Lindaland
  Through The Looking Glass
  Spread for our relationship lessons

Post New Topic  Post A Reply
profile | register | preferences | faq

UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone! next newest topic | next oldest topic
Author Topic:   Spread for our relationship lessons
Astro keen
Knowflake

Posts: 3339
From: UK
Registered: Nov 2012

posted May 10, 2015 01:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Presumably, everyone has a few lessons to learn. Different lessons with different people too. Indeed, some of us go thru huge trials to learn these, where we continue to repeat past mistakes.

Wouldn't it be helpful to know what these lessons are! Could anyone suggest a spread?

IP: Logged

LeeLoo2014
Moderator

Posts: 11634
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014

posted May 10, 2015 01:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Personally, I'm not interested in receiving lessons through romantic relationships, more like lots of love and sex

I guess it could be interesting for past relationships, to see what we have learned> I wouldn't do this for a current one, it means it's a bad one; first I would focus on making it good or getting the hell out of there.

For past relationships, I suggest an interesting spread (says I )

what I have learned (3 cards or as many as you want)
what he has learned
what we have accomplished together, like a print we left on this world or our lives


something like that

------------------
I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

LeeLoo's Esotericorner

Connect for updates

IP: Logged

Astro keen
Knowflake

Posts: 3339
From: UK
Registered: Nov 2012

posted May 10, 2015 01:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:

..first I would focus on making it good or getting the hell out of there.

There we have it - that's my lesson!

Re past relationship - that was sooooo long ago that memory dims. Yes, an almost forgotten marriage, and now this, which gives me a lot to think about. I am going to be contrary and try the spread for the current (methinks soon to be a past one). We could think of a relationship undergoing phases - ours seems to be - so the spread could be related to a past phase (see, how I justify ), or it could be -

What I need to learn (other than getting the hell out )
What he needs to learn
What we have accomplished so far.

I can almost smell the cards - Temperance, Priestess, Queen of wands .. etc. Let's see if this works.

IP: Logged

Astro keen
Knowflake

Posts: 3339
From: UK
Registered: Nov 2012

posted May 10, 2015 03:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, not quite as I had seen but very interesting!

What do I need to learn
9 of swords, 8 of cups, 9 of cups
er....

What does he need to learn
Tower, Heirophant, Lovers - Aha! big lessons.
Tower - Realising that change needs to be made as a means to progress. And commitment, as in traditional values, can have a good result.

What have we accomplished so far
5 of swords, 2 of cups, 7 of swords
Love and a lot of strife - all true!

How is this looking so far? Any variations or further interpretations?

IP: Logged

LeeLoo2014
Moderator

Posts: 11634
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014

posted May 10, 2015 03:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
it could be you in need to learn how to move on when a relationship doesn't satisfy you to stand by what you wish in relationships (8 of cups 9 of cups)
it's a very pretty spread, form a tarotist's POV

he definitely needs to learn how to be a committed, normal partner sorry, it's so obvious, and he needs to change radically for that
another very pretty string

I won't comment on your accomplishments

IP: Logged

LeeLoo2014
Moderator

Posts: 11634
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014

posted May 10, 2015 03:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
it says: it should be 9 of cups, not 9 of swords; if it's 9 of swords, take your cup and go to the 9 of cups guy *the spread also suggests there is a 9 of cups guy for you, if you take that road)

IP: Logged

Astro keen
Knowflake

Posts: 3339
From: UK
Registered: Nov 2012

posted May 10, 2015 03:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Leeloo, you are quite the magician. I love what you just said. How do you know??

IP: Logged

LeeLoo2014
Moderator

Posts: 11634
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014

posted May 10, 2015 03:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's a man on the card...he may be a bit overweight but I like him. He can make you happy. Can't you see he's been waiting for you on that chair for a long time? he must have hemorrhoids by now.

IP: Logged

Astro keen
Knowflake

Posts: 3339
From: UK
Registered: Nov 2012

posted May 10, 2015 03:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Thanks!

IP: Logged

Astro keen
Knowflake

Posts: 3339
From: UK
Registered: Nov 2012

posted May 11, 2015 02:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Leeloo,

I reckon the cards are speaking to me, that is, I can trust my card pulls. I have doubts about that sometimes, being a newbie.

IP: Logged

All times are Eastern Standard Time

next newest topic | next oldest topic

Administrative Options: Close Topic | Archive/Move | Delete Topic
Post New Topic  Post A Reply
Hop to:

Contact Us | Linda-Goodman.com

Copyright 2000-2015

Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com © 2000
Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a