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Topic: Eerie feeling each time with this guy in England.
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heavenlyhera
Newflake Posts: 7
From: Jax, Fl, US
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted December 07, 2010 02:09 AM
  
There is this guy I visit in England. Every time we are around each other there is a really weird dreamlike feel to everything. Like we are both not in the real world. Like we feel disconnected from our bodies. We don't have thoughts. Everything feels so unreal. The first time I met him there was a very "at home" feel to him. But a lot of the time we can't stand each other. But we can't be away from each other. We can tell each other anything though. And when one of us walks away it's seriously the most painful thing. And being in each others lives even as enemies is better then not having each other at all. What could this be? Any similar experiences or ideas what this could be? IP: Logged |
listenstotrees
Knowflake Posts: 1737
From: Rivendell
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 07, 2010 05:02 AM
When you are with him, do you talk about spiritual things or physics; otherworldly type stuff? This could explain the disconnected feeling you described.The way you feel about each other....I'd say it is due to a strong chemistry you share, and not just physically, but energy wise on other levels. You obviously have feelings for each other, but if you clash a lot then you would both need to work on overcoming that to make things work on a deeper level. As for literal twin flames (if that is what you are asking- if anyone feels he may be such, or a soul mate etc), I haven't decided yet whether I believe in the concept, but do believe there is someone perfect out there for everyone, especially if that is the heart's desire. IP: Logged |
mochai
Knowflake Posts: 169
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 07, 2010 08:25 AM
Sounds like a soulmate relationship. The not being able to stand eachother too. I'd take my soulmate at the extremes of bipolar, being virtualy broke and always having to take care of him and it wouldn't matter. Ironically that's not what I'm supposed to do, I was supposed to leave him because he would be abusive but we didn't follow the script and he's stuck in his role for this life. Of course I don't have a choice to be with him now, but his energy is that magnetic to me. When I met him, I felt like he was the first person I coud actually 'be' with. I felt I could tell him anything and it wouldn't matter. It scared me to death too. The things feeling unreal and not having thoughts I've had. It's scary because I'll totally forget who/what I am when I see him. Everything else stops existing. All I can feel is his presence. It's sad, but the best moments of my life are just standing next to him. Anyway he can't see me do it. I met him 3 and a half years ago too. I make his disease worse. Karmically, we'll probably have to meet again and make up for this lifetime if he stays here.To expain my soul has a history of staying in abusive relationships so his soul and I made an agreement as a kind of test after I left the first guy for abusing me. I've played the bad guy for him too. It's all a part of learning, but if you can really be with a soulmate in this life, that is truly a gift. Not all soulmates are destined or romantic and every relationship is unique  . To add about the twin flames, I do hear people are being allowed to meet their twin flames earlier due to the time period involved. Often if you meet a twin flame before you're ready there's a huge clash and they can be repellant. I've got a friend who's sun is exact conjunct my angel and his asc is exact conjunct my ic (which indicates being very similar energy wise if not soul family given the asc/ic). The akashic reader didn't say we had any past lives, but he feels an extreme magnetic pull towards me and will secretly make me hold his stuff so he can feel my energy later (he's commented on my energy in the past etc). It's cute but he annoys the hell out of me. When I didn't know what I was doing and was first getting to know him, he would **** me off to extremes for some odd reason and I would end up psychically attacking him because I had no clue how that worked, and then he had to tell me I was psychically attacking him after the fact and I would stop and we'd go back to having an amicable relationship. He had a psychic link to me too and could always tell when I was running or how I was feeling. I think my earlier soulmate had this connection to me, and I sort of did to him even as an atheist. I would know when he was near me and would feel drawn to that direction.. staring totally perplexed at what the hell I was feeling towards this stranger. I rambled too much, but maybe that can elucidate some things. IP: Logged | |
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