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Topic: Advice Needed on Seances
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StarGirl8
Knowflake Posts: 7
From: Northern Virgina
Registered: Feb 2004
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posted August 16, 2004 06:21 PM
 
Hello, All -I need some advice. My mom passed away about 6 mos. ago and I miss her terribly as she is/was the closest person to me. I am very spiritual (like Mom) as well as her surviving husband, my step father. We want to contact her on the Other Side but need some advice. We know that the ouija board is dangerous so we do not want to use that method. Does anybody have a safe way that they can suggest we contact her? I really want to make sure that she is OK and want to talk with her. We miss her terribly.  Thanks so much for your help! IP: Logged |
sesame
Moderator Posts: 177
From: Brisbane, QLD, Oz
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted August 16, 2004 10:36 PM
I'd suggest to try through your dreams. I don't know if it would work, but if as you fall asleep you think of her, and try to project yourself into an image of talking with her it could happen, but then, who knows who you could talk to? I tried to astral travel last night and ended up having a really weird dream of running around Cairo/New York (I couldn't really tell). I don't know if this was just a dream or astral travel gone wrong  I think it should be pretty safe though to project yourself into a conversation with your mum. If your step dad did it too, then you could all have an astral tea party Best of luck,
Dean. IP: Logged |
Kat
Knowflake Posts: 192
From: Cleveland, Ohio
Registered: Jan 2003
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posted August 26, 2004 07:46 PM
My mother passed away in 1997 and there have been times that she has communicated to me via nature - my sister has seen license plates that had a special meaning. For me when my mother passed I created a collage in which I used a long stem pink rose. For that point on I symbolized her as a pink rose. After the funeral my godmother invited me to fly to Denver to relax and get myself together. I few out almost a month later after one of Denver's early notorious October snow storms. After she picked me up at tha airport, I could see melted snow mounds the trees were bare - everything looked like winter. We pulled into my godmother's driveway and she immediately directed my attention to her flower garden. Here a single salmon colored rose grew amongst dead leaves. She told me it blossomed on the day my mother died - she called it the Eleanor rose.
Another time, I was missing my mother and thought how she liked birds. I asked her if she was OK that she would make a bird land in the bush in front of me and chirp chirp away... and boy did it chip. Sometime months and months later I thought maybe this was just coincidence - I wonder if I made my request more difficult if it would happen. I asked for her to make some unknown cat come up to me for no reason and meow meow. I figured no cat would come up to me in a parking lot or somewhere. Well, that night I went to bed and this darn cat came up to my window- made that strange meowing noise and woke me up. I guess my point is - do not force communication with an outside "medium" If she wants to comunicate with you she'll find a way. Watch for sychronicities. The suggestion for communicating in a dream is excellent. All of my siblings had a dream that my mother was with my Uncle Jess. She was the youngest of a large family so why did we come up with him not someone else. Why not another brother who passed just before her? IP: Logged |
thirteen
Knowflake Posts: 68
From: Rochester Hills, MI USA
Registered: May 2004
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posted September 01, 2004 11:58 AM
I have read that if you ask her to come visit you in a dream she most likely would. the spirit world is open to us all but we have to ask. They will not just come due to free will. I have communicated a few times with my father after he passed away.IP: Logged |
LibraSparkle
Moderator Posts: 1585
From: Vancouver USA
Registered: May 2004
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posted September 01, 2004 01:09 PM
Do you meditate?Make yourself a little place in your mind. A home if you like... whatever. Fill it with the things you love, books, plants, whatver you love to have around you. This is your place to do with as you please. Go to your place as often as you like. Ask anyone you please to come and join you there. Mom, John Lennon, anyone really. Ask, and ye shall receive. Use your place often. Become familiar with it, and comfortable there. It's also an excellent place to go in times of high stress... just to be alone.
My place is a field of green grass with wildflowers growing everywhere, and a single Birch tree. There's a stream with a parallel path leading up to a house. The house is furnished with two love seats facing each other in the center of the main room for "meetings". There's a bathroom that's excellent for flushing things you don't need. There's also a kitchen area where there's a microwave of sorts to place things in so to "let go and let god". I've put debit cards in there, pictures of loved ones, ideas... lots of stuff.
Anyhow... this is just how I would deal with this myself. Hope you find it helpful. IP: Logged |
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