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posted August 14, 2021 08:29 PM            

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So I have been noticing a pattern in my life. People either hate me or love me. Some people will hate me for no logical reason and will do anything to destroy me. Other people will love me for no reason but the thing is once I get used to them they exit my life unexpectedly. Either they start to act differently or start to be toxic or just things don’t work out. I just realized this week that one of my friends is going out of my life. He played a major role in my life he kept me sane while I was struggling. It was painful to admit that this soul contract between us is expiring. I tried to work on things but he went to a very different path than me and he doesn’t want anyone now even his wife. I tried to give him hope and be here for him but he doesn’t want this friendship anymore. He didn’t say it but you know its the same unexpected sudden ending that I had with people before. I keep seeing signs that means that I need to let go of some people in my life to open up and receive the new. The same way I let go of fake bad connections before so others entered my life. The thing is how to deal with those soul contracts

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posted August 14, 2021 09:36 PM            

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It must feel unstable at times when people you wanted to stay there forever with you vanish like that. And it seems like there's nothing you can do really. Do you have any hard Uranus aspects natally? Whether you have some or not, I think that as much as this pattern repeats itself, the future still may surprise you. Maybe after all this letting go, there will be connections that would stay for life. It could be this is some sort of lesson that, once mastered, can be put aside. I know it can be so hard to let go of a meaningful relationship. You will not stay alone, though: newer and more sustainable energies are on their way. And who knows: perhaps some day some of those old "departed" connections would make a positive comeback, one way or another, or the energy will come back better and more refined in new and more lasting relationships and situations.

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posted August 15, 2021 02:16 PM            

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I feel the same way.

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posted August 17, 2021 06:39 PM            

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I do have Uranus in the 10th house
Basically square my 7th and 1st house
What you said makes a lot of sense. I just want to know what’s the lesson so I can get it over with. Currently I only have one person that I can freely talk to. You know the more I get older I just want someone that I can come back home to. I think at the way my life is going I won’t have that

Randall I feel like we have a past life connection lol

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posted August 19, 2021 02:51 AM            

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I don't know what the lesson is, but it might be about change and releasing, and/or the fleeting essence of life. Maybe just acknowledging that something has served its purpose and has to be given up upon, while retaining the faith that any end is but a new beginning, and when a door closes behind you there's a new path to walk on.
In the same way you may outgrow an old friendship, the way you live can change, and you may find along the road you do have someone to come home to. See your desirable future in the present, the blossoming field which has yet to be sown. I'm borrowing this from Jesus, as you probably know, though I know not if I am borrowing this accurately. The point I'm trying to make here, is that it's about a continuous, unbending faith, about you not feeling loneliness anymore even when you are alone.

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