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Lexxigramer
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posted November 18, 2013 09:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is beyond sick and disgusting.
These "child raising" concepts and practices are indeed far too common; I personally experienced many of these horrors.
"shudder".

Children are dying because of these abusive evil teachings and practices.
Many more are suffering horribly or are being emotionally scarred for life or brainwashed to grow up and do the same to other children.

Please read the caption, sign the petition, and share!

First published in 1994, the book "To Train Up a Child" has led to the deaths of at least 3 children and has led to the neglect and abuse of untold numbers of other children. With over 625,000 English language copies in print, the book has also been translated into many other languages - and is sold around the world.

Over the years, the authors, Michael & Debi Pearl have ardently and cavalierly defended the abusive, neglectful parental instructions in "To Teach Up a Child". Between them, they have authored 14 books and 8 booklets which, combined, have sold millions. Much of what they write, deals with marriage, "child training", and homeschooling.

Through donations and book, CD and DVD sales, the Pearls and their ministry, No Greater Joy, make an estimated $1.7 million a year.

According to their website, nogreaterjoy.org, "No Greater Joy" is the ministry of Michael & Debi Pearl - and is operated under the auspices of No Greater Joy Ministries Inc.. Michael has been a pastor, missionary, and evangelist for over 40 years. The Pearls have 5 children, all home-schooled, who have grown up to become missionaries and "church leaders." Though allegedly holding a degree from the Mid-South Bible College (now Victory University), when Michael is asked for his credentials on child training, he points to his five children.

Neither Michael nor his wife, Debi, have any formal training or education in fields relevant to child psychology or child rearing. And, as we all know, simply having children does not make you an expert, nor does it qualify you to give parenting advice. If anything, the advice the Pearl's are giving should disqualify them from ever being around children.

However, according to their website:
"Through books and tapes, the Pearls are training parents to break the bad habits passed down from former generations and to recognize and emulate the wisdom of those who have gone before. The Bible and common sense are the foundations for effective parenting."

Their "ministry" is allegedly entirely nonprofit, overseen by a board of directors. No Greater Joy Ministries is registered with the State of Tennessee and complies with all statutes as a non-profit religious organization.

The Pearls allegedly do not receive royalties from the sale of their "child training materials." According to their website, "The profits from sales are used to propagate the Gospel of Jesus Christ through missionaries and the production of new materials on parenting and the home."

That's right, the Pearl's and their child-abuse-and-neglect-encouraging "ministry" are subsidized by taxpayers - allowing them to rake in millions of dollars, tax-free, some percentage of which they then use to further indoctrinate children - and encourage yet more parents to abuse and neglect their children. But it's all good, because they're religious and it's done in the name of "God" and Jesus, right?

In addition to selling the book, free copies of "To Train Up a Child" are also commonly given out in churches and sent to military families.

Michael Pearl writes that he is laughing at his critics after child's death http://www.examiner.com/article/michael-pearl-writes-that-he-is-lau ghing-at-his-critics-after-child-s-death

Please sign the Change.org petition and share this image to help raise awareness of this terrible organization and book!
~@Ryan~ Hammer the Gods
(See below for supporting links.)

Change.org petition, requesting that Amazon.com remove this and other abuse-endorsing books from their website: http://www.change.org/petitions/amazon-refuse-to-carry-books-which-a dvocate-the-physical-abuse-of-children

Deaths and abuse, related to "To Train Up a Child":

"Did Hana's parents 'train' her to death?" -The Seattle Times http://seattletimes.com/html/localnews/2016875109_hana28m.html

"Another couple found guilty of murder for parenting by "To Train Up a Child" -Examiner.com http://www.examiner.com/article/another-couple-found-guilty-of-murde r-for-parenting-by-to-train-up-a-child

http://www.examiner.com/article/another-couple-found-guilty-of-murde r-for-parenting-by-to-train-up-a-child

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posted November 18, 2013 10:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lei_Kuei     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well free speech and all that, he isn't forcing anyone to buy or view his material...

