Monday and saw this mysterious "revlon creme"!

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posted February 02, 2010 12:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OY! That's alot of Sag. With Scorp too, maybe. whew. hmm..

I don't know, if you are not committed, then maybe you can see how he acts in the next few days or week, and get a better feel for the situation.

I mean, any number of things COULD of happened, but you just don't know. For example...

He might have been cleaning his room, (changed sheets) and found the womans product left by the girl he used to hang with or whatever, and he put it on the dresser to be thrown away or given back at a later date?

Or, maybe he was embarressed to say he was using the product himself? Guys do use our stuff, they really do. Was it dye? or just gel?

And then again, if friends were over, maybe a female used his room to re-do her hair because the bathroom was being occupied, and she accidently left the item in there?

Who knows?

But, that snappy answer wasn't very nice.

If you like him, I wouldn't rule out anything, until he has made his feelings about you and the situation clearer.

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posted February 02, 2010 08:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KYM31     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
All of what you said are possibilities. I guess I'll just never know unless he tells me. Also this is a guy who wanted me to bring clothes over and was giving a spot in his closet and a drawer from his dresser. He said he was doing that so that he would know that I'm coming back if I left something there. IDK if it was true or a game but anyway like you said its better to be over now and experience less hurt than a year from now! Oh btw it was gel and he has a crew cut! LOL

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posted February 02, 2010 10:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow, that really says something to me.

I was dating someone for over 2 years, and I would intentionally leave stuff there, you know, the old "mark your territory" thing. And, the next day, he would come by and say, "you forgot your flip-flops/belt/bathing suit - whatever, and he NEVER offered me a drawer or anything!

He is a Sco with a saggie Moon/Venus, so I get the feel for the personality that you are talking about.

Have you tried the Latin Tarot link about halfway down this page? I've been using it everyday since Dee found it, and I swear to you, more things have come true with that site, then any other oracle I've done myself, or had done for me, I mean that site is just so dead on, it isn't funny.
Give it a whirl, some don't like it, and some love it, let me know what you think, and if you want, I can pull some cards for you as well.

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posted February 02, 2010 10:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KYM31     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well I tried the latin tarot and its pretty interesting. Here's my reading.
A contradiction lasts since too long with a young woman. You will have to make a final decision in order to improve your quality of life which is degraded by your relationship with that young woman.
1.Dont know who this is.

A close being on the professional level has a lot of affection for you. He/she is reserved and he/she has only a superficial relationship with you. He/she will involuntarily express his feelings for you at the time of an unusual mishap which you will live together. You will notice the discomfort that you generate in him/her and that will touch you much.
2. Could be one of my new bosses. They're both nice, but one is married and the other takes care of his mom. Both are way too old for me though. lol

A new characteristic in your complicity or your intimacy with a person will lead you to a more engaging bond with him/her. That person will seek to have a deeper relationship with you. It will be more intense between you two. This person will be more disturbed by you and he/she will seek to have a more regular or more formal frequentation with you. His/her discussions or contacts with you will be more serious and more explicit. Also his/her feelings will be obviously more palpable and definitely more consistent towards you. Some details which were unimportant will become more revealing and more eloquent. That person will start to have more tormented and more insistent feelings. New arrangements are thus to come with this person and you will overcome an important internal animation in your next contacts with him/her.
3. This could be good or bad (tormenting, insistent feelings?!. Its possible its Ray the guy Ive consulted tarot about.
An important emotional ordeal will be overcome with regard to a woman with whom you have a dissension or a controversy since some time. A privileged personal relationship or an incipient love affair will be the cause of that disagreement or that dispute. Following that, your sentimental situation will take a new rise and you will have more independence and more latitude in order to make your love efforts more joyful and to maintain a closer bond with the person you love.
4. ?

An old person, a man, will give you a present. It will be something that you dream at or that is precious to you. This man is sick and it will want to offer you this gift before his departure for the other world. This is a senior to whom you have given your help frequently. You even have made sacrifices to help him or to offer him your assistance.
5. This makes me nervous. My dad just had some tests done and he called to tell me today that he was sending me some money because things are pretty dire right now since beginning the new job and waiting a whole month to get paid. Gosh I hope that isnt why he's sending me money.

You are under the protection of an influential person. That person tries not too to show it, nevertheless the others perceive it and that feeds conversations. You make jealous people. Perhaps it would better for you to take more precaution in order to limit the gossips which circulate regarding you.
6. I think this relates to my new job. I am in-good with the HR Director and I know the big boss. Also my SR report for this year said to be careful on the job because I would be looked up greatly by higherups and it would cause jealously. Wow, this is sort of scarey too, but now I can better handle the situation.
A man older than you reproaches you your insubordination. This man belongs to your close entourage. He is a cheerful man but somewhat capricious. He likes to influence people with his words. He is affectionate and accessible, but he continuously seeks for the notoriety and the recognition of others. You are undergoing an intolerance from this man. Your bond with him is discordant and unstable. This man thinks that you have a good opinion of him, whereas your thoughts seem to indicate the opposite. You are in a position of vulnerability beside this man and it is indicated to you that you should go get assistance in order to normalize your situation.
7. Will keep an eye out on this one.

