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mztiny
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From: Alexandria, VA
Registered: Jan 2014

posted January 12, 2015 11:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mztiny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

How does A feel about me?

Queen cups
4 wands R
Knight Swords R

Queen cups tells me he loves me but 4W R says he would never commitment and Knight SW R means hate to me.

Thoughts?

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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted January 13, 2015 01:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It depends a lot on who this person is: your ex, a crush, your boyfriend, someone you know well, someone you don't know well etc.

I don't see the Knight reversed like this. The upright K is charging, bold, heroic, he is an Errol Flynn. Reversed, it's the opposite of this: constricted, restricted, maybe festering inside, or simply unmotivated, especially with the 4 of W rev. The Queen could also mean memories, nostalgia, good feelings about something in the past, or all kinds of flowing emotions. Feeling peaceful and distant is also an option, especially with those reversed cards following. But again, it all depends on who this man is and how deep your relationship is. If you know and feel he loves you from his behavior, it could mean love, but feeling insecure and restricted to act.

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

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mztiny
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posted January 13, 2015 04:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mztiny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He was a recent ex, a narcissist. We had a 2yr intense sexual relationship which I fell hard for him of course,he said he had feelings but I think it was just to get sex. Anyway.. after getting tired of him using me, just for sex, i walked away. Months later he wanted back in....knowing what type of guy he was I just cut him off with an email that said "this is over, do not contact me again".

So...does he hate me?

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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted January 13, 2015 05:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No. I am sorry to hear about your experience. But honestly, I don't believe someone can use someone else "just for sex" for 2y, it takes two to have sex, you accepted it, so let's say you used each other for sex for 2y, therefore you have no reason to hate him either I'm sure it must have been other things than just sex from both sides, like feelings and emotions, just tell yourself you want something different next time and move on. It looks like you have a lot of great adventures awaiting you, especially if you are an actress and planning to start this new journey in another city. Good luck!

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mztiny
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From: Alexandria, VA
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posted January 13, 2015 05:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mztiny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your right, I have told myself I want something different and trying to move on.

I'm glad he doesn't hate me. All I wanted is for him to have loved me.

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