Id be the last person to agree with a methodology of child rearing based on Biblical teachings, but this whole book burning-witch hunt seem abit too fascist for my liking

I'm more concerned with the parents who are choosing to buy and use such things as methods of child rearing, what is causing them to make those choices?

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Lexxigramer
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posted November 18, 2013 11:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lei_Kuei:
Well free speech and all that, he isn't forcing anyone to buy or view his material...

Id be the last person to agree with a methodology of child rearing based on Biblical teachings, but this whole book burning-witch hunt seem abit too fascist for my liking

I'm more concerned with the parents who are choosing to buy and use such things as methods of child rearing, what is causing them to make those choices?

If it's belief in Jesus/God... then you know what you have to do Lexx?


People promoting and preaching how to abuse children and you call it a fascist witch hunt? Their teachings have led people, rabid Christians following their book and the bible, to abuse and or murder their children.
Free speech is one thing but when it leads to child abuse and murder; that is wrong.

And there is nothing I can do about it.
I should not have posted this because every time I post such things I get bashed in some way.
Fascist with hunts?
You are defending free speech for child abusers.
Wow.

Geeez,

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posted November 18, 2013 11:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for shura     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.nydailynews.com/news/world/atheist-writer-richard-dawkins-child-sex-abuse-scandals-over-hyped-article-1.1452198

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posted November 18, 2013 11:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by shura:
http://www.nydailynews.com/news/world/atheist-writer -richard-dawkins-child-sex-abuse-scandals-over-hyped-article-1.1452198
I do not agree with him there.
However this has nothing to do with people causing kids to be murdered or promoting and giving instructions on how to abuse children.


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Lexxigramer
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posted November 19, 2013 12:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well anyhow;
I only posted because I am saddened by it all and outraged.

I did not really want to argue or discuss anything because what is there to discuss or argue about?

I was just posting information/news.
Done doing that.
Should not have.
Proves nothing.

I am leaving this thread now.
Contribute kindly or trash the fraking thing.
I just don't care.

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Lei_Kuei
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posted November 19, 2013 02:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lei_Kuei     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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People promoting and preaching how to abuse children and you call it a fascist witch hunt? Their teachings have led people, rabid Christians following their book and the bible, to abuse and or murder their children.
Free speech is one thing but when it leads to child abuse and murder; that is wrong.

And there is nothing I can do about it.
I should not have posted this because every time I post such things I get bashed in some way.
Fascist with hunts?
You are defending free speech for child abusers.
Wow.

Geeez,


What they are doing is pretty despicable... No argument from me there.

But fortunately... Even scum like that are allocated the right to freedom of speech

Its the parents who USE his methods... to me they are the ones really at fault!

Do you really think that even if you were able to destroy all of their works, websites, every trace of their existence that it would stop parents making a complete mess of child rearing...?

Its just a dark path when we starting saying who can and who cant publish various works no matter what the content.

The problems always occur on really sticky topics such as these, but who makes the judgment call?

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Lexxigramer
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posted November 19, 2013 03:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was NOT protesting his rights.
(though I should)
I was and am angry about little kids being abused and murdered in the name of religion.
As to this:
quote:
Originally posted by Lei_Kuei:
Do you really think that even if you were able to destroy all of their works, websites, every trace of their existence that it would stop parents making a complete mess of child rearing...?

I am not naive geeez.
I know that would be futile and just make monsters like them more popular.
I am tired and wish I had not made this thread.

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posted November 20, 2013 02:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lei_Kuei:
what is causing them to make those choices?

That is an interesting question and I can't say why. A lot of toxic fundie lit that promotes hate or abuse serves their beliefs somehow, yet I don't see how books like that do. But I expect it gets promoted at fundie bookstores, they have all kinds of crazy books for sale.

I did look it up on Amazon to see if I could get some insight into its appeal but every single review I could see was one star that condemned it (some with excerpts on why they hated it, and that includes Christians by the way who bought it and came to despise it):
http://www.amazon.com/To-Train-Child-Michael-Pearl/dp/1892112000

However, it did have 5-star reviews so I clicked to view those only and I saw that even those were often sarcastic, snarky, or otherwise not really supportive. For example, this 5-star review:

quote:
So far, three couples have successfully used these instructions to kill their children. If you are looking for the cruelest way to torture and murder your own child, or even just damage them for life, look no further. This book is perfect for any psychotic child hater who has been lumbered with little brats and would rather not see them reach maturity. The book contains step by step instructions on how to torture your offspring and break their spirit, with lots of references to god so that you feel good while doing it. Thoroughly recommended!

