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Saffron
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posted January 20, 2005 09:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saffron     Edit/Delete Message
any pointers?

without drugs and substances?

a real hippie in the true aquarian sense?

how to raise a child in authentic hippie consciousness?

i'm looking for stage directions for living an honest and total hippie LIFESTYLE.

can you help?

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Saffron
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posted January 20, 2005 10:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saffron     Edit/Delete Message
oh...and not as a fashion or style statement either....cool, but not primarily what i'm talking about.

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Saffron
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posted January 20, 2005 10:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saffron     Edit/Delete Message
he he.....

quote:
"How To Tell If Your Child Is a Potential Hippie and What You Can Do About It"

A 1970 P.T.A. Parent Education Pamphlet

by Jacqueline Himelstein


Your son or daughter may be flashing warning signals that he or she will soon drop out of society and join the "hippie" movement. If you know what to look for, you may be able to prevent it.

Four leading psychiatrists, Dr. Jean Rosenbaum of Santa Fe, New Mexico; Dr. Jack Leedy of New York City; Dr. Robert Bussell of Chicago and Dr. Norman R. Schakne of Detroit, agree that a combination of the following signs spells possible trouble for the parent as well as the child...


1. A sudden interest in a cult, rather than an accepted religion.

2. The inability to sustain a personal love relationship -- drawn more to "group" experiences.

3. A tendency to talk in vague philosophical terms, never to the point.

4. A demanding attitude about money but reluctance to work for it.

5. An intense, "far-out" interest in poetry and art.

6. Constant ridiculing of any form of organized government.

7. A righteous attitude, never admitting any personal faults.

8. An increasing absentee record at school.

9. The emergence of a devious nature, manipulating people for personal gain.

10. A tendency to date only members of different races and creeds.


"Naturally, some of these signs may be observed in perfectly normal
adolescents, but it is when the majority of the traits are present that the child is on the way to becoming a 'hippie,'" Dr. Rosenbaum said.

"There are also the fairly obvious signs like shaggy hair and mod clothing. But those alone do not make a 'hippie.' Sometimes it's just a fad."

Each of the psychiatrists offered advice to parents who are worried about the possibility of their child's becoming a "hippie."

Dr. Rosenbaum: "There must be a reconstruction of the family unit, with much expression of love. Parents should work and play with these young people to show that all the family members care about one another."

"There must be a great deal of dialogue -- sometimes very painful dialogue -- to establish a new position of belief for the young people. They will deny they're hostile until their last breath."

"Until that underlying hostility is brought out, the children will be keyed to rebel."

Dr. Leedy: "Family therapy is one ideal approach. Develop similar interests and hobbies. It's usually too late for the usual disciplinary measures when the child begins showing the 'hippie' signs. Discipline at that point might make him more hostile."

Dr. Bussell: "Have a good understanding and be more tolerant. Adolescence is at best and extremely disturbing time."

Dr. Schakne: "Learn to say 'no' when you have to. But explain your reasoning so that you maintain a communication link."

"The time to shape your child is in the pre-teen years. When your child
reaches the teen-age level, the die has already been cast."



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ghanima81
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posted January 20, 2005 11:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ghanima81     Edit/Delete Message
OMG!! That is the most rediculous thing I have ever read in my life!!! What the heck is wrong with people???

3. A tendency to talk in vague philosophical terms, never to the point.


5. An intense, "far-out" interest in poetry and art.

10. A tendency to date only members of different races and creeds.

WHAT????!! Cuz those things are soooo terrible... ha! If those are ''signs that one is becoming a "hippie" ''... then I think all of us here at LL fit that bill!!

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Saffron
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posted January 20, 2005 11:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saffron     Edit/Delete Message
lol.....

from a 1970 PTA pamphlet no less...

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miss_apples
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posted January 20, 2005 12:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for miss_apples     Edit/Delete Message
I wanna know since when did hippies only date members of different races. Thats not true. Just because hippies dont discriminate against a persons color doesnt mean they refuse to date people of their own race also.

Oh well, that little tidbit was for a good laugh...lol.

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ghanima81
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posted January 20, 2005 12:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ghanima81     Edit/Delete Message
Yeah, miss apples... that's why it's there... cuz it's just too stupid to be taken seriously.

Ghani

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Saffron
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posted January 20, 2005 01:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saffron     Edit/Delete Message
i think many parents took this seriously when it was published, and sadly, some still do.

what's positive about hippiedom that refutes this?

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Saffron
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posted January 20, 2005 01:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saffron     Edit/Delete Message
better yet, what's an authentic, new millenium version of a hippie?

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Tigerlily
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posted January 20, 2005 05:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Tigerlily     Edit/Delete Message
New millenium hippies drive hybrid cars (but bicycle and/or carpool everywhere they can). They eat organic foods (and grow their own if they have land enough to make a vegetable garden). They favor family time over watching tv and playing videogames (they probably don't even have a tv, let alone a video game system). They might prefer to homeschool their kids. They likely make a lot of crafts (as a creative hobby and for practical purposes). They live as simply as they can. They devote plenty of time to humanitarian causes. They make a concious effort to take care of the environment. They recycle everything they can.

