Posts: 5165
From: Ontario, Canada
Registered: Jun 2005

posted February 07, 2008 01:50 AM         

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You can complain, or you can choose to go on past the complaints to the growth, getting on with what works and working it as if there were no tomorrow. By this commitment, you can gain new avenues into your creativity, which can result in a wonderful freedom.
You don't have to groan when you run into obstacles. Instead, you can recognize that any obstacle can be used as a stepping-stone. You don't have to curse the obstacle, but you can find a way to use it to go higher, toward what you want. If you commit to doing just positive actions, the chances are excellent that you'll get cooperation on all levels, including the physical, emotional, mental, subconscious, and superconscious.

- John-Roger

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Posts: 1563
From: Oz
Registered: Nov 2003

posted February 11, 2008 07:41 PM         

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Hmmm, I always second guess complaining, but I think it can be necessary to change behaviour. We have to be asserive to tell people what we think, otherwise, we will feel powerless and project this. Complaining can become a habit though, and should not, as habits are a sign of hanging on to the earthly world. The best approach is to state the problem and address ways of circumventing it. This could be considered complaining like "Oh, there's a log in my way". If you don't state this, then you muight forget it in the future and have to cross the same obstacle again, which isn't a bad thing, but just takes more invaluable time.

Heaps of Love,
Dean.

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