I have to say I'm even more baffled that this book is popular now. I would guess that this book appeals only the worst of fundies and what I call homeschooling cults (I generally favor homeschooling but there are some Christian homeschooling parents that are just messed up cultists who do far more harm to a child's education & development than any public school could, and I say that aware just how toxic and dangerous public schools can be).

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posted November 20, 2013 05:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not posting names and what and where I have observed it;
but I know of some LL members who like and endorse that book.
As to why people like the book;
that is unfortunately easy to figure out.
First off sadly most or even all of them were abused by their parents, clergy, and even others kids as a child.
Bible insanity was drilled into them from nearly birth. This seems normal to them and many many bible passages do indeed state that these are their laws and their god condones and are even ordered by their god.

Yes even in these modern times people still do horrible things to their children because of religion. The other two Abrahamic religions;
Islam and Judaism are no better.
The teachings in the child raising book give these people with the fear of god in them, all the instructions and reasons to justify abusing and even killing their children
and is wholeheartedly accepted because the bible also tells them so.
A few examples of the bronze age insanity of dealing with one's own children;
so here is not including treatment of other children which were to be sex slaves and so forth.
That is another topic.


Proverbs 29:15 - The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left [to himself] bringeth his mother to shame.


Proverbs 22:15 - Foolishness [is] bound in the heart of a child; [but] the rod of correction shall drive it far from him.

Proverbs Chapter 23

13 Withhold not correction from the child: for [if] thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.

14 Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell.


Proverbs 13:24 - He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.


Proverbs 22:6 - Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

Proverbs 19:18 - Chasten thy son while there is hope, and let not thy soul spare for his crying.


Proverbs 20:30 - The blueness of a wound cleanseth away evil: so [do] stripes the inward parts of the belly.


Proverbs 30:17 - The eye [that] mocketh at [his] father, and despiseth to obey [his] mother, the ravens of the valley shall pick it out, and the young eagles shall eat it.


Mark 7:10 - For Moses said, Honour thy father and thy mother; and, Whoso curseth father or mother, let him die the death:

Ecclesiastes 11:10 - Therefore remove sorrow from thy heart, and put away evil from thy flesh: for childhood and youth [are] vanity.

More somewhat related concerning condoned or their god ordered treatment of children/sons and daughters.

2 Kings Chapter 2

23 And he went up from thence unto Bethel: and as he was going up by the way, there came forth little children out of the city, and mocked him, and said unto him, Go up, thou bald head; go up, thou bald head.

24 And he turned back, and looked on them, and cursed them in the name of the LORD. And there came forth two she bears out of the wood, and tare forty and two children of them.

Leviticus Chapter 10

1 And Nadab and Abihu, the sons of Aaron, took either of them his censer, and put fire therein, and put incense thereon, and offered strange fire before the LORD, which he commanded them not.

2 And there went out fire from the LORD, and devoured them, and they died before the LORD.


Proverbs 29:15 - The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left [to himself] bringeth his mother to shame.


Proverbs 22:15 - Foolishness [is] bound in the heart of a child; [but] the rod of correction shall drive it far from him.

Proverbs Chapter 23

13 Withhold not correction from the child: for [if] thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.

14 Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell.


Proverbs 13:24 - He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.


Proverbs 22:6 - Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

Proverbs 19:18 - Chasten thy son while there is hope, and let not thy soul spare for his crying.


Proverbs 20:30 - The blueness of a wound cleanseth away evil: so [do] stripes the inward parts of the belly.


Proverbs 30:17 - The eye [that] mocketh at [his] father, and despiseth to obey [his] mother, the ravens of the valley shall pick it out, and the young eagles shall eat it.


