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Topic: Birth Order, numbes and family
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sue g
Knowflake Posts: 6856
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted September 15, 2005 12:11 PM
 
So guys I was wondering what position you hold in your family....how many bros and sister etc and how that position has affected you. if you want to add your sign (and theirs) and any other info...maybe birth path number...thatd be excellent.....thanksI am second of two, sister Leo. shes a number 1 (me me me...I am Scorp no 8 Being a second of two girl I always felt in competition with her, and she always said I was more daring, forward, outspoken, rebellious etc....I feel as adults she is more traditional but seems a lot more fearful than I do...... Your turn.... x x x
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AcousticGod
Knowflake Posts: 7286
From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
Registered: May 2005
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posted September 15, 2005 12:40 PM
Ooooh...I'm an odd one for this.For 7 years I was the baby in the family with an older sister. Then my parents decided to have a couple more kids, and an accidental one too.  So I was baby for 7 years, I am the oldest boy, and I am a middle child. Older sister: Aries
Me: Capricorn (life path number 3)
1st younger sister: Aries
Youngest sister: Aquarius
Brother: Leo Now I've forgotten the question...oh, how has it affected me? As the baby it was fantastic mostly. I was cute, sweet, popular, and a bit sensitive. As the oldest boy, I'm mostly looked up to by my younger siblings. They've never gotten to be my peer, so I'm still kind of an enigma for them. They always have lots to say to try to impress me with when we get together, and I love that. As a middle child amongst 5 kids I think I was somewhat typical. There wasn't enough parental attention to go around, and I probably acted like I didn't need it, though I wanted it. I was in the first batch of kids, so while my parents handled our (my older sister and my) academic life poorly, I got to see how they learned to adapt with the second batch of kids. Made me a bit envious. IP: Logged |
thirteen
Knowflake Posts: 718
From: Rochester Hills, MI USA
Registered: May 2004
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posted September 15, 2005 01:09 PM
my sister, pisces came first- shes a 7
then me, virgo, im a 3
then my brother , aquarius, a number 4
and then youngest brother, taurus, no 7 also.I was a rebel. while my sister took care of all of us. My mom divorced when i was 8 and had to work. we lived with my grandmother.
I ran around a lot with friends and learned about life that way. My sister was mature early but now is single, has friends to do things with and refuses to " raise her kids any longer" She lives in another state and won't return to MICH. My brothers are a mess and since we were older we gave them hell. I had to apologize to my youngest brother for that recently. I wish i hadn't been so hard on them when we were younger. My other brother , the aqua can go to hell. Im not ready to apologize to him yet. IP: Logged |
fayte.m
Knowflake Posts: 5816
From: ~out looking for Schrodinger's cat~
Registered: Mar 2005
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posted September 15, 2005 01:11 PM
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AcousticGod
Knowflake Posts: 7286
From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
Registered: May 2005
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posted September 15, 2005 01:41 PM
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fayte.m
Knowflake Posts: 5816
From: ~out looking for Schrodinger's cat~
Registered: Mar 2005
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posted September 15, 2005 02:22 PM
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Bluemoon
Knowflake Posts: 2780
From: Stafford, VA USA
Registered: Feb 2005
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posted September 15, 2005 02:35 PM
I am the youngest.my 1/2 brother is oldest. 62, Scorpio
2 sisters
oldest Libra
Middle Virgo
me Moonchild I think I am a 6. I havent quit figured it out yet. I was definatly the baby. My mom still calls me her baby. Dad is Taurus, Mom is Aqua IP: Logged |
Planet_Soul
Knowflake Posts: 971
From: The Universe
Registered: May 2005
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posted September 15, 2005 03:04 PM
Dad: Cap/Gemini Mom: Scorp/PiscesMyself: Sag/Pisces
Sister: Taurus/Sag
Sister: Aries/Cap
Brother: Taurus/Cap I'm the oldest, but I often felt more like an only child. My little sisters are only 11 months apart, and they were inseperable. I'd play with them sometimes, but mostly I loved being alone. I'd stay inside and read or make stories out of my drawings. When I did go outside, my favorite thing was to climb trees or jump off the roof while the girls played house and other girly things. I was the most impatient and impulsive of the three, and so the sister after me (Taurus) was crowned with the responsibilities the oldest tends to have. Our little brother was an accident, and 12 years younger than I. Since he didn't grow up with us, I'm not as close to him. My parents have spoiled him rotten, where they were strict with us. IP: Logged |
Touchstone
Knowflake Posts: 289