You have worked hard since several months. You have almost reached your goal and you will be able to rest soon. You will attain a great success and you will be able to finally have holidays. You are in a final sprint on the professional level. A well deserved rest is announced. A period of relaxation and serenity is to come shortly. Key words: Professional success, respite, relaxation.
8. Well I know SR Jupiter is in my 10th house and also Im approaching a Jup MC transit. So this sort of relates.

You are much loved. A person in your professional entourage is always kind and very obliging with you. His/her special attentions for you are much more than kindness. That person loves you of a sincere and intense love. His/her silence about it hides his/her embarrassment and his/her discomfort facing his/her feelings. That person is already in couple and his/her love for you often put him/her in an uncomfortable situation. He/she doesn’t want to call into question his/her current relation, because he/she finds there financial security and family comfort. That person is very attracted by you, but in the near future, he/she won’t try anything in the aim to get closer to you. That person is honest and faithful in love and is very afraid to compromise himself/herself in a friendship that can be likened to an extramarital liaison. On the other hand, his/her couple is however going to break in a distant future, but it won’t be her/his fault.
9. Oh no I hope my boss isn't in love with me...lmao. Im leaving this one alone.

A man from the outside will report you compromising facts which imply a person of your entourage.
10. ?

A new financial opportunity, an acquisition or an investment is coming to you. A good deal is possible if you remain cautious regarding certain people. You will have an excellent bargain on hand, but someone will try to fool you. On the other hand, by showing of understanding and intelligence, you will see that you will have the possibility of thwarting the trap which you will be tightened. Be careful.

A friend (woman) will bring you a lot of tenderness and your good relationship with her will deepen more. An event will encourage you to share your inner emotions with her and her support for you will be total. That friendship will be favourable for her also, and she will benefit of it as much as you.
I'm a little sleepy now lol but I will come back later to disect it. Have a good night Gypsy but feel free to comment on any of it.

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posted February 04, 2010 09:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Number three, that is him, I think.
As I've read your story, I had the intuition that he isn't done with you yet.

Whether you are done is the question.
But, I'm glad you posted this, because, it helped me to believe in this site more. Like I said, I do it everyday, and I've never gotten the reading you got.
There is something about this site.

Anyway, my thoughts are that he will come to you in time.
His angry response gives me the feeling that he does give a hoot, because, if he didn't care, why the angry outburst at being asked if he had other plans?

You know with Aquas it can be like pulling teeth to get in their heads. If you are patient, I believe he will contact you.

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posted February 11, 2010 08:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KYM31     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey! I wasn't going to say anything but here's a chance to prove some of my reading to be true in reference to number 3. I was sort of embarassed by it, but f'it! Ray called me last thursday, the 4th which was 2 days after i did the online reading. and the words he said to me were very explicit. he called as you and i thought and he asked me who i was giving his sex too!!!! I immediately said to him, you can't be serious. And he goes yes I'm serious are you giving my sex away, are you messing around with other guys. Now he said this because I asked for an article of clothing back 2 days before that and he told me I wasn't getting it back to which I replied why would you want to keep something that doesn't belong to you. So then I said please just return it and we will have no more dealings with each other. I am totally embarassed by this. But since that time no contact has been made by either of us.

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Hi kym, I thought I'de lost you for a minute there.

I think he's totally into you. Or else why the angry accusations, if he didn't give a hoot, he wouldn't bother speaking to you at all.

As far as the non-contact, I'de give it time. Aquas can be tricky that way, I have an Aqua best friend who can go months without calling me, and when I ask her about it, she'll say, "huh? It's been months??"

I think he just wants to cool down and think a bit. He'll be back, I'de bet anything on it.

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Hi gyp! No I'm still here. Well he called me Valentine Eve and then we made plans to be spend together time on Valentine's Day. So I went over things were uhh a little shaky, but I made my decision a few minutes ago. Of course it started with the usual questioning, "who have I been seeing since we've broken up/not been together"? To which I replied my same answer no one. He didn't believe me and then proceeded to ask me several times who I've been dating and also if I had any gentleman friends over. Again, I told him there hasn't been anyone. So I ask him, why does he keep accusing me of dating other people and I say it must be because of the "mysterious hair gel". So he asks me, why do I keep bringing it up. To which I replied because you lied in my face and said you didn't know where it came from. So then he says well I told you that I have an on-off again 17 year relationship with my old girlfriend!!!! Then he says it probably came from her. I said so how dare you question me about anything that I do. I said it isn't your business and WE never made a commitment hence you didn't need to lie. So after that was over things were okay. I figured maybe we're starting over again fresh. So today I sent him a text just asking what type of relationship does he expect or want to have? And I said if its a one-on-one than you need to make a decision about your other situation. So he calls me and says I cannot make a decision really fast because I've been dealing with this other woman for 17 years! I told him that I was really sad that he couldn't make a decision and I wish him the best as I will not wait around for someone who isn't deserving of my love! So that's the end of Mr. Ray!

