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redshoes
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posted May 07, 2014 10:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for redshoes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I asked about an ex of mine, whether he actually loved me or not

Ace wands-World-King Pents

I dont see ace wands as actual love, more passion..what does anyone else feel? Thanks

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posted May 08, 2014 05:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is hard to tell; What if the love from his point of view doesn't match yours, but it is still love? The cards will tell how it is, but what if that is the only kind of love he's capable of and therefore an answer would be yes, inherently?

I think there's place in his heart for you, a corner that's just yours; after the passion run its course, there's still dedication left; fixation, perhaps.

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posted May 09, 2014 07:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for redshoes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
This is hard to tell; What if the love from his point of view doesn't match yours, but it is still love? The cards will tell how it is, but what if that is the only kind of love he's capable of and therefore an answer would be yes, inherently?

I think there's place in his heart for you, a corner that's just yours; after the passion run its course, there's still dedication left; fixation, perhaps.


Wow! Do you know him?? . He said more than once there would always be a place in his heart for me. I let him go to find what he was looking for (or thought so) as i wanted something completely different

Thanks for your very keen insight. Would you mind doing a short reading on whether or not he would ever make contact again. I can exchange with you

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posted May 09, 2014 08:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I do.

Glad I could help. However, there's a reason why I hang out more here, than in Personal Readings - I am not quite ready to be offering what I consider serious reading. I am up for anything else, as long as I can discuss it.

I draw cards very carefully though. So, I could follow up your inquiry if you keep your mind open as to the interpretation.

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posted May 09, 2014 08:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for redshoes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
I do.

Glad I could help. However, there's a reason why I hang out more here, than in Personal Readings - I am not quite ready to be offering what I consider serious reading. I am up for anything else, as long as I can discuss it.

I draw cards very carefully though. So, I could follow up your inquiry if you keep your mind open as to the interpretation.


Thanks! Would you rather me draw the cards here and you give your take on them..and i could do the same for you...does that sound better? . However if you are also up for drawing some, that would be cool too x. Let me know which is the better option

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posted May 09, 2014 08:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've got the cards, myself. You can draw for my question.

10 of Cups + 8 of Swords

What I've discovered with 10 of Cups is that our happiness and the impressions of our own happiness teeter on a very line and often shows the vague shapes of the happiness, rather than experience of happiness. As if the 10 of those cups are too much, brimming, overflowing with emotions and your sensory receptors start mixing the signals.

Given the following card, I am inclined to think that at some point he is "Oh, I should contact her, it'd be sweet & perfect" but there's something in that urge that he doesn't quite get, and it prevents - restricts him from following through his wish. He's sabotaging himself and it stems from his emotional confusion.

However, if I am to derive one meaning from these 2 cards, it would be guilt.

So, the answer is no, but I think it's not a permanent thing.

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posted May 09, 2014 09:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for redshoes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow that is very very very him!! He is scared, confused and cowardly and sabotages his relationships cos of his own fear and lack of courage!! I actually dont want him to contact me, at least not for a while. One of his lessons is to find courage!! Thanks! Oh btw his card is the 8 swords always comes up! I am getting a very clear picture of who he is...thankfully . Re the guilt thing....so he should!

What can i do for you? xx

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posted May 09, 2014 09:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Alternatively, the 10 of Cups is similar to 6 of Cups, when in core/foundation/past position. So, he consciously chose not to contact you (very 8 of swords, choosing not to act, proceed) because he feels it is a done thing,but clings to the memory because he can't still figure out everything. Something is amiss, is it really a thing of the past or not? = the friction between Cups & Swords suits


I remembered my ex friend this morning. I don't want to get in touch with her, right now anyway, but I am interested to know how she feels about me, *now*.

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posted May 09, 2014 12:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for redshoes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Alternatively, the 10 of Cups is similar to 6 of Cups, when in core/foundation/past position. So, he consciously chose not to contact you (very 8 of swords, choosing not to act, proceed) because he feels it is a done thing,but clings to the memory because he can't still figure out everything. Something is amiss, is it really a thing of the past or not? = the friction between Cups & Swords suits


I remembered my ex friend this morning. I don't want to get in touch with her, right now anyway, but I am interested to know how she feels about me, *now*.


Yes it is him that is amiss ....he is so draining and bad for me..thanks so much for the input..very helpful!

New beginnings
Emotional loss
Destiny

Your friend misses you and feels the loss of you from her life...she does however have a fated philosophy as in *what will be will be*. Did you try and rekindle the r.ship before i wonder? I am not sure if it will be mended anytime soon, but there is definitely sadness on her part. The middle card is similar to 5cups (sadness and maybe looking back with regret). I feel with this reading your friend swings between feeling loss and thinking it was meant to be

Hope that makes some sense

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posted May 09, 2014 12:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@ him, amiss!

She's a Sag, with Scorpio Venus, so she has that type of outlook in her, yes.

I feel similar. I haven't seen her in many years. Actually, I just left. No rekindling attempts either.

Thank you so very much.

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posted May 09, 2014 12:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for redshoes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
@ him, amiss!

She's a Sag, with Scorpio Venus, so she has that type of outlook in her, yes.

I feel similar. I haven't seen her in many years. Actually, I just left. No rekindling attempts either.

Thank you so very much.


Eeeek Scorp Venus, i know about that! Glad it helped..ask anytime!

Can i just ask about this comment you made

**So, the answer is no, but I think it's not a permanent thing**

Does that mean possible future contact?

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posted May 09, 2014 12:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
At the moment, no. But 8 of Swords is a temporary card,a transitory card. It will change.

ETA : I focused on present moment, not ever-forever prospect.

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posted May 09, 2014 03:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for redshoes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
At the moment, no. But 8 of Swords is a temporary card,a transitory card. It will change.

ETA : I focused on present moment, not ever-forever prospect.


Oh God....will keep that in mind so i can ignore him ...not going there again, far too exhausting. Thanks again! x

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