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tgem
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posted December 30, 2014 05:31 PM
  
Ok so this probably should go in PR but since I pulled cards on it myself, I kind of need an interpretation. So for those of you who know my story, I have an update and need advice. So there is a chance that after 2.5 years of no contact, I'm finally going to see Cusp tomorrow night briefly at a new year's party. I'm sure he will probably be with his wife but I am open to making conversation. But here's what really worries me. I pulled cards that told me my ex husband will be there as well...with his mistress (stork) and our son (child!). This is actually a very likely scenario and if it is indeed true, I really need advice on how to handle the situation. This will be like the equivalent of me walking into the lion's den..and the lion's haven't eaten in 3 days! Can anyone shed some light on tomorrow night for me and how I should handle it? I am so excited for tomorrow night and looking forward to a great new year's but I'm scared it could end up being a total disaster. Pretty please? IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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posted December 30, 2014 05:48 PM
For the question: How should you handle it? I gotTower Six of Swords Page of Swords With the Tower I think you should go there smashingly beautiful/dressed, perhaps in a way the others do not expect. then for the rest, read here and see what inspires you:
http://www.learntarot.com/s6.htm http://learntarot.com/spg.htm ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted December 30, 2014 05:58 PM
Thanks Leeloo- I can do that 
Here were the spreads (I asked again):Will I see J tomorrow night?
Ring- bouquet-fox-whip-scythe Will KC be with him?
Fish-tower-roads-clouds-snake
Clarifier: heart Will our son be with him?
Scythe-moon-letter-garden-bouquet IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted December 30, 2014 06:06 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
For the question: How should you handle it? I gotTower Six of Swords Page of Swords With the Tower I think you should go there smashingly beautiful/dressed, perhaps in a way the others do not expect. then for the rest, read here and see what inspires you:
http://www.learntarot.com/s6.htm http://learntarot.com/spg.htm
These were very good thank you! I'm actually planning on wearing a sequins dress tomorrow night because I'm going to a big gala afterwards! I think the others point to recovery for me...acting positive and hopeful for a new future while being honest and calling the situation what is is without holding back and then walking away with pride rather than fear? IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted December 30, 2014 06:45 PM
Keep up your head high and smile and remember what amazing person you are. It will radiate outside. And (try to) donīt give a damn what others might think of you!
This is your world, your life, and you are rightfully there.
And it can be a chance with Cusp, can`t it be?
Well at least that was what I was telling myself during the last concert when I entered the audience of the club, and felt several eyes zoom in on me, and partly decidely NOT in a friendly way!
Differently than in the past I just kept my head a little higher and gave back the stares, with a little smile, and then people resumed their talking.
I donīt know why I got the attention just by walking in. Ironically the pathway into the club was across a red carpet. 
It was.... surreal. But it also felt like walking through fire and ice, of course I probably was just a tiny little bit paranoid.
And it turned out that while there WAS some animosity in there, I was also given broad smiles by absolute strangers. In fact one of the female singers on stage was winking at me, and I have nevwer seen her before. But well she was singing a duet with Mr Sag, and while she was looking at him, he was somewhere else. And she followed his look, then looking back to him and then winked at me and looking like she hardly could refrain from doubling up with laughter. Well, I think this is all due to my imagination running while, cause it could not be THAT obvious now, could it?
But anyway what I wanted to say is, don`t let it perturb you (too much). Just keep in mind that you are a wonderful person and everyone should be happy to know you.
(man I really can feel that progressed Moon in Leo starting running away with me ) IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted December 30, 2014 06:51 PM
Thank you so much Ceri!!! I really appreciate it. I will think of these things tomorrow night...because really, what do I have to be afraid of? I know in my heart who I am and the truth of the matter....and if I get the chance to see or talk to Cusp...well that's my New Years gift from the universe . Thank you universe  P.s. Shoot us a pic tomorrow night of the "final product" before you go and I'll send one of mine! IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted December 30, 2014 06:56 PM
Exactly. You know the heart of the matter Can`t wait to see your final product. Well as for mine, the concert will be on 9th january, so we gotta be a little patient.
(I cancelled my trip, so I am not going to see him as Casanova tomorrow.) IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted December 30, 2014 06:59 PM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Exactly. You know the heart of the matter Can`t wait to see your final product. Well as for mine, the concert will be on 9th january, so we gotta be a little patient.
(I cancelled my trip, so I am not going to see him as Casanova tomorrow.)
What??!! Why?
So then what are you doing tomorrow? IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted December 30, 2014 07:15 PM
I asked how I will feel after all the interactions tomorrow night. I pulled:
Letter- mice- bear-ring-keyWith the bear as the focus and the key as the last card I think it shows I'll feel very empowered, successful, and strong. It looks pretty good I think. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted December 30, 2014 07:29 PM
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What??!! Why?
So then what are you doing tomorrow?
I`ll be home, celebrating with my family. Well I have a cold and nasty cough, a lot of work, and I kind of did not want to welcome the new year alone. So I cancelled.
