posted November 02, 2003 04:16 PM
I think you used wise judgement not to go to the parking lot with him. Trust is not the issue - hormones and sexual attraction are. Mix these together with an ideal setting and you'll be getting "busy" - maybe too soon whether you intended on having sex or not. If your asking questions like "can I trust him?" or "does he think about me as much as I think about him?" That clues me into maybe you do not have a solid basis of communication and you have not truly connected with each other. Consider getting to know him better and date him in public places--if he asks. Being a Cancer with Leo rising myself, I can honestly say that I tend to respect people who respect themselves. Define who you are and show that your a well-balanced emotionally together person and he'll be drawn to you naturally. Though he's a Cancer (and if he is a Leo rising)his 7th house of partnerships is ruled by Aquarius. He MAY be drawn to that type.
You might try typing in your birth info at www.astro.com using the free compatibility charts to see what it says. But beware-- his bossiness may not come from being a Cancer with a Leo rising. It may be a warning that he's a controller. As a Cancer Leo rising person, I would say I'm authoritative not bossy. I prefer a living and let live attitude. On the other hand, I've always gotten along really well with Taurus males and you being a Taurus you have the possibility of being compatible.
After typing this respose and going to other forums, I am adding on to what I originally wrote. I've noticed that you have this topic going on in several areas. Ask yourself this---Am I in charged of my own life or am I letting outside "stuff" control me? I am genuinely concerned for you. There is such desparation to your topics, I want to reach out to you and say life can be better- you deserve so much more, but you have not claimed your power. I say this lovingly though it may be harsh -- no one outside of you is going to give you what you can't get yourself! No one will ever fill that hole inside of you that so desparetely wants to be filled. Rather than focusing on this person start with yourself. Build your self-esteem up. Do any type of self-improvement, therapy, or read books that will nourish your spirit. There is a better way of viewing yourself. Begin.
Blessings
Lindaland
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posted October 31, 2003 08:19 PM
posted November 02, 2003 04:16 PM