An example of a great hippie place to live that supports this lifestyle is Boulder, Colorado.

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LeoSweetHeart
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posted January 20, 2005 06:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeoSweetHeart     Edit/Delete Message
hahahahahh I'm sorry that 1970 PTA thing was hilarious!!!! They just didn't get it. I can't believe how ignorant they sounded. Yea especially that one about having a tendency to date other races!!! Yea definitely a sure sign of a misguided teenager, having love and acceptance for "others" or taking an interest in the romance of art and music and poetry. Man those hippies of 70's sounded like real dangerous deviants of society.

Yea I know if it were the 70's, I would classify myself as one for sure. I love hippies!! When I think of a hippie, I think of really open minded, loving and peaceful with distaste for corrupt organizations in general and maybe a feeling of being an outsider of pop culture, but a lover of the people at large. Hmmm that sounds like me now... when did I become a hippy? All I need now is a hacky sack, dread locks and peace sign t-shirt, hehe j/k.

Tigerlily, yea that is what I think of as a modern day hippie, good description What a beautiful lifestyle

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sesame
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posted January 21, 2005 12:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sesame     Edit/Delete Message
Yeah, if only we were all hippies...

Dean.

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delerious
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posted January 21, 2005 02:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for delerious     Edit/Delete Message
that reminds me of a "Car Talk" episode I heard where he's interviewing a guy who's traveling the country living in a restored old VW microbus -
"So are you a 'hippie' then?"
"Well I guess so, but I'm mostly a hick, so I guess that makes me a 'hickey'"

Loved that it's me!!! nothing but an old "hickey"

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Saffron
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posted January 21, 2005 03:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saffron     Edit/Delete Message
thank you, tigerlily for that wonderful description.

Flower Child

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Kat
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posted January 22, 2005 10:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kat     Edit/Delete Message
How to raise a child in hippie consciousness?
Take thee to a Unity church

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Moonshine9
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posted January 22, 2005 11:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonshine9     Edit/Delete Message
Family therapy??!!
Family therapy this baby!!!!
Long live the eternal hippie in all of us!

Peace and Love

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26taurus
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posted January 23, 2005 04:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 26taurus     Edit/Delete Message
Oh God. One of my oldest bestest Scorpion dread-locked hippie friends would have a ball with this thread. LOL!

I'll ask him for you Saffron.

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maklhouf
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posted January 23, 2005 06:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for maklhouf     Edit/Delete Message
is that your child Saffron?

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Saffron
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posted January 24, 2005 11:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saffron     Edit/Delete Message
awwwww...aren't all children 'ours' for safekeeping?

he's not my biological child.....but i loved that photo -- so sweet!

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LibraSparkle
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posted January 24, 2005 01:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraSparkle     Edit/Delete Message
Well sh!t, I guess I AM a hippie after all!

That list is funny.

quote:

I am 23% Hippie.

MAO!!!
What? Are you a Republican? Why did you even bother taken this test?! Go back to your George W. Bush fan club and tell them you just wasted 10 minutes of your life. At least you don’t stink, man.
http://www.fuali.com/tests.aspx <- find the test here



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Saffron
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posted January 24, 2005 02:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saffron     Edit/Delete Message
he he...56%

"You are not a child of the 60’s but your heart is true to the cause, man. You realize that being a hippie is not just bell bottoms and tie-dye. It is also about the drugs and smelling bad, too!"

guess i have a long way to go...but i don't think drugs really have anything to with authentic hippiedom...just the commercialized version.

but i really do love patchouli...and i think i smell pretty good these days. might be a bit more unsure about the time a used a crystal deoderant stick though. i wish i could find a good one.

that was cute ms. sparkle.

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LibraSparkle
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posted January 24, 2005 09:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraSparkle     Edit/Delete Message
My hubby uses Tom's All Natural Deodorant (unscented). It works well for him.

I use it sometimes when I'm out of mine, but I prefer Dove deodorant because it's my favorite smell.

Here's a list of the ingredients and their sources:

http://www.tomsofmaine.com/toms/ips/BW-ND_ips.asp

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sesame
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posted January 24, 2005 10:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sesame     Edit/Delete Message

"I am 26% Hippie.

Step away from the tie-dye. You smell too good to be a hippie and your dad is probably a cop. Being a hippie is not a fashion craze, man. It was a way of life, in the 60’s, man."

Yeah man, I'm too young, man.

Dean.

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Saffron
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posted January 25, 2005 12:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saffron     Edit/Delete Message
oh i like tom's of maine products too...although for natural deoderant i really like 'earth science liken natural deodorant' with natural lichen plant...and it works very well! it has a scented and unscented version....and you might like the scented version as it's very soft and fragrant.

i wish i could find a deodorant crystal stone that worked as well. those are great and last forever, but they are prettier than they are functional, at least for me.

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posted January 25, 2005 06:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for maklhouf     Edit/Delete Message
Saffron, "Your children are not your children, they are the sons and daughters of life's longing for itself."

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