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posted February 17, 2010 12:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OHHHHH! uggggg! How dare he question you about what you've been doing, when he's been doing the EX!! See, that is one of my beliefs, or little superstitions, whenever someone is really accusatory towards someone else, it's usually cause they are guilty themselves.

Good riddance!! You made the right choice, it would be VERY difficult, I think, to get him off of a 17 year relationship, and that would always be looming over you!! Sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too. You are much better off. I hope you don't take his calls, which will probably come again. uggg, I feel bad for you KYM, sorry you had this experience!! [[[ HUGS ]]]

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What happened to the rest of the thread? I didnt see what you posted Gyp. Its gone . Okay I see it now I had to log back on. Yes I didnt want to go through months of wanting to know when he was ever going to give up that relationship. It really sort of tee'd me off. I'm like WTF! You know. He definitely wanted his cake so he could eat it too, but it wasn't going to be MY CAKE! Lol. He just seemed so nice...and now that he said that more like a sheep in wolf's clothing. Other than that bs, we did get along well ie joking around, having intelligent conversations,etc. But I had to draw the line at that the 17 year, don't know when its gonna end relationship. After we hung I texted him a nice little addition. I says here's a lesson for you, if it hasn't worked in 17 years ITS NEVER GOING FRIGGIN WORK! I said I am saddened on both occasions, one because we couldnt further this and 2 because some people just never realize when ITS OVER. And its ironic because he always talked about "change" being good! LMAO...okay looney bird. But I wont take his calls anymore, I'd be a fool too.

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posted February 17, 2010 07:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KYM31     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the hugs. I was sorta hoping we could've made something as I've been single for 3 years. Dated a few over the years but run into plenty of frogs. Enough to have a frog farm lmao. One day it will happen... sigh.

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Yes Kym, it WILL happen, and it's like this....when I was younger like in the 90's I wanted really, super long hair, cuz everyone HAD it, I mean everyone, right? So, I bought all kinds of products, expensive stuff from shops, even horse tail shampoo!! Took some vitamins that are supposed to grow hair. I was obsessed. I would look in the mirror backwards, you know, with another mirror, and it NEVER seemed to be growing.
Then, I had a slew of kids, and never gave my hair a second thought. Truly, it was in a sloppy bun everyday, and only DONE when, on rare ocassions that I went out.
So, of course, my hair grew and grew and grew. It's curly, but when I comb it down wet, it goes to my waist. So, you see, when we stop paying so much attention to something, seems like that is when we get it. I know love and hair are not on the same par, but you know what I'm saying.

RE: These long ex relationships. Well, I have one. So, I feel qualified to speak from his viewpoint, NOT his words, but just the situation. Me and this person can't seem to get it together because of many circumstances, but we cant let it alone either. We do take breaks and seek others, only to fall back together. I don't know why. I can't say if it is familiarity or if it's really true love. I just know, I cant live with or without him, and this is common.
So, for your sake, next time find out if there are any looming exe's, cuz like I told mine, when he took a 3 week tour of a newbie, I said, "Well, she may have mystery, but I have history." And he came back, when the mystery was not so mysterious, and the history was much more comforting. Just my lil advice is all.

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Hey Gypsie! Well I've been laying low key since our last talk and whadda you know Ray calls me and in a very weakened state I ended up hooking up with him. Now I'm like confused. We talked, mostly he asking me why I became interested in him and ofcourse the usual have I been messing with anyone during our "breakup" I guess if that's what you call it. Anyway I decided to pull out my trusty ole tarot cards and pulled 3. Are ya ready? Im going to need loads up help with this one. First the Star, followed by the Devil, and ended up with the 7 of cups. Now with the star which is a good omen I felt pretty good thinking maybe we can talk things over see what is really keeping him in a stagnate state with the ex girlfriend. He told me that whenever he was alone he could always go back!!! So I feel that I don't want to be with someone that can't get over there past. So why am I stuck? Could it be the devil card? are experiencing some type of obsession with each other. I told him that we could be friends but that the sleeping together part was over with because I'm getting a little emotional and I said it's best to just be friends and that I would date other people. Now for the 7 of cups that could mean his confusion about which way to go with his feelings the ex or me. I say that because he told me he really likes me. This is BS!

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