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sid
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posted January 24, 2014 01:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sid     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi LL tarot readers, as you know that i am going through the most hard time of my life . I am unable to carry on my life like this and want everything to go back the way it was before with my husband. By july everything will come to an end,thinking about this my heart is in immense pain. How do i tell him i want to go back to him,he might not accept me. I pulled a card for the question "Is everything over between my husband and me?" and got "Six of cups". I am so confused about this card.Can you please help me. I am little stressed out . Thanking you in advance and i am sorry to ask about divorce again. It is really painful for me.

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posted January 24, 2014 03:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aw Sid
Sorry you feel that bad. Could it be that all this change is also stressing you out?
Please pull a clarifier for the 6 of Cups, because it can relate to a connection belonging to the past & being left there, yet I also see it come up as someone coming back from the past at times.

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posted January 24, 2014 03:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sid     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Twirl:
Aw Sid
Sorry you feel that bad. Could it be that all this change is also stressing you out?
Please pull a clarifier for the 6 of Cups, because it can relate to a connection belonging to the past & being left there, yet I also see it come up as someone coming back from the past at times.

Thank you so much twirl for being there for me whenever i am down. It is because of this forum tarot readers i am still hanging on with lots of hope in this critical situation. Especially you,empress and few other favorite members who always give me an encouraging push towards a brighter future. As you said i pulled one more card for the same question and got knight of pentacles. Now seriously i dont know what this card means for this situation. Twirl dear thank you again for being an angel for helping me always. If i move into a brighter period ( i dont know when that will happen ) i will definitely come here again to thank you. Have a good day.

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posted January 24, 2014 03:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sid:
Thank you so much twirl for being there for me whenever i am down. It is because of this forum tarot readers i am still hanging on with lots of hope in this critical situation. Especially you,empress and few other favorite members who always give me an encouraging push towards a brighter future. As you said i pulled one more card for the same question and got knight of pentacles. Now seriously i dont know what this card means for this situation. Twirl dear thank you again for being an angel for helping me always. If i move into a brighter period ( i dont know when that will happen ) i will definitely come here again to thank you. Have a good day.

You are welcome
I got a bit confused with your cards also, but I think that relates to the question asked (phrased). "Is EVERYTHING over?" And the tarot most likely answered you in a soothing:"no, look at all these sweet memories you had together, that's still going to be there. So it's showing the nostalgic and sentimental side for the connection you shared." Since the knight is a court card it can represents both you or him, but I am guessing it is you working and moving toward more stability for yourself.
I think it also shows the foundations you and your husband shared in that past. Those things, build over time, aren't gone straight away. So it feels like the tarot is trying to comfort you.
For a relationship however, I don't think it's very likely, but it feels like now that all is coming so close, the hurt and sadness over this also starts coming up now. So I can imagine it's confusing times for you

Just take good care of yourself & try to see if you really would like the relationship back as it was. Just some thoughts on this. Take care

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posted January 25, 2014 01:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlecloud     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you want me to pull some cards for you? I have a couple of spreads in mind that I could use.

Could you give a little more background on the situation? I remember you being anxious to get the divorce over with so I'm a bit confused...

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posted January 25, 2014 02:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sid     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Twirl:
You are welcome
I got a bit confused with your cards also, but I think that relates to the question asked (phrased). "Is EVERYTHING over?" And the tarot most likely answered you in a soothing:"no, look at all these sweet memories you had together, that's still going to be there. So it's showing the nostalgic and sentimental side for the connection you shared." Since the knight is a court card it can represents both you or him, but I am guessing it is you working and moving toward more stability for yourself.
I think it also shows the foundations you and your husband shared in that past. Those things, build over time, aren't gone straight away. So it feels like the tarot is trying to comfort you.
For a relationship however, I don't think it's very likely, but it feels like now that all is coming so close, the hurt and sadness over this also starts coming up now. So I can imagine it's confusing times for you

Just take good care of yourself & try to see if you really would like the relationship back as it was. Just some thoughts on this. Take care


Thank you twirl. Yes you are spot on, whenever i start to think that by july everything will be over i feel a burden in my heart. Yes twirl ill just calm down my heart with all the good times we had. My doors are closed forever and only open to him if he wants to come back anytime realizing my worth. It was a long struggle and my anger is now over and i reached a stage where i could forgive all his mistakes, but sadly he has moved on. I still have my son and i am thankful for that. God bless you twirl.

