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Topic: Would it be wrong to use this love spell?
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jojo22 Newflake Posts: 7 From: Chicago, IL, USA Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 26, 2013 11:25 AM
ok well my ex and i havent been broken up for 3 months now. I recently went to a psychic. I asked the psychic what the real reason why my ex left me and he said its because he has a fear of commitment. Which was true cuz when he broke up with me thats basically what he told me, so the psychic was right (i was testing the psychic).He also said that my ex does think of me alot and still has strong feelings for me, its just that hes letting his fears/insecurities get in the way and its stopping him from wanting to be in a relationhship with me. NOW,if the psychic is correct, he also suggested that he can do a love spell or reconciliation spell to help him want to get back with me. Ok, ive heard that putting a love spell on someone else can backfire. And forcing someone to like you over their own will can have bad consequences. But would it be wrong to put this love spell on my ex if the psychic was right about him still having feelings for me and missing me, the love spell would help him overcome his fears?
is this still a wrong thing to do? IP: Logged |
Twirl Knowflake Posts: 2142 From: Europe Registered: Mar 2013
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posted September 26, 2013 04:07 PM
Yes it would. That's up to your ex to work on. His karma. his package. Not by someone else to decide. Secondly, it might be the psychic just wanting you to pay extra money. If you are meant to be, you will. If he moves on, then that's just what it is. Wishing you luck IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 32948 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 26, 2013 04:33 PM
It won't work. But it will bounce back and cause you trouble. Love spells violate free-will.IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx Knowflake Posts: 98 From: Mountain Gate Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 26, 2013 05:10 PM
You can ask for the RIGHT one to come into your life.IP: Logged |
hippichick Moderator Posts: 3346 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 26, 2013 05:25 PM
Dont do it...Please dont do it! One can only "enhance" things with a "spell" which I dont like the word... I prefer lighting a candle, setting a stage, creating, and drawing energy that you want...but where there is another concerned you must only do this IF the loved one is still in your life and must be present and one must let one know. Don't take another's word's, ie: a psychic as gospel. Draw in all opinions and make your own choices. No matter what you do, what will be will be, espeicially when there is another's energy, soul to consider. Do this!!! If you must, cast a "love spell" on yourself! Without mind nor mention of any other.... Just ask for the pure blessing of love to come your way..leave it open. IF it will be he, then so be it, of not..so be it. Please dont mess with crazy energy... Yes and it will come back to you thricefold, whatever you put out...been there done that, not with love spells...but just, please dont go messing with energy. Ever seen "The Craft? I know, an extream example, but a good one... love and blessings~ t~ )~( IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 2985 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 26, 2013 06:10 PM
When casting a love spell on a specific person to subvert or even trap their free will typically doesn't work or it creates obsession. A witch told me that her theory is that to place a spell on someone you need to experience that energy for yourself, and if you love someone then you wouldn't rape his mind anymore than you would his body...if you do then ergo, it's not love no matter how much you want him, it's obsession, and is in the realm of the stalker than the lover. So even if it did work you'd make a similar obsession in him that was equally selfish and quite possibly rapey (and thus be in serious danger of the "threefold back"). (Passion spells were different as you can sincerely sexually obsess over someone while casting such a spell but they ran the same risk of creating selfish, possibly rapey, obsession in the target.) And IMO this psychic is telling you what you want to hear and trying to sell you a love spell. He probably doesn't even believe in that stuff. If he did I think he'd be much more respectful of its power, treat it more reverently than using it like duct tape (especially for other people!), its risk of things like backlash, and its unintended consequences (and if he didn't care for those things while still believing and practicing it sincerely and effectively then he would be strictly about empowering himself and not worry about helping a stranger). IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 2985 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 26, 2013 06:17 PM
If you want to go the route of magic then do a spell for ATTRACTING love. IF the guy has feelings for you then the magic will call to him, and if it wasn't meant to be then it will call out to the right one. In any case do NOT use that so-called psychic. IP: Logged |
hippichick Moderator Posts: 3346 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 26, 2013 06:37 PM
ditto, ditto, dittoPixie IP: Logged |
Lexxigramer Moderator Posts: 3243 From: The Etheric Realms...Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat...& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 26, 2013 11:40 PM
Do not do it.IP: Logged |
Lexxigramer Moderator Posts: 3243 From: The Etheric Realms...Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat...& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 26, 2013 11:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by PixieJane: If you want to go the route of magic then do a spell for ATTRACTING love. IF the guy has feelings for you then the magic will call to him, and if it wasn't meant to be then it will call out to the right one. In any case do NOT use that so-called psychic.
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 32948 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 27, 2013 01:27 PM
All good advice.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 5631 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted September 28, 2013 11:55 AM
The topic seems to be over and done with, but I wanted to add spells meant to woo other people usually manipulate your feelings instead, possibly causing you to fall more in love with your ex rather than regaining an equally loving relationship. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 32948 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 02, 2013 11:17 AM
What did you decide?IP: Logged |
hippichick Moderator Posts: 3346 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted October 02, 2013 03:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: The topic seems to be over and done with, but I wanted to add spells meant to woo other people usually manipulate your feelings instead, possibly causing you to fall more in love with your ex rather than regaining an equally loving relationship.
That is the danger of these things....want to see energy go catywonkas? Yea, do a love spell... And that is ONLY if the caster has enough knowledge, will and emotion to make it work.
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BlackSeraph Knowflake Posts: 406 From: PA, USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted October 02, 2013 09:12 PM
I have to agree, such a spell would be a violation of free will... also, I question this psychic's motives for even offering this suggestion as a serious consideration.If they're openly willing to do this, what other violations of free will has this psychic committed or openly offered in the past to others? You'd be opening yourself up for a fall if you ask me by going forward with the psychic's suggestion. If anything, I'd echo the sentiment to perform a working to attract genuine love to yourself with no expectation of a specific person... and ONLY after your feelings on these matters are clear, as at this point I'm certain there'd still be residual desire for your ex to end up in the working's energy. Sleep on this for about at least a week or more, is my suggestion. Actually, maybe longer as I'm about to explain: I'm uncertain as to your feelings about lunar phases and spells/workings, but I believe we are less than a month out from a Lunar Eclipse. This is going to be a very potent time for any kind of working in my opinion, especially this close to Samhain/Halloween, if you follow the Veil between worlds being thinnest at that time of the year line of thought. I think you'd be getting far more than you bargain for. I recommend against it at this time. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 32948 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 03, 2013 12:43 PM
Exactly.IP: Logged |