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posted August 23, 2010 09:50 PM         

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Does anyone else experience signs from the universe? I used to think it was coincidence, but it happens way too often for me to think that now.
I see a specific number and various variations to it pretty much all the time. They really started about the time that I had met someone whose birthday is that number, and we met in a zipcode which ends in the same number. So I see this number all the time (and hear people say it!), and I see the digits of his b-day at the weirdest times. I also see his name everywhere, though it is a common name, but I see it at the weirdest and most 'coincidental' of times. I feel like I'm being pointed to him a lot, even though we haven't seen each other in almost 2 years. Sometimes I wonder if it's the universe just being cruel, because it keeps me from moving on from it, and it still hurts me that we aren't together. Has anyone else experienced this and what does it all mean?

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posted August 24, 2010 12:31 AM         

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The Universe is never cruel...or kind, that implies intent, we try to humanise forces including the Universe, must be careful of that. But anywho, when something is always on our mind whether we think of it or are reminded of it via a series of 'coincidences' you have to ask yourself what it means for yourself, I don't think anyone else could tell you why ~ you said it still hurts you that you aren't together?... so you have not gotten over it? Is there some emotional stuff you need to release, re address or find? I don't know which one but you obviously are passing sign posts asking you to look at something, something that possibly hurts and that has been ignored for so long.

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posted August 24, 2010 12:41 AM         

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Sorry about the triple reply. lol
For some reason, after I hit submit reply it actually took ages to post- quite a few minutes before I was taken to the next page. I only hit the button once.

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posted August 24, 2010 01:14 AM         

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Yeah, it's a weird situation because we didn't get together when we had a chance to, and now I am kicking myself because I never ever thought I would be missing him so much or regretting not taking a chance on him. And I keep getting pointed back to him now, 2 years after the fact. The first 6 months or so after we parted ways I didn't really think about him, and I kind of just assumed that if he and I were meant to be together it would just happen naturally. Well, now 2 years later, and no matter how many times I have decided or told myself that I am moving on, I am unable to get him out of my brain (and in fact, those times when I decided I'm going to be over him and keep on with my life and let it go are usually preceded by a barage of these same signs that all point me once again, back to him. It makes it really almost impossible for me to get over it, and other guys have come and gone during this period.
The problem is, after that 6 months came and went and when he really started to come back into my brain, I sent him an email (don't have his number) just to say hi and that I hoped he was really good. He never responded. Meeting him helped me realize many things about myself, and I am still seeing these signs. So I'm not sure what else to make of everything.
I still hope that one day he will appear again, but I don't know if that is just wishful thinking on my part or if he really will end up appearing again.
I understand what you're saying about the universe not having intent, but it can seem very cruel sometimes that I am trying to move on and it all keeps popping up in my face.
And no worries about the multi-post, thanks for answering :-)

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posted August 24, 2010 01:16 AM         

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Oh totally ... If I had to write down all the weird sings, coincidences and intuitions that have led to where I am today I'd have a book twice as thick as Gooberz. Seriously. I used to think I was nuts. Actually I still think I'm nuts, haha : ) But I, for one, totally believe in signs. I also believe however that it's really easy to totally misinterpret the signs! Which sort of like makes one go, well, what's with the signs in the first place then anyway? I reckon in the end you gotta make a choice and just see where it leads ... indecision is the worst, so either go one way or another but stop standing and staring you're holding up the traffic! (Just kidding : )

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posted August 24, 2010 01:53 AM         

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No, you're so right! I used to think I was crazy too but now it happens so often that I've realized that it's not just me being nuts and I started realizing that there is some lesson here. I've learned so much about myself through the situation with him, and even when things went south 2 years ago, I've always felt that this wasn't resolved, and not over, but I don't know if it's just wishful thinking on my part.

You are so right about making a decision and that is exactly my problem, I keep waffling! I want to wait for him, I'm not sure if it would matter anyway, I want to love him, I want to get over him, AHHHHHH! My intuition is all out of wack with this situation, and it's driving me nuts. I would wait for him if I could really believe that I would have another chance with him, but all I have to go on is these signs, and I am afraid of misinterpreting them. I'm afraid I just want to believe that he will come back and I am deluding myself.

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posted August 24, 2010 12:24 PM         

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I do believe that the Universe does give us signs all the time........and whatever we concentrate on, whatever we put our energy into, we will attract to ourselves......

