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posted January 13, 2005 05:31 PM            

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I apologize

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posted January 13, 2005 05:47 PM              

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Oh baby I totally know what you mean - it seems you are in an arranged marriage you agreed to in an impulse but are now regretting! I know what comes from not knowing a person and then having to see their ghastly side, especially when you think you dont have a choice in the matter! For me, it was worse because I married the guy and moved AWAY from home and had no friends and no family around. Worse, he alienated me form all my friends and family and basically I felt like a caged bird with no room to breathe! I first felt drawn to his powerful vibrations which made me feel so safe around him, not knowing that very power would one day stiffle me to death! Before knowing this person, I used to be a free, creative person witha lot of friends and a real life! Afterwards I felt trapped, with all my energy devoted to serving this beast I had made the mistake of marrying!

Somehow, we have to find strength within ourselves to let go of the bad choices we made and find the courage to make the difference that can save us and the ones we care abt.

We should be the change we want to see in the world around us -(dont remember who said that)

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posted January 13, 2005 05:55 PM            

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Have you ever seen the movie "Drop Dead Fred"? What I would suggest is to say out loud, and forcefully - I mean, place emphasis on it and be strong:

"Divine Spirit of my higher self, please prevent this unwanted presence from my life (at this point, visualise the presence so the spirit knows what you're talking about). I do NOT want this spirit to be present in my life whatsoever, and if I do, I will ask you for it. Until then, please prevent him from contacting or approaching me. I Ordain this NOW and in GRACE. Thank you, Amisha."

Someone said something about salt, so maybe you can carry around sound and sprinkle it around where he usually "appears". Best of luck with it, sure sounds like an annoying situation

Dean.

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posted January 13, 2005 09:32 PM              

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As Linda said "There are no such thing as coincidences and EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON" Maybe you knew this person in a different life. Perhaps this person came into your present life to teach you a valuable lesson. Never underestimate the power of patience. Once mastered, you will be amazed at what comes out of it. I too have dealt with a similar marriage and through my patience I have learned about myself, made a positive and peaceful example for many other women around me going through similar situations and finally discovered more of my beautiful spiritual s-elf.

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posted January 13, 2005 09:34 PM              

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P.S. you don't have to apologize, I think you came to the exact right place to start on your problem.

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posted January 13, 2005 10:44 PM              

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There is a book called Karmic Connections (the Birthchart, Karma & Relationships) by Judy Hall .......in it she gives techniques on the following: Spiritual Divorce, Karmic Enmeshment, Cutting Ties, Pacts and Promises, etc.

Maybe take a look at it at Borders or Barnes and Noble? Only a small portion of the book deals with this. It seems that she did mention even going to a person who does past life regressions? and being able to change things that way. Good luck to you.

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posted January 13, 2005 11:30 PM            

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There is nobody of greater power that arranged this union for you. Please believe that even your creator and mine has given YOU freewill. You have convinced yourself that this was beyond you and that you had no choice in the matter. This has become your reality and now this situation will eventually get unbearable until YOU choose for YOURSELF another type of reality. One from the heart. The true heart where all unions are ordained.

Gia

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posted January 14, 2005 12:45 AM              

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Great advice that Gia

The bells are ringing...

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posted January 14, 2005 02:35 PM              

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Dear Amisha,

Yes freewill is definitely a choice as Gia has put wisely.
I noticed though how angry you sound?
Why so angry?
You know what they say about Karma what you put out into the world you get back. I'm not blaming you for your situation, but maybe you should be more accepting of it and then turn it around for yourself.
I'm sending you all my positive thoughts and prayers Amisha!
Peace and Love

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posted January 14, 2005 03:39 PM            

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What the heck is a tele-whatever and an ish?
Is it just me? Huh?
PLease clarify.. I am only a pixie, you know......

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posted January 14, 2005 04:00 PM              

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yes, I'm a little be-fuddled about that myself.

