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Topic: Is Marriage A Curse On A Relationship?
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tracysalome
Knowflake Posts: 78
From: minneapolis minnesota USA
Registered: Jan 2005
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posted January 22, 2005 12:07 AM
 
Is numerology the cause of the common concept/misconception that getting married ruins everything? The fact that the name changes for one person in most cases, would change their name numerology which could cause for a slight sense of identity crisis especially in 4's and 8's because of their natural attraction to eachother.IP: Logged |
purple_scorp
Knowflake Posts: 185
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 22, 2005 07:27 AM
Hi Tracy,not only numerologically, but also vibrationally with letters (like when you lexigram). I got married when I was 30 and I didn't change my surname because I figured I'd spent 30 happy years with the one I had. I'm now separated, so I think there's a deeper message there. Hmm, let's see - if I had have gone with my ex's surname - I could have made DEAD-END! purple_scorp IP: Logged |
TINK
Knowflake Posts: 1338
From: New England
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted January 22, 2005 08:49 AM
The name/number/lexi change for the woman (and very rarely for the man) certainly says a lot about marriage, doesn't it?My maiden name was a 29 - yuck. After changing to my husband's last name, I am now a 17. I figured an 8 is better than a 29. On the other hand, he is also a 17, so that's two 8's. Fun! IP: Logged |
moonstar77
Knowflake Posts: 48
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Registered: Nov 2004
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posted January 23, 2005 04:06 PM
Hey tink,
Wouldn't a 29 equal 11? And I guess you could reduce that to 2, but numerology says 11 is a highly charged number so it's usually not reduced. 11 is usually a good number, as I've heard...more along the lines of spirituality. So I am just confused as to why you dislike it?  IP: Logged |
NeoKitty
Knowflake Posts: 557
From: Heaven
Registered: Dec 2004
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posted January 23, 2005 06:08 PM
Yes Tracy, I partly agree.My mother was adopted and her original name was ignored by her new mother, so her new mum decided to give her a different name. When my mum got married she went into an identity crisis, and besides that the marriage didn't work out. So, when she left that marriage she changed her name. She got married again, and the Same thing happend. Now she is with a new man, I believe to be her twin. Anyway, he has adivsed her, seeing she wants to change her name (again), to change it to her original Birth name.
So it was originally Gabrielle, then Maria, then Susan, then back to Gabrielle. Since then it's been a harmonious time with her, and hers-elf. She feels like she has her identity back. I'm not sure if it had much to do with marriage, I havne't done numerology calculations, although I should because it'll probably help me discover the contributing vibrational influences.
The fact is, her new partner believed your original birth name holds significant powers, and to change it may break that.  ------------------
"And dreams, don't ever forget, are the first step in manifesting wishes into reality"-- Linda Goodman's Star Signs IP: Logged |
tracysalome
Knowflake Posts: 78
From: minneapolis minnesota USA
Registered: Jan 2005
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posted January 26, 2005 01:34 AM
Yes, I didn't even think of the lexis while I was posting. That made me think of the current lexi of the ancient mayan civilization that im working on. While I was working on it one day my sister called me and asked if she could lexi her and her man and I said why not so she did and came up with much of the same words that were in the ancient mayan civilization lexi and to top it all off, shes expecting and had previously decided to name the baby what else - MAYA! thats just crazy.
