posted August 13, 2003 06:41 AM         

I'd like some insights on a potential name change that I'll go through due to marriage, especially numerology-wise. I did refer to Star Signs, and it has been rather helpful, but I would still like your interpretations on what it all means, and how all of it will interact with things like my birthdate etc. Here's my info:

Birth Date: May 15 1979
Birth Name: Sui Yin Lee
Better Known As: Nicole Lee

Potential Post-Marriage Name:
Nicole Suiyin Lee-Hanvey

While I usually keep my skeptic hat on in some of these things, I do honestly feel that my life has changed when I renamed myself Nicole Lee from my birth name (it's not official or anything however). So I do have a sneaky feeling that name-changes hold quite a bit of magic voodoo somewhat. Therefore I'm rather cautious about going ahead with this name change, but I do feel it's the right thing to do...

posted August 13, 2003 01:22 PM         

A good book to read is Linda Goodman's Star Signs. It will give you a good indication of where yOu stand with regard to numerology. This way, you get rid of those "sneaky feelings" because you'll have the facts, and decide where you want to be with them.

posted August 13, 2003 10:01 PM         

I am no numerologist, but if it feels like the right thing to do, then so be it! Your feeling is what is important, and can negate any concerns about possible 'negative' numbers.

posted August 16, 2003 07:23 AM         

I felt like I was more emotionally closer and at one with my husband. I felt we had gone onto the next level of our relationship. It is hard to describe, but there was a conscious shift of energy. I am very happy with the choice I made. But, everyone is different and everyone has freewill.

posted September 03, 2003 10:03 PM         

Also, to go off topic a bit, I just realized that my fiance's name, Brandon Michael Hanvey, reduces to the Compound Number 22 and the Single Number 4. If you just count his first and last name, it reduces to the Compound Number 13 and the Single Number 4. His birth number is 2. As Linda says, 4 is a number of Fate and Destiny, although she did say it wasn't as bad as 8.

Now, my birth number is 15. There is a bit of a warning regarding the association between 15 and the numbers 4 or 8. I'm not sure if this means that I shouldn't have a name that sums to 4 or 8, or the person I associate with shouldn't have a name that sums up to 4 or 8.

Granted, whatever the answer, I'm still marrying this guy because I love him, but I'd like to know if there's anything I should look out for.

Thanks,

posted September 04, 2003 03:10 AM         

I was going to say something before, but I felt everyone else had it down pat (as they usually do), but since this topic came up again, I'll throw my 2 bucks.

Why not Nicole Suiyin Hanvey? I think hyphens would be trying after a while, and I think kids would be easier to name - another alternative to consider is Nicole Suiyinlee Hanvey? It may sound unusual at first but it kisses all birds at the same time (mind the mixed up metaphor). I haven't worked this out, but my program could help you, as it's based directly of Linda's awesome interpretation of the Chaldean system.

dean/o.

posted September 04, 2003 03:18 AM         

I K-NOW you'll have awesome lives together, and I do hope you'll find the name that not only has the best vibes, but also fits like a glove.

Best of Luck.

dean/o.

posted September 04, 2003 09:27 AM         

That's a great program you have there! You are right, Nicole S. Hanvey (Compound Number 14) is not as bad as Nicole S. Lee-Hanvey (Compound Number 18). I could also choose Nicole Lee Hanvey (Compound Number 15). I'm torn as to the right name to choose at this point because I don't know if I should discard the name that my parents gave me. I guess the REAL question of this whole name-change thing is whether I'm ready to let go off my past.

posted September 04, 2003 07:08 PM         

Best of Luck with it!

Dean/o.