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posted January 23, 2014 10:42 PM            

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Hey guys

I haven't spoken to my ex this month/year.But I was curious about his feelings towards me since he just stopped replying to me.The first two cards fit the situation,but the third one is so different from the first two.Could you guys help?

The Hermit
The High Priestess
The Devil

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posted January 24, 2014 07:45 PM            

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I believe the Devil could mean he still feels bonded to you even though you're broken up.

I'm new to this soo..
hopefully someone else will have more to add.

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posted January 24, 2014 10:32 PM            

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Thank you for your help!

So do you think these cards mean he's forcing himself to walk away though he still feels something?

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posted January 25, 2014 03:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Gemmy:
Hey guys

I haven't spoken to my ex this month/year.But I was curious about his feelings towards me since he just stopped replying to me.The first two cards fit the situation,but the third one is so different from the first two.Could you guys help?

The Hermit
The High Priestess
The Devil

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Did you guys had a rough parting?

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posted January 25, 2014 01:27 PM            

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Not really.We've been trying to make it work for about 2 years.We were on and off a lot.I felt like he didn't really care,so I kept leaving him.The on and off was my fault.I think I frustrate him.But he does compulsively lie.So the frustration's mutual.I guess it was rough.

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posted January 25, 2014 03:32 PM            

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Could the Devil show up as resentment? Unhealthy attachments to people or situations (not being able to get over it), could bring it up.

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posted January 25, 2014 04:07 PM            

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Resentment could fit the situation.Of course it'd mean he did want to be with me and I was wrong all along.

I was hoping it meant he still felt a connection and he'd come back.Since the high priestess also showed up.

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posted January 25, 2014 06:14 PM            

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Maybe he is secretly obsessed with you (thinks about you alot) even though he seems to have shut you out.

Again i am new to this so i could be waay off.

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posted January 25, 2014 07:00 PM            

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I'm new to this too.So any thoughts are appreciated.
Our synastry actually backs that up.But man does he show self control.

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posted January 26, 2014 12:55 AM            

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When I first saw your spread Gemmy I thought of frustration,emotional unavailability on both sides,since you asked about his feelings towards you I thought may be he harbours resentment towards you with regards to intimacy perhaps? May be you were coming off as a bit cold towards him or just unavailable at times. That's 3 major arcana cards so whatever issues that were going on between you two and that were probably the cause of you both drifting apart is still on his mind.

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posted January 26, 2014 04:24 AM            

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Thanks jessica.

I didn't realize they were major arcana cards.That happens a lot when I ask questions about him.Most cards or the whole spread are major arcana.

As for frustrations with intimacy,I can see that.I don't have any intimate experience. We frequently spoke about that.But it looks like it's never gonna happen.Maybe that's what frustrates him.Both of us,honestly.

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posted January 26, 2014 11:41 PM            

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yeah..but from the cards you pulled I'd say you knew that all along.

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posted January 27, 2014 12:15 AM            

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Yep,kinda did.I need things like this confirmed,so I could just move on.And I just read something that did just that.It is really over and I'm just done.

Thank you guys for taking the time to help me out.

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posted January 30, 2014 07:41 AM            

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Sorry in advance,I need to vent a little.

This guy is incredible.Just when I'm good and ready to move on,he contacts me.It's like he knows what to do to keep me there.It's been a month and he writes me to tell me goodbye and give me another lame excuse for why he hasn't written me.He wanted me to be pathetic and beg him to stay.He emotionally manipulates me all the time.When I didn't fall for it,he got upset and we had an argument.I feel so frustrated,I wish I had never met him.

Why does he do this? Is there an answer in the cards I pulled or should I ask again?I'm just tired of wondering how he feels.This is what he does to me,pathetic.

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