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Shadow_Kitten
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posted January 30, 2010 04:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Shadow_Kitten     Edit/Delete Message
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posted January 30, 2010 10:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sesame     Edit/Delete Message
Well, I think the best way to tackle negative people is through ignoring them and not letting them get to you. This can be tough - especially when they influence people you care about. But by retaliating you are giving them energy and attention which could be why they are doing it in the first place - to steal your energy, and potentially your friends. They may covet you and your life / way of dealing with things, etc. They may act the victim because this works too - they could have been victims in the past, or even now, but the fact is people should get over themselves and move on and try NOT to be victims because it gets attention. I'm not saying this is what you are doing, you seem more exasperated. It does seem like a bullying situation though, and cyber-bullying is very real and difficult to address. As you said, they could be veiled and have double-meanings, or attempt to win over other people to turn against you, but I believe you just have to trust that the people you think are you friends will see through this and still be your friends. Hopefully they will ignore her too. It's tough getting everyone to be consistent and work together. I think in the cyber world, the only really effective thing is to stop posting at that forum, even thought this could be a sad situation. You still have email and facebook, etc, plus you could ask them to come to this forum too if you wish (I don't mean to advertise etc, they may not be into LL). The problem here though is that your bully could catch wind and follow them over too.

As to self healing. Have you read the Celestine Prophecy? It's great in discussing energies etc. For example, the world is an abundant source of energy - you can extract infinite ammounts from everyday items such as trees and waterfalls, etc. Or pets. The idea is you fill up from the universe, and you can allow people to take some - to boost them up, etc, as you have unlimited supply. But, if you are around draining people, they could extract energy faster than you can boost yourself, or make you feel like you are continually drained without any escape or productivity. Such black holes should be avoided IMHO, unless you are a saint with enormous patience. In any case, if you can escape their influence and boost yourself from nature and your surroundings, then great, you will heal in time.

All the best,
Heaps of Love,
Dean.

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