posted July 06, 2005 12:32 AM         

I doubt it's to do with her age, she has always been like this.

Today she was so heartless and really upset me, and then when I reacted badly she seemed smug and satisfied that she had triggered that reaction.

I had done her chart a few years ago, and just did it again now.

Sun in Cancer

Moon in Scorpio

and Aries rising....

posted July 06, 2005 11:19 AM         

I'm cancer and I have to say that I am far from stingy. I'm quite generous materially, emotionally, etc. I enjoy giving alot b/c that is my nature and would do w/o b/f someone I know or care about does w/o should they need/want something. Truth be known, I have a tendency to give to the wrong people and sometimes end up pi$$ed off, hurt or both b/c people take advantage of me. Having said this, if I'm crossed, hurt or both, you can forget me giving you anything.

posted July 06, 2005 08:04 PM         

My annoyance with my sister is that she has had total freedom in her teen years. My parents have allowed her to be a teenager, whereas when I was just being a teenager I was taken to 14 psychiatrists.

I'm not sure whether it's her heavy influence over both of my parents (my Scorpio mum and Capricorn dad) or whether my parents learned their lesson after trying to mould me.

I have a feeling she resents me because from her birth I did not see her presence as a gift, but a hardship for me. I saw her entrance into the world as taking more from me when I had already lost enough.

I remember being ecstatic when I stood up in front of the entire school (I was in kindergarten) and told everyone about my new sister. I thought I was the luckiest person in the world, I will always remember how happy I was at announcing it at assembly, but that's the extent of my joy about her.

But it's not her fault that my parents are the way they are.

I also tried to end my life (http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum2/HTML/001503.html)the day before her 9th birthday. I received a letter from her when I was in hospital telling me about what she did that day and what my parents had done to try to make it a good day. I know it was a horrible birthday for her though.

I was also very emotionally and at times physically abusive towards her and my brother. I recall a three year period where we three did nothing but constantly hurt each other. At the time I was taking out my anger at my parents on the children that they doted on.

I feel thats why she dislikes me. She has no respect for me and often talks down to me as though she were 23 and I were 17.

I don't know how much she comprehends of me, but considering I don't know her (or my brother) at all, I'd say her thoughts of me are non-existant. As mine are of her.

I read in Love Signs that I have lessons to learn from Cancer. I'd say Cancer is the most mysterious sign to me.

My youngest sister is a Pisces. She's 12. She's my angel, and even though I know she's confused about our family, she can handle it. It was at her age that I started to lose sight, and ended up in all sorts of places.

I tend to go off on tangents don't I?!

IAmThat, CNO - I was dismayed to find my sister with Moon in Scorpio. I already have a love-hate relationship with my mum who has Sun Scorpio and Moon Scorpio. I can't remember her ascendant because I did it a few years ago.

I definitely get stung alot by my Scorpio mum and Cancer sister!

God bless Pisces.

posted July 06, 2005 08:08 PM         

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cause i wouldn't be if i were you.

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WTF is this some kind of threat or something?

Bleak Beauty
None of the cancers I know are stingy at all so definitely not the cancer in her. The scorpio moons I know aren't stingy at all. Not even the sun signed scorpios.

posted July 06, 2005 08:11 PM         

I am always here if you need to talk.

posted July 07, 2005 12:29 PM         

It's time to look at the bigger picture. Understand someone from more planets in their chart if you think that Astrology is going to provide the answer you seek.

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