So if you are a thinking about a person, you will attract him/her to you. Also, if you think about someone, they will think about you too

This is why when I broke up with my ex-bf earlier this year, I told him "Do not even THINK about me!!!" b/c I wanted to wash him clean from my existance, and I knew he was always thinking of me and wanting to be with me, get back together with me, and until he stopped thinking about me, I was stuck having reminders of him and thinking about him too!!!

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posted August 24, 2010 05:43 PM         

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I guarantee it, he is thinking of you too......

*HOWEVER* you must let him go and let his own free will decide......you can't "force" anyone to be with you, just because that is what YOU want.......HE has to want it with the essence of his HEART and his SOUL otherwise it won't be genuine. Does that makes sense? If you "pull" him to be with you, it might not work out.....b/c eventually any hesitations on his part will surface.......*but* if you let him go and let him be.......if you are meant to be together it will happen.

Sometimes you have to let go and let the Universe guide your direction. You can say a prayer to the Universe but you have to be genuine.

Of course, I don't know the circumstances of your relationship so my answer is general.

Good Luck and Best Wishes ~

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posted August 24, 2010 05:59 PM         

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Just wanted to add as a side note:

I can always tell when my ex-bf is thinking of me b/c I will always get some kind of clue.....I will think of him but then I always have to release it right away......it's kind of as if his soul is knocking on the door to my soul.....but, my soul will *never* answer that door.

Interesting that we are talking about this today b/c I did dream of him early this a.m. So I think that he must have been thinking of me last night or this morning. Or even during the night when I dreamed that. But in the dream he knew to stay away from me, not to talk to me, not to approach me.

I've had a lot of experiences in relationships where I am obsessively thinking about the guy just like you describe, and then to find out he was always thinking of me, too, at the same moments. I know those aspects are binding and hard to let go.

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posted August 24, 2010 06:13 PM         

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I was just thinking.......since you are a Pisces, ruled by Neptune, you could be putting him up on a pedestal, fantasizing, and the truth could about him could be shaded. If you can handle knowing the truth (if he is available or not, if he is interested or not, if he is ready emotionally for a relationship) you might want to try and contact him one more time just so you will have a final answer. Then you will know. But I wouldn't do it by e-mail, especially since he didn't respond the first time. Of course, he could have changed his e-mail address. Or he might not be one to write e-mails.
For example I am terrible with e-mail and not one to sit and write a novel to anyone. I prefer quick messeging or phone. A friend was just trying to set me up with someone and he wrote me a novel in an e-mail and I swear I do not have the time in my life to sit and write a novel e-mail back to anyone, I just find that ridiculous. So that is just ME. So if you wrote me a novel e-mail, and I didn't reply, it wouldn't mean I don't want to be friends with you. Just sayin', everyone is different.
Sorry for rambling

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posted August 24, 2010 09:42 PM         

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Hell yeah......I believe in signs from the Universe. I believe that God speaks to us in many ways. I am highly superstitious. I always believed in signs and omens.

I don't tell that to mental health professionals though. I don't need to be diagnosed psychotic,schizophrenic.

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posted August 25, 2010 12:02 PM         

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Yeah, I understand if you left the ball in his court then you've done your part........

I am jaded too, I hate feeling that way but it's hard to shake it off.........

Good luck and let me know what happens!!!

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posted August 25, 2010 08:15 PM         

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I say wait for him. If you don't feel up tp trying to contact him, then don't. It's a terrible thing to have to wait without knowing when what and if anything will happen, but if you are feeling signs that something there is meant to be, then trust those signs and just wait and try to be calm. You'll know what to do when the time is right. In the meantime, I advise you to take up knitting. Hhaha... just kidding. But seriously you need to find some hobby or activity to keep yourself busy while you wait or else you'll explode.

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And if it doesn't, it can only be that something better is meant to come.:-)

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posted September 05, 2010 12:43 AM         

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How's it going swtbutterfly?????

My ex-bf poked me on facebook the other day/night *sigh* Oh, god........... I can feel he's been thinking about me. *sigh* (the one who I told not to even THINK about me anymore. LOL )

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posted September 10, 2010 02:22 PM         

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Well???? Did you send him a friend request???

My ex-bf poked me yet *again* as well as another guy I don't want....... *big sigh* UGH Yes he has tons of issues and it is best that I don't contact him at all............the other guy too!

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Thank you!!!!!!!!

I totally believe in signs: the b-day cheese thing, and 11's.........what I try to do is not think of the person........then if signs come up naturally, I know it isn't ME forcing him to come to me, (my will) but the natural flow of the Universe.

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