Tink: I'm an 11 too and I think it's horrible as i have said before. You're lucky mine's by birth and every situation of my life is defined by the definition of the #11. I too would much rather be a 17, and by name I used to be a 26 before I married. that's what inspired this post, because a while ago my husband left me for a 26 birth 11 name and since we married I have been a 25 name 11 birth as though he was instinctively trying to re-create the old me while attaining an 8 him being an 8.IP: Logged |
Eleanore
Moderator Posts: 862
From: North Carolina
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted January 26, 2005 10:43 AM
I didn't change my name when I married. It doesn't bother us, it just gets a little annoying when it comes down to paperwork, etc. But any numerological combination I could find, and any lexigrams I could make, were not very pleasing to me with the "new" name. I would have had to have changed my first and last names in order to make anything work. I really didn't want to do that and my hubby didn't want me to do it either. It's funny because alot of people have asked me if I'm making some sort of "feminist statement" by keeping my own name, lol. My birth name grants me a 19 which I love and it also cannot be lexigrammed according to the zebra rule. I'm very happy with that and I don't think I could be persuaded to change it. Besides, I can still technically use my husband's name as mine, as in Mr. and Mrs. [his first name] [his last name] for formal correspondence and/or formal affairs, so there it is.  ------------------
"You must be the change you wish to see in the world." - Ghandi IP: Logged |
proxieme
Knowflake Posts: 4313
From: Southern 'Bama
Registered: Aug 2002
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posted January 26, 2005 12:27 PM
Hm.
Well, my maiden name's compound number was/is "21" -
Crown of the Magi
__________________________________________________________________21 is pictured as "The Universe," and is also called "The Crown of the
Magi." It promises general success, and guarantees advancement, honours,
awards, and general elevation in the life and career. It indicates
victory after a long struggle, for the "Crown of the Magi" is gained
only after long initiation, much soul testing and various other tests of
determination. However, the person or entity blessed with the number 21
may be certain of final victory over all odds and all opposition. It's a
most fortunate vibration - a number of karmic reward. My married name's 17 - The Star of the Magi
__________________________________________________________________ This is a highly spiritual number, and was expressed in symbolism by the
ancient Chaldeans as the 8-pointed Star of Venus. The Star of the Magi
is the image of Love and Peace, and promises that the person or entity
it represents will rise superior in spirit to the trials and
difficulties of earlier life, with the ability to conquer former failure
in personal relationships and the career. 17 is "the number of
Immortality," and indicates that the person's (or entity's) name will
live after them. This is an extremely fortunate compound number with one
warning: it reduces to the Single number 8. I don't know if the married name's number "takes over" the prior, overshadows it, or merges with it - they kinda agree, in any case. The single's are 3 and 8; even though the latter's considered more karmically charged, according to sesame's program it jibes more with my Sun Sign (Pisces) than the former. My husband's compound is 33 -
This number has no individual meaning of, but carries the same vibration
of the 24 (shown below) - except that the magic of love, the extent or
originality and creativity, and the promise of eventual financial
success is deepened and increased. Due to the double 3, people whose name
equals 33 are more fortunate in every way when involved in a harmonious
partnership of some kind with the opposite sex, which apllies to the
career as well as to romantic and marital relationships. This is a
number of well-deserved karmic reward. 33 people are advised not to
abuse the astounding luck which will descend on them at some time during
the life by allowing it to tempt them into laziness, overconfidence, and
a feeling of superiority. When a sense of humour and genuine humility
accompany the 33 vibration, it's a wonderfully fortunate number.
(His name's single number being 6...gaw, doesn't that just make ya wanna scream?  ) As far as lexi's go, my name (first and maiden) are found in my husband's full name...and so the same holds true now. *shrugs* So, maybe marriage's affect on a life (numerologically and lexi speaking) is a case-by-case thing.
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Yin
Knowflake Posts: 894
From:
Registered: May 2004
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posted January 27, 2005 08:44 AM
Just wanted to share that my maiden and my married name vibrate to the same number so for me nothing changed numerologically.  IP: Logged |
sesame
Moderator Posts: 678
From: Brisbane, QLD, Oz
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted January 27, 2005 08:30 PM
Well, my sister remained the same name number after changing, and my wife's is changing for the better (in my opinion) from a 25 to 20. I'm wondering what purpose she will awake to, when she does. But yes, changing the name can create a new lifestyle which I think, it is lucky we are aware of. If you weren't aware, your new name could pose all sorts of problems, but then, it could also be an enormous blessing. In any case, experiences are lessons which is learnt, can be powerful bases for the future. It also depends of course on what choices you make in the future. The name is only influential after all...Dean. IP: Logged | |
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