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Topic: Relationship Spread (Comment welcome)
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ikja Knowflake Posts: 2188 From: The Valley of Restoration Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 20, 2015 12:35 PM
So, I did a little relationship spread for me and another a guy I've been asking about a lot recently (oops). I thought the cards were interesting, but at the same time... I found them difficult to understand - especially on his part.The lady and gentlemen cards were used and place in the centre of two spreads. The lady card was surrounded by a card above, left, below and right to the right of it. As was the gentleman card. Lady Right Card: Hopes and desires = HEART Top Card: Her thoughts and plans = DOG Left Card: Qualities she displays= STARS Below Card: Her feelings = STORK Comments - I thought the cards here were quite accurate. I'm definitely looking for love and I think that the stars support my desire for a relationship. I'm abit dreamy and aspiration when it comes to the relationship. Given that things haven't gone as I imagined, my thoughts and plans have turned to friendship or a more casual relationship with this person. My feelings are changing somewhat and I'm keen to start something new with him or without him. Gentleman Right Card: Hopes and desires = SNAKE Top Card: His thoughts and plans = BOOK Left Card: Qualities he displays = CROSS Below Card: His feelings = MICE Comments - In his spread, his desires aren't completely clear to me. The snake could suggest that he desires me (as I have the characteristics of a snake (according to my interpretation book)) or it might be that it is another woman. His thoughts and plans are secret and this rings true. I don't know what his true motivations are! He has quite an authoritative approach to most things, he is very direct and final. I understand how the cross fits. My guidance book uses the word pious (sincere) - I understand this to be honest. He can be quite honest - yes. Now, his feelings. The mice card could be one of two things... He is worried of he is losing feelings for me. Unsure, perhaps it depends on what the snake means. To get the outcome, I have to add the cards: Mine: 24 + 18 + 16 + 17 = 75 = 12 = 3 (SHIP) His: 7 + 26 + 36 + 23 = 92 = 11 = 2 (CLOVER) Adding both = 5 (TREE) The ship and the clover suggest that a journey (taken together or apart?) brings luck and happiness - something or someone new? Alternatively, it means that a journey begins soon. However, the outcome is tree. The TREE suggests something long lasting and/or a soulmate connection... but it could also mean something to do with health and wellbeing. I pulled a clarification card on TREE and it was BIRDS. That's either instability or long deep conversations on a spiritual level. It's safe to say we have experienced both thus far 😂 - http://angelorum.co/card-meanings/lenormand/lenormand-meanings-for-love-relationships/ I thought this spread was quite good (not for me personally, but for the actual detail) anyway! IP: Logged |
GeminiKarat Moderator Posts: 1888 From: Austria Registered: Jun 2014
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posted December 21, 2015 03:31 AM
You are a very good relationship reader. As soon as I am ready to screw up a new relationship I will ask for a reading. IP: Logged |
ikja Knowflake Posts: 2188 From: The Valley of Restoration Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 21, 2015 04:45 AM
Let me know when you're ready GK!!!! I need to practice this one on someone.I find that it's easier for me to read on relationships. For some reason, I can empathise with failed/good relationships very well 😕 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 3607 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted December 21, 2015 11:19 AM
oohh, please, do it on me!For me and my Aries man. Ongoing. IP: Logged |
ikja Knowflake Posts: 2188 From: The Valley of Restoration Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 21, 2015 11:21 AM
Will do Orange! Give me like two hours xIP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 3607 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted December 21, 2015 12:28 PM
Ok, dear. IP: Logged |
ikja Knowflake Posts: 2188 From: The Valley of Restoration Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 21, 2015 01:43 PM
Orange <3 The lady and gentlemen cards were used and place in the centre of two spreads. The lady card was surrounded by a card above, left, below and right to the right of it. As was the gentleman card.
Lady Right Card: Hopes and desires = KEY Top Card: Her thoughts and plans = TREE Left Card: Qualities she displays= FISH Below Card: Her feelings = SUN Comments - The cards suggest that you hope to have a relationship that works and is successful in every way. In fact, I would go so far as to say that you are looking for a relationship to complete you, by unlocking everything that you have to offer. Your thoughts and your plans suggest that you intend for the relationship to last and within the test of time. You see yourself growing old with this person? Tackling all types of weather and getting past obstacles and challenges that you may face. However, the tree may also indicate that you worry about this relationship quite a lot. It makes you anxious because what you want is does not always seem likely for whatever reason. You seem to display depth and emotion. You show him that you're committed to the relationship, that you are invested and want to create a partnership that is fruitful and beneficial for those involved. You may be an obvious money maker, someone who evidently works hard and is not financially reliant on Mr Aries. Your feelings? Well, you definitely "BURN" for him. You're open and you're warm towards him and when you're around him, he makes you feel good. Gentleman Right Card: Hopes and desires = CHILD Top Card: His thoughts and plans = SNAKE Left Card: Qualities he displays = BEAR Below Card: His feelings = GARDEN Comments - In his spread, his desires aren't completely clear to me. His hopes and desires may suggest that he wants a child with you in the future, or that he would like a new beginning outside of your relationship. I am not too sure. It might even be the case that Mr Aries longs to be free in some way, perhaps he knows what you are after and feels that he is not 100% ready? His thoughts in this spread suggest that he may be thinking about other women (although this is not a guarantee). It might be that he longs to be single again, or long term commitment is just not top of his agenda right now? The qualities he displays appear to be: stubbornness and strength. I take it that he looks and behaves in a way that your "ideal" marriage partner does? When you're around him, he is protective and he is a little older than you? Throughout this reading, I have been suggesting that Mr Aries is not ready to settle down in the way that you would like just yet. I say this because of the other cards, but also because the garden card appears here and it suggests to me that he is rather social. He may be talking to quite a few other females or friends. So, although he does have positive feelings for you... something tells me that they just aren't concentrated on you. He is distracted. To get the outcome, I have to add the cards: Yours: 31 + 33 + 5 + 34 = 103 = 4 (HOUSE) His: 20 + 15 + 13 + 7 = 10 = 1 (RIDER) Adding both = 5 (TREE) The house and the rider might mean that you finally receive the news you are after... that he wants to settle down. That he wants the type of life that you want with him! He may tell you soon that he wants stability in your relationship and he may put in some work to make this commitment to you. The tree further suggests this as it key when talking about a lasting love and it mirrors your thoughts and plans. With that said, be conscious about how much time you spend worrying about the relationship you have with this man! The tree can also suggest anxiety and worry related to the commitment, especially as it is a product of both of the stability related cards.
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Orange Knowflake Posts: 3607 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted December 21, 2015 02:22 PM
Thank you , ikjaAfter reading it, somehow it does not resonate with us. But thanks for the effort. IP: Logged |
ikja Knowflake Posts: 2188 From: The Valley of Restoration Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 21, 2015 02:36 PM
That's a shame. You're welcome.IP: Logged |