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Topic: The numerological implications of changing your name at marriage.... Help please!!
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Nebel
Knowflake Posts: 228
From: Australia
Registered: Aug 2002
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posted January 12, 2006 11:42 PM
 
Hello everyone  I'd like to know what people think about the implications of changing your name at marriage. To cut a long story short, when i get married soon i have to decide if i'm going to keep my full name (which adds up to 3), or change my last name to my partners name, which in that case my whole name will add up to 4. We all know about the number 4 and what it means to have it prominent in your life - but has anyone been faced with this dilema before? Can anyone suggest a solution? We've discussed changing both our names to a new name, but at the same time i'd like to be traditional about it all and take his name... Thank you for your help
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sesame
Moderator Posts: 1172
From: Oz
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted January 13, 2006 08:19 PM
You could hyphenate? Or change/add a middle name? Is your middle name misspelled? I definitely agree you shouldn't change into a 4. Especially if your partner is already a 4 or 8. Three is a great number.Dean. ------------------
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BlueRoamer
Knowflake Posts: 1397
From: Calm Blue Ocean, Calm Blue Ocean
Registered: Jun 2003
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posted January 16, 2006 02:13 PM
Sounds disastrous...you'll totally lose your identity..i woudlnt' do it
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pixelpixie
Moderator Posts: 2797
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted January 16, 2006 06:58 PM
I wanted to keep my last name, but my husband insisted, so as a gift, I chose to honour him.
Still not completely cool with it, after seven years. haha.
I was a Seven.
For some reason, I can't remember what I am now... either one or nine.
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BlueRoamer
Knowflake Posts: 1397
From: Calm Blue Ocean, Calm Blue Ocean
Registered: Jun 2003
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posted January 17, 2006 01:27 AM
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Nebel
Knowflake Posts: 228
From: Australia
Registered: Aug 2002
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posted January 17, 2006 06:13 PM
Thanks for your help Dean, Blue Roamer & pixelpixie
This is something I've thought heaps about for a while now - hyphenated names, keeping birth names - but what names do the kids have?! (would that cause divisions between us?), changing to a completely new name - but how would that effect our relationship with our parents?Its all so complicated! Any opinions on the above (I would feel weird about keeping my birth name, and my kids having their fathers name - or worse, my kids having a different name to their Dad - it just seems weird!) PixelPixie i'm interested in what you said - about when you changed your name. Do you think changing your name had a big effect on you, or the direction of your life? Could you please tell me more about it? I would be greatful Thank you for your help
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sesame
Moderator Posts: 1172
From: Oz
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted January 17, 2006 06:31 PM
Hey! I just had a great idea! Why not make your current last name, your last middle name? That way it's still a part of you, and adds to your vibration, and prevents the 4?Dean. IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
Moderator Posts: 2797
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted January 17, 2006 07:15 PM
That's harder to answer than I thought It would be.....
The act of marrying itself changed my life.
Not only in acquiring a new name....
Everything changes, and you grow together.
Hopefully in a beautiful way.
You do become a new person, and all the things you were before merge and become new.
If you happen to like the person you are already, numerology aside ( and I certainly hope you do like you!!!) Then you can grow better.
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Nebel
Knowflake Posts: 228
From: Australia
Registered: Aug 2002
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posted January 17, 2006 10:05 PM
Thanks Dean - thats a new one to consider!Pixel I hear what you are saying - but i think the other issue i have, and i probably should have mentioned earlier - is that my birth number is a 4 also! I know numerology shouldn't rule your life - but i'm not exactly willing to test something like this out! I'm happy with who i am now - and although i'm a taurus - i'm looking foward to changing and growing with my partner. I guess i just want to make sure i have made it as happy as i can by avoiding any obvious pitfalls. LOL
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