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sid
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posted January 25, 2014 02:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sid     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by littlecloud:
Do you want me to pull some cards for you? I have a couple of spreads in mind that I could use.

Could you give a little more background on the situation? I remember you being anxious to get the divorce over with so I'm a bit confused...



Thank you littlecloud for rendering your help. Much Appreciated. Yes i will just brief a bit.

A year back i found out my husband's infidelity and applied for divorce( That time i didnt have the maturity or calm mind to think and act). Then from that time i faced lot of problems(Most painful situations)and my little son too suffering a lot. The actually reality of divorce is now clear to me and now i feel the pinch of my hasty decision. My husband came forward to mutual consent divorce which will be granted in july 2014. (Now we are in grace period where we can consider getting back together). After the court date he is still not communicating with me. So we have no communication at all. His initial is "B" and mine "S". He stays abroad (USA). I lost my job this month and i am currently staying in my sisters house. She is planning to move out to her in laws place, which worsened my situation. Now i have to move out of the house by february 2014 with my son. I am not getting a job also, i have sent almost 50 applications with no reply from any of the employers.

This is why i am so depressed, all at once and now i dont know what future i am going to give my son. If you could help me that would be great littlecloud.

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posted January 25, 2014 02:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlecloud     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Before I pull cards for you, how long is that grace period? When does it end?

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posted January 25, 2014 02:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlecloud     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Before I pull cards for you, how long is that grace period? When does it end?

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posted January 25, 2014 03:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sid     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by littlecloud:
Before I pull cards for you, how long is that grace period? When does it end?


6 months from now.(july 10th is the final date)

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sid
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posted January 25, 2014 03:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sid     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Littlecloud a bit more info. If you see any air travel for me within this year, then there could be a possibilty of reuniting right?

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posted January 26, 2014 02:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sid     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump .

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posted January 27, 2014 01:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlecloud     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Asked if you would hear from him about possibly fixing things between the two of you and I got

Knight of Discs- Chariot- World

In all honesty you may hear from him, but with the Chariot and World I believe the divorce will go through. The Chariot is a 'me' card or singular one and the World signifies a phase of life being over. It's not really like Death where there is a transformation but more of a chapter ending. It was full, but now it's over and you've reached the end of the book.

This next question I may need some help from Twirl, so if you're around pop in and bestow your wisdom.

I asked what you needed to do to find employment by then end of February

Chariot- Ace of Rods- 6 of Discs

I say don't give up for starters. Get out there, everyday if you have to. Apply in person, maybe ask to speak to manager/owner/higher up. Don't be afraid to grab the bull by the horns. I keep looking at the cards and getting this feeling like theres something right around the corner for you.

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sid
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posted January 27, 2014 02:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sid     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by littlecloud:
Asked if you would hear from him about possibly fixing things between the two of you and I got

Knight of Discs- Chariot- World

In all honesty you may hear from him, but with the Chariot and World I believe the divorce will go through. The Chariot is a 'me' card or singular one and the World signifies a phase of life being over. It's not really like Death where there is a transformation but more of a chapter ending. It was full, but now it's over and you've reached the end of the book.

This next question I may need some help from Twirl, so if you're around pop in and bestow your wisdom.

I asked what you needed to do to find employment by then end of February

Chariot- Ace of Rods- 6 of Discs

I say don't give up for starters. Get out there, everyday if you have to. Apply in person, maybe ask to speak to manager/owner/higher up. Don't be afraid to grab the bull by the horns. I keep looking at the cards and getting this feeling like theres something right around the corner for you.



Thank you so much littlecloud. It is sad to know that everything is over between us now and regarding the job situation i am happy to know that the opportunity is not far away. I will definitely update you the status of both the situation. I am thankful to you all for helping me a lot. God bless you.

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