From: Up North
Registered: Apr 2005
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posted September 15, 2005 07:22 PM
I'm the eldest and only girl:Me - Gem/Gem/Cap (birth no. 8)
brother - Leo/Gem/Aqu (birth no. 6)
baby brother - Ari/Aqu/Lib (birth no. 4) I had to grow up quick to help Mum with my brothers. She was ill. Dad was a temperamental freak. I was the responsible one. My brothers have always been referred to by Mum as "her babies" and were molycoddled (still are). I've been left to figure things out for myself. I've never felt I could ask for any help from my parents (didn't want to burden them). Had to become self-sufficient early on. Hence feelings of isolation and depression in adulthood (Moon conjunct ruling planet Saturn in 4th house). Touch IP: Logged |
MAGUS of MUSIC
Knowflake Posts: 1495
From: The Highlands,NY,usa
Registered: Jun 2002
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posted September 15, 2005 07:40 PM
Curse of the oldest child. Me 30th Aqua
brother 1 Leo 17th
brother 2 Aqua 26th
an my darling sister Aqua 17th and brother number 1's sons birth is Aqua 17th, same day as sisters. IP: Logged |
zenwarner
Knowflake Posts: 172
From: tx, usa
Registered: Aug 2005
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posted September 15, 2005 11:43 PM
Im the third child out of four. My oldest brother is a Gemini
My Older sister is sag/cap cusp
My little brother is a Libra I dont know if this fits our signs, but my sister was always very competetive with me, but i never did care so much. Even now, when we are 20, and 21, she still tries to compete with me, and outdo me, you know? I dont even notice it half the time. but she talks about it to the rest of my family.
My little brother is definitly the baby. My mother died 6 yrs ago, and i feel like i kind of took over in the mothering department in alot of ways. Youd think the oldest sis would, but it never was like that. Im an aquarius by the way, with a leo moon, and an aries ascend. Does any of this make sense with our signs? IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 6856
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted September 16, 2005 04:07 AM
interesting reading guys and thanks for input......my hubbie is the eldest of four and so was my second husband.....I read that second kids (me) are compatible with first born kids....they say two first borns together are too competitive and two second borns would be too hedonisitc...ha ha...that figures with the second born being the rebels!!thanks again
Love Sue G xxxxx
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let ther b light
Knowflake Posts: 136
From: bombay, india
Registered: Aug 2005
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posted September 16, 2005 04:08 AM
i am an aries 14th april 1980
i have an older sister sag(double sag, as moon is in sag as well)
my dad's an aries too
my mom is a capricorn(shes too cute ........most of the times.....stubborn sometimes)
as u can see with all the fire around..there's always a lot of noise in our house........"u did this"...."no u did that".......sometimes i cant take it......i have a pisces moonIP: Logged |
lovelyelle
Knowflake Posts: 91
From: New York, New York, USA
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted September 16, 2005 11:28 AM
I have one older sister. Sis: She is either Cap or Aqua. She was born on a cusp so I can't know for sure.
Jan 15th=6 I am also a cusp, (Gemini/Cancer), but I am technically a Gemini.
June 21=3 My sister and I are total opposites! She is the bold, rebellious, tough one with lots of attitude. And I am considered the sensitive and softer one. I'm the baby. Even physically we are opposites. She is taller and bigger, and she looks more mature and womanly. I, on the other hand am shorter and smaller and have a childlike appearance (guess it's the gemini in me). I used to think she was so cool when I was younger, but she was mean and bullied me a lot, and she thought I was a brat. We are not very close. We are six and a half years apart and we do not see eachother often, and did not while growing up. Not to get a bit off topic, I have noticed that there are often patterns with relations and astrology. People are often drawn more to certain people as friends and lovers who are certain signs. I find that polar sun signs usually really get along with or don't get along with one another. Another pattern I've noticed is that families have similar signs. My mother is a Cap/Aqua cusp also, and my father is an Aqua. I thought I was the odd one out, but I actually have an Aqua moon, and a lot of air in my chart, so perhaps I am sharing that trend with them. IP: Logged |
geminstone
Knowflake Posts: 974
From: Golden, CO
Registered: Nov 2004
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posted September 16, 2005 11:53 AM
hmmm... This is an interesting thread. I love the family tree, type of astrology so, this will have my mind wrapped around it for a bit
I am the baby of 2 children... My Bro and I are only about 18 months apart. He is a Virgo, with Libra Rising and Moon @ 29* 59' Cancer. I am a Gemini, with Scorpio Rising and, Moon in Pisces.
Parents are, both Leo's. Dad has a Pisces Moon and Virgo rising... Mom has her Moon in Virgo (same degree as Bro's Sun ) and, Pisces Rising @ 29* . They divorced when we were in our early teens.
