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ymmi
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posted April 18, 2017 04:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ymmi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
According of some readings that my ex will return or we will have communication again,

I asked how will go our communication? if there is any communication again between us.

I got King of swords + 2 of wands + 6 of swords,

I got 2 swords is it means negative , war? Or emotions, sad?

But I think negative bcz I will ask so many questions about why he broke up or something like that and i think he will not like it and might we will war again

I don't think our communication will go positive! :-(

Can someone read this cards for me?

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Sibyl
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posted April 18, 2017 07:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sibyl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
These three cards in combination (and in answer to your question) means;

You must emotionally detach yourself and take the lead in your communication. Cut straight to the chase. If it is possible to use a third person, a mentor, to organize the communication between you, do that. But the initiative lies with you. You will need to make a change in your communication, and the responsibility here lies with you. Be bold, be creative, take incentive, and you will surprise and impress him. Things won't be perfect, but your communication will be better than it has been in the past.

Either way these cards clearly indicate the ball is in your court. The responsibility here lies with you.

I would advise you against asking about the break up and going back over the hurt. These cards are about change of scenery, emotional detachment, and taking charge. Put the past behind you and look forward. You need to tell him clearly that you want to get back together, and you need to find a convincing way to tell him.

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posted April 18, 2017 08:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ymmi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sibyl:
These three cards in combination (and in answer to your question) means;

You must emotionally detach yourself and take the lead in your communication. Cut straight to the chase. If it is possible to use a third person, a mentor, to organize the communication between you, do that. But the initiative lies with you. You will need to make a change in your communication, and the responsibility here lies with you. Be bold, be creative, take incentive, and you will surprise and impress him. Things won't be perfect, but your communication will be better than it has been in the past.

Either way these cards clearly indicate the ball is in your court. The responsibility here lies with you.

I would advise you against asking about the break up and going back over the hurt. These cards are about change of scenery, emotional detachment, and taking charge. Put the past behind you and look forward. You need to tell him clearly that you want to get back together, and you need to find a convincing way to tell him.


Thank you so much for every time you help me I appreciate!

Do you mean he will lie to me? He did already lie in past and its hard for me to trust him again and I really scare he can lie again but he is honest too.

Thank you for your advice but there is some questions which is burning me and I want to clear everything.

I can't tell him more about my feeling for him bcz I can't trust him more I decided to hide my feelings for him until I sure that he still or really love me!

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Sibyl
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posted April 18, 2017 09:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sibyl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The cards indicate frankness, not lies. I don't see how you can move forward until you decide to leave the past behind. If he lied before, be conscious for these things, but you will need to forgive in order to move on.

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ymmi
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posted April 19, 2017 08:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ymmi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sibyl:
The cards indicate frankness, not lies. I don't see how you can move forward until you decide to leave the past behind. If he lied before, be conscious for these things, but you will need to forgive in order to move on.

Oh OK I got it now sorry for my bad English.

Yes I know I can't move forward until I leave my last behind, yes of course I will forgive him but I'm little angry on him but I will try to forgive him:-)

Once again thanks for the help!😇

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ymmi
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posted June 02, 2017 02:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ymmi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
____Update_____

Yes communication happened again.

Yes you were right communication was not too bad.

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Randall
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posted June 03, 2017 09:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ymmi:
____Update_____

Yes communication happened again.

Yes you were right communication was not too bad.


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posted June 04, 2017 01:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the update.

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posted June 11, 2017 12:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let us know if anything changes.

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