Mark 7:10 - For Moses said, Honour thy father and thy mother; and, Whoso curseth father or mother, let him die the death:

Ecclesiastes 11:10 - Therefore remove sorrow from thy heart, and put away evil from thy flesh: for childhood and youth [are] vanity.


2 Kings Chapter 2

23 And he went up from thence unto Bethel: and as he was going up by the way, there came forth little children out of the city, and mocked him, and said unto him, Go up, thou bald head; go up, thou bald head.

24 And he turned back, and looked on them, and cursed them in the name of the LORD. And there came forth two she bears out of the wood, and tare forty and two children of them.

Leviticus Chapter 10

1 And Nadab and Abihu, the sons of Aaron, took either of them his censer, and put fire therein, and put incense thereon, and offered strange fire before the LORD, which he commanded them not.

2 And there went out fire from the LORD, and devoured them, and they died before the LORD.

Child sacrifice passages.
Note;
their god changed his mind about Issac;
but the girl gets burned alive for their god.

Genesis Chapter 22

1 And it came to pass after these things, that God did tempt Abraham, and said unto him, Abraham: and he said, Behold, [here] I [am].

2 And he said, Take now thy son, thine only [son] Isaac, whom thou lovest, and get thee into the land of Moriah; and offer him there for a burnt offering upon one of the mountains which I will tell thee of.


Judges 11:31 - Then it shall be, that whatsoever cometh forth of the doors of my house to meet me, when I return in peace from the children of Ammon, shall surely be the LORD'S, and I will offer it up for a burnt offering.

Judges 11:34
And Jephthah came to Mizpeh unto his house, and, behold, his daughter came out to meet him with timbrels and with dances: and she was his only child; beside her he had neither son nor daughter.

35 And it came to pass, when he saw her, that he rent his clothes, and said, Alas, my daughter! thou hast brought me very low, and thou art one of them that trouble me: for I have opened my mouth unto the LORD, and I cannot go back.

36 And she said unto him, My father, if thou hast opened thy mouth unto the LORD, do to me according to that which hath proceeded out of thy mouth; forasmuch as the LORD hath taken vengeance for thee of thine enemies, even of the children of Ammon.

37 And she said unto her father, Let this thing be done for me: let me alone two months, that I may go up and down upon the mountains, and bewail my virginity, I and my fellows.

38 And he said, Go. And he sent her away for two months: and she went with her companions, and bewailed her virginity upon the mountains.

39 And it came to pass at the end of two months, that she returned unto her father, who did with her according to his vow which he had vowed: and she knew no man. And it was a custom in Israel,

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posted December 16, 2013 10:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I thought this was relevant to this thread:
http://www.kickstarter.com/projects/kateslogan/kidnapped-for-christ

Though I wanted to say it's not just gay teens who get kidnapped and tortured (sometimes to death which is why many of the worst are in other countries catering to rich American parents) but all sorts. A friend of mine was disappeared this way for her interest in Wicca and came back about 6 months later brainwashed into believing we were all Satanists. I know I shared of a fundie home for girls that's above the law in the twin thread to this one, and I'll throw this in, too:
http://www.teenliberty.org/An_American_GULAG.htm

That said, it's not just fundies who make use of these snake pit schools and brainwashing (I was put into a secular one that was just a scam to suck insurance dry)...but they do seem to be the most common.

Thing is, if parents did a lot of those evil techniques they'd face prison (if they didn't then it was probably due to apathy on part of the state) but somehow paying a professional to do it for you (especially if in another country) is legally okay...unlike paying someone to say beat up or kill someone.

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posted December 21, 2013 07:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for iQ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The same Entity hatched a conspiracy with his minions to create the three "Abrahamic Faiths". Abraham started out as an honest Monotheist but his name was misused by this Entity. Later on, this Entity is said to have inspired Chengiz Khan to go on a genocide spree. I will not rule out his minions being an Occult inspiration for the Nazis to create the inverted Swastika prior to their genocide spree. How did this Entity manage to gain so much foothold of the Consciousness of Earth?
And how do we Humans extricate ourselves from his vampiric energy? When we find that answer, ugly books that encourage child abuse in the name of religion will find no more takers. Abuse itself will stop at all levels.

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