When we were very young, I drove my poor brother nuts! I was his tag-along, if not moreso, his shadow... I remember, vividly, being in awe of his ability to eat an orange, without even a drip of juice getting away, to leave it's sticky all over him.... I'm still fascinated by that!  After those few beginning years, I have more memories of my horse, than my family. Odd, as I think about the astrology... he and I both being Mercurial... IP: Logged |
geminstone
Knowflake Posts: 974
From: Golden, CO
Registered: Nov 2004
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posted September 16, 2005 11:53 AM
...I'm sure a lot of our seperations from each other were, in part, due to the ease I had in getting him in trouble  Being the baby and, the girl, I have always been ' Daddy's Girl'  By the end of High School, I decided that, just maybe, he was a keeper.... I love him  My Bro seemed to take the divorce of our parents pretty hard and vowed to never marry or have kids. He floored me a few years ago when he told me how much he looks up to ME  He had married by that time and, his wife was feeling the urge to pro-create... I had my Son at 19, my Bro had'nt even moved out, by the age of 28! We were discussing all the ins and out's of marriage and, babies and such. My Nephew, just turned 3, in May....
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Peri
Knowflake Posts: 1692
From: Kyiv, Ukraine
Registered: Dec 2003
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posted September 20, 2005 07:24 AM
I am the second of two.Me: Sun-Taurus, Moon-Sag, ASC - Cappy My brother: Sun-Pisces, Moon-Virgo, ASC-Scorpio (his ACS/DSC line conj my MC/IC) My dad: Sun-Cancer, Moon-Scorpio, ASC-Aqua My mom: Sun-Leo, Moon-Cappy, ASC-Sag My indigo niece(Uranus in Aqua in the 1st making only supportive aspects!): Sun-Aries (conj my South Node), Moon-Scorpio, ASC-29Cappy (we do seem to have a very strong karmic connection, she babies me (I am 21 years older!)as if I were her little daughter) ------------------
Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darknesses of other people.
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future_uncertain
Knowflake Posts: 2366
From: ohio
Registered: Aug 2004
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posted September 20, 2005 08:29 AM
I'm not sure how to answer this question. I guess technically I'm the oldest of two brothers, one with my same parents and one half. Me: Sag
Bro 1: Cap
Bro 2: Taurus I don't know what our life path numbers are... is this the date of our birth? If so, then 16, 16, 15 respectively. So I was an only for two years, then the oldest girl until I was about nine, then my mom married and I had two step sisters, one two years older and one three months older (that little bit of salt was more then enough to sting. I lost my rank by three months! It mattered at the time when I was trying to find my role in the mess.) Then my half brother was born~ 10 years younger than I. We've always been pretty close though. Then my dad remarried and I had an older step brother and a younger step sister. I gave up on finding my place in the family on either side. I just do my thing and everyone gets p*ssed at me! Family ties can be hard enough for Saggi's... this is just ridiculous! IP: Logged |
Kat
Knowflake Posts: 851
From: Cleveland, Ohio
Registered: Jan 2003
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posted September 26, 2005 06:17 PM
I'm the youngest of three
I can't remember how to get the birthpath is it a total of your birth date? If so
My brother (4) Aries
My sister (1) Capricorn
me (1) Cancer
I got along well with my brother as a child, but now he is just too tempermental and angry. I really try to avoid him because his anger problem. My sister was terribly jealous of me as a child and really dominated me. We get along good now. but the conversation is not really close. I'm very different from my siblings. I'm more created, open minded, and liberal. They are much more traditional and regimented in their views. I have an Aunt who said to me how I really don't belong in my family because I'm so different. I sometimes wonder if I never knew these people in a previous life and chose this family from some strange reason only to learn a lesson. IP: Logged |
26taurus
Knowflake Posts: 10451
From: the stars
Registered: Jun 2004
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posted September 26, 2005 07:12 PM
Me (oldest): Sun Taurus, Moon Virgo, Asc. CapBro (youngest): Sun Sag, Moon Sag, Asc. Leo
We're 19 months apart. He's an '18' and I'm a '17'. We've always gotten along very well and he's very protective of me. I was extremely protective of him, especially as a child and would worry about him alot (must be my Virgo moon.....and Chiron conj. Mercury in the 3rd house of siblings). Love you bro. 
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iAmThat
Knowflake Posts: 1255
From: third rock from the Sun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted September 26, 2005 09:37 PM
I heard this from a friend. Trying to recollect exactly...OK here goes. quote:
The first one follows the rule.
The second breaks the rule.
The third says "Rule. What rule"
I am the third of four btw. So far everybody seems to fit that profile ...I am not sure of Fayte. I so think that she is a follower of rule. Don't know why? LOL... IP: Logged | |
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