posted May 02, 2018 07:03 PM
Hi Shulia 
I think you might find that that's true of many organized sects, eastern or western.
With each group, all the organized groups of religions/philosophies have socially-scientifically researched and planned-ways on How to recruit followers. (It's like marketing salesmanship.)
After a while, you get 'habituated' to being with them. The longer you stay, the harder it is to break from them if you uncover something terrible and unseemly.
Really comes down to the quality of Character of each 'individual' that has been chosen to comprise their core-group.
That is... they get 'human'!
I gained familiarity with that group and attended some of their house-meetings a handful of times, when I was in college in the 1970s. Campus was filled with Religious(philosophic) groups, from the Krishnas to the Jesus Movement, then later, I attended house-meetings with Buddhists.
Neptune had entered the sign of Sagittarius.
From what I've gathered, these (AND western religions) are very interested in the Purity of the soul, with corresponding works (behaviors).
"Lust" is a heavy vibration ... as when intoxicated. Remain that way too long, and it can lead a person to making some VERY bad decisions, with life-long (unwanted) consequences.
e.g. extra-marital sexual affairs, leading to pregnancies, STD's, broken homes, issues of emotional betrayal/disloyalty;
divorce, social embarrassment, and heavy financial penalties.
e.g. 'Lust for money' (like addiction to thrill in a gambling or overspending addiction) can also do horrendous damage in relationships of various kinds.
Indulging Lust-energy for too long is like living off candy-bars and sugar for your main nutrition. Rots away at your spiritual life and can drain Higher Potentials in life.
But, what you were saying about them blaming their own potential-moral-failures on women????, is an OLD repeating story.
Women tend to get scapegoated in the narrow traditional dogmatic sects (eastern and western).
In the old and new testaments (bible) the WOMEN were dragged out to the public circles, and put to death by stoning, when caught in the act of having sex with a man.
You know too??? It wasn't even noted if that sex was consensual? She could have been in the act of being raped by that scumbag??! 
Women's interests NEED to be Protected and Defended.
No longer to be treated as Secondary-Citizens... EVEN if married.

I want to point something out about YOU. 
You said your were... "just freaked out a bit because my idea about hinduism was that they are super tolerant with other beliefs ...
... It is a pitty because their mantras and spirituality is really beautiful."
This and the other statement you made about 'giving food to people who need it and spreading love' IS a BEAUTIFUL simple and very Fresh spiritual viewpoint to have.
Maybe in the Future we CAN have more people who individually carry that kind of Light.
EACH person is accountable for How they fulfill the Law of Love.
Love GOD with all your Mind, Heart, Soul and Being--
And Love your Neighbor 'as' yourself.
What does the LORD require of you?
To act justly,
and to love mercy,
and to walk humbly with your God.
-- Micah 6:8 {scripture}