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posted January 14, 2005 04:26 PM              

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Gia, I wasn't saying that she should just lay down and take it, I believe that a marriage shouldn't be dissolved unless one keeps hurting the other over and over after being forgiven. I have been married for 2 years. About a year ago my husband left me for another woman, my first initial reaction was rage, confusion, frustration, sadness, betrayal, etc. But through my spirituality I learned to forgive and have patience.Although it didn't make the situation any better, doing so helped me realize the power of my inner self. It really taught me alot of lessons. I think in alot of cases there is some kind of karmic debt or lesson involved. I am currently reading Sylvia Browne's Book of dreams. In it there is an example of the dream of a man's son in which he dreamt about angels giving him a message for his father, Sylvia Browne said that they had had no fewer that 4 past lives together two as brothers, one in which the son was his father, and one in which they were at war together and his son saved his life. Sylvia said that they had made a pact in the"other side" that his son would be the one to teach him in this life, so he would be testing his limits more expertly than anyone else could. So thats an example of what I meant by having patience, because you may learn alot.

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posted January 14, 2005 05:15 PM            

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Oh my gosh -
"Conscious relationship is the practice of letting the mind sink into the heart, of healing our frightened and separatist tendencies into the spaciousness of our true heart." Steven and Ondrea Levine

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posted January 15, 2005 11:19 AM            

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So when you say "TELE-whatever" I think, tele-phone, tele-vision.... you mean
tele-pathic? Like this is a non-physical entity?
You are clairaudient or tune in with someone in particular?
Am I getting it?

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posted January 15, 2005 11:56 AM            

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*joins Pixie in being confused*

I'm sorry, but this is the most confusing post I've ever read..I've read it many times trying to figure out what is going on here...I was wondering if the husband was indeed of non physical form myself....

Would someone who understands this, care to elaborate please?

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posted January 15, 2005 03:25 PM            

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Yup, my understanding, in trying to decipher these posts, is that she is in a relationship (emotional and sexual) with a non-physical, ever-present entity. And that the entity has control issues.

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posted January 15, 2005 03:39 PM              

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Miss Pix & JustAmanda.....yes Miss Pixie,
you are getting it. "Ish"~we in California
say "Ish-as if!" just kidding! ish is being used as "ew", "yuck".....as in disgust........make sense?

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posted January 15, 2005 03:40 PM              

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oh, there ya go.....well said Trillian!!!!

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posted January 15, 2005 05:19 PM            

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Whoa....I am confused too. Pardon my ignorance, but he is like a ghost or is his spiritual essence attached to a human form miles and miles away?

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posted January 15, 2005 05:21 PM              

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Amisha, where are you from, the US? I think you were writing the posts while you were very emotional, so thats probably why its a little hard to decipher for some of us. Could you help us understand if your husband is in non-physical form? or why you think a higher being brought you together? I'm curious too. *edit* I read this again and realized it seems your "husband" is def a spirit who forced himself or was brought into your life without your approval. I think you should really ask yourself if you want this and if not, follow the other's advice and Ordain it to leave.

Oh and I agree with Gia (someone who is very wise), when she says you were given free will to make the best decisions for yourself according that what you feel in your heart. So maybe thats something you want to consider.

Best of luck to you whatever you decide

Monica

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posted January 15, 2005 05:26 PM            

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Oh, in that context, she means like *$hit*.
Got it.. but when I read only half of what I understood, that stuck out at me too. If it is in a profane context, it makes sense.

Forgive me for being closed minded, but that is THE ONLY thing that made sense for me.
Is this an experiment in normalcy? Cuz I fail.. or win.. I guess it depends on who's grading.
You are having monkey love with a spirit who is in your head constantly? Granted, 'he' could know exactly what gets you off..... but isn't that really the only bonus when you write a really long rant about how it ****** you off that he tells you what to do and won't leave you alone? If he were an annoying boyfriend, I'd be outtie.. the fact that you let a spirit do this?
Hhhm.
Go to a psychiatrist. *after you burn sage and surround yourself with white light and sprinklke salt and all that stuff. Open mind, I have......

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posted January 15, 2005 06:18 PM            

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It reminds me a bit of The Witching Hour...no?

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posted January 15, 2005 07:55 PM              

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Amisha hope your okay...

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posted January 15, 2005 11:28 PM            

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You are not obligated to be, do or act in any way which you FEEL you are obligated, Take back who you really are. In mind and spirit. Get it?

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posted January 16, 2005 11:05 PM            

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Well, I thought Ish was the ghosts name

Dean.

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