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Ceridwen
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posted December 30, 2014 07:30 PM
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Originally posted by tgem:
I asked how I will feel after all the interactions tomorrow night. I pulled:
Letter- mice- bear-ring-keyWith the bear as the focus and the key as the last card I think it shows I'll feel very empowered, successful, and strong. It looks pretty good I think.
I agree yu will feel empowered.
But I also think the mice there shows that you will probably worry quite a bit in the beginning. Luckily the spread ends on a strong happy note. IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted December 30, 2014 07:32 PM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
I`ll be home, celebrating with my family. Well I have a cold and nasty cough, a lot of work, and I kind of did not want to welcome the new year alone. So I cancelled.
Bummer  well at least you have the chance to get well again before you see him on the 9th! Looks like that worked out for the best IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted December 30, 2014 07:33 PM
Yes, the solo concert was more important to me than this musical.
I probably should be sadder about it that I am not going than I feel right now. Well maybe tomorrow I will feel the regret. lol
But honestly something just felt off about the whole thing. Don`t quite know what. IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted December 30, 2014 07:34 PM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
I agree yu will feel empowered.
But I also think the mice there shows that you will probably worry quite a bit in the beginning. Luckily the spread ends on a strong happy note.
Yeah, the worrying makes sense. I'm just going to have to remember to look at the big picture! IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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posted December 31, 2014 07:51 AM
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Originally posted by tgem:
These were very good thank you! I'm actually planning on wearing a sequins dress tomorrow night because I'm going to a big gala afterwards! I think the others point to recovery for me...acting positive and hopeful for a new future while being honest and calling the situation what is is without holding back and then walking away with pride rather than fear?
Absolutely! I think you got the message 
It's funny that I was thinking sequins about that Tower, I even saw you with this, I had a flash hahahaha You absolutely do that! ------------------
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tgem
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posted December 31, 2014 08:34 AM
He he! Ok. I told Ceri I would post a pic of the "final product" before I go tonight for you to see. She's gonna do the same when she sees Mr. Sag on the 9th!IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted December 31, 2014 08:40 AM
Hey I never said I posted a pic, but can`t wait to see yours. Thing is I do not even have a camera (i usualy force my Dad to take a picture of me, but could not do it then). Well I could break my own rule and ask mr Sag for a pic with him, so you could see how I am going to look like.
(still would mean I would have to organize a camera somehow. lol) IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted December 31, 2014 08:47 AM
ohhh nooooo......
I was just for fun asking if he was going to take a picture with me (why not? He does so with other fans, too)
Man - Stars - Sun  And was also inquiring, if he was going like me asking him for a pic (hoping for a No, no, no, no) but I got lily - Dog - Moon
No, I relaly do NOT intend to do that. Ever. Period. lol
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tgem
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posted December 31, 2014 09:16 AM
AHHhHhHh!!! You HAVE to do this!!!!! YES I expect to see a pic of you and Mr. Sag the night of the 9th!!!! Pretty please???!!! You just HAVE to (the cards are even telling you to LOL  IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted December 31, 2014 09:24 AM
Nope, that is just such a groupie-thing to do. I am not going to line up for a forced (though given willingly) picture with him. Besides whom would I ask to take the picture? M? Now THAT would be an idea.
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tgem
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posted December 31, 2014 09:37 AM
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Nope, that is just such a groupie-thing to do. I am not going to line up for a forced (though given willingly) picture with him. Besides whom would I ask to take the picture? M? Now THAT would be an idea.
That would be awesome....I can just see the look on her face now...😡 IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted December 31, 2014 09:51 AM
lolPouring oil into the fire is probably not the best idea though. Maybe if I did that, it would even calm her nerves, as this would make me just a fan like all the others. IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted December 31, 2014 09:52 AM
So I asked my cards if I'll get a text from him tonight later after I see him?
Ship-rider-snake-ring-coffin
The snake threw me off as the main focus card so I drew a Clarifier: bouquetWhat do you think? IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted December 31, 2014 09:54 AM
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lolPouring oil into the fire is probably not the best idea though. Maybe if I did that, it would even calm her nerves, as this would make me just a fan like all the others.
True. Although I admit I don't think I'd have the guts to that either...
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Ceridwen
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posted December 31, 2014 10:02 AM
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Originally posted by tgem:
So I asked my cards if I'll get a text from him tonight later after I see him?
Ship-rider-snake-ring-coffin
The snake threw me off as the main focus card so I drew a Clarifier: bouquetWhat do you think?
With the coffin as the last card I don`t think so. He might want to, but feeling bound by a contract (his wife?).
I mean if the coffin had not come up I would have thought yes of course, with rider and bouquet, but hmm, I donīt know. Either that or if he sends you this message nevertheless, it might seriously rock the boat for his relationship. Or he is fearing that it would. I donīt know. There are also 2 negative cards, and only one clearly positive card in there. Personally I find the 3 card spread for Yes-No-questions easier to read though.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FOm-Bq33IMg
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