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Bearee
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posted July 10, 2015 07:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bearee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dearrrr everyoneee,

I met someone online and he wants to meet up next week. Anyway, I'm a bit apprehensive. He doesn't seem that much of an ... emotional guy. I, myself, am pretty emotional, so that would not go well together. Plus, I don't really get what he sees in me, for him to want to meet up with me.

So, I asked the cards what the meaning of our meeting is.
I got the following cards:

Star - Judgement - King of Pentacles (Reversed)


What do you think of these cards as a whole? I read the meaning of each card and I don't know how to feel, because of the last one which seems pretty negative....


PS. we both had a brief conversation about fear of commitment. I've never had a relationship in my life (I'm now 24 y.o). Somehow I keep distancing myself from people showing (even a little bit of) romantic interest. There was this one time though, 3 years ago, I really wanted to be with a guy, but he had major commitment and trust issues. So that didn't go well. I think this year is the first time I really let him go. I'm not sad anymore.

The guy I'm talking with right now is much older (32 y.o) and he has told me that he also has some issues with commitment. He has been in relationships though. But I don't understand why he still wants to meet up..... I just don't understand this whole thing.

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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted July 10, 2015 09:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi what do you mean by "meaning of the meeting"? what was your actual question?

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Bearee
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posted July 10, 2015 09:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bearee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi LeeLoo2014,

I believe everything has a reason. Every meeting, every encounter has something in it. Something that you may not understand or realise at that moment. With that in my mind, I asked the cards the question what the meaning of me meeting up with this guy is. Will it lead me to understanding my commitment issues more, because maybe he has an ever bigger problem with it than I have? So that he may be behaving as a mirror for my own problems.
So in this example, the meeting up will be a way for spiritual growth. But there could also be an other meaning behind this. I do not know that, that's why I asked the question.

I hope you now understand what I mean.

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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted July 10, 2015 09:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Isn't this a bit too philosophical for the first meeting with a new person in your life?
I am a promoter of the idea of giving some time with a new acquaintance before doing any kinds of readings about them, or astrology readings, the cards or charts can be very misleading, especially before the first meeting. Better to do this about someone who is already part of our lives, one way or another.
Your spread itself suggests that.

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Bearee
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posted July 10, 2015 11:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bearee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm I think you're right I tend to overthink, because of my fear. Thanks for your input!

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