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DominaOriens Knowflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: May 2009	posted August 25, 2008 04:19 PM Hello everyone I've been lurking here for a few days & am ready to poke my head outta my shell. I'm in desperate need of some insight right now about the direction of my life in general, in hopes of constructing a framework for my immediate future (especially in regards to career or lack of). If any of you would like to offer your insight I would be highly greatful and please feel free to ask me any questions! Thanks in advance & I can't wait to get to know some of you better IP: Logged
DominaOriens Knowflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: May 2009	posted August 25, 2008 04:21 PM oopsie, deleted post IP: Logged
fieryscales unregistered	posted August 26, 2008 01:26 PM Welcome IP: Logged
DominaOriens Knowflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: May 2009	posted August 27, 2008 02:47 PM thanks fiery IP: Logged
fieryscales unregistered	posted August 27, 2008 05:36 PM My pleasure IP: Logged
DominaOriens Knowflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: May 2009	posted August 27, 2008 08:19 PM hrmm, confused crabby girls get sad when we're ignored... I do have a way of flying under the radar because I'm so hyper aware of coming off as an attention seeker (which I am NOT at all). But maybe a putting a face to a name will help, heh... lil' o me: [IMG][/IMG] IP: Logged
DominaOriens Knowflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: May 2009	posted August 28, 2008 06:47 PM wow, I'm shocked that the moderater is the only person who has attempted to greet me here. Are people always this rude to newbies here or is this special for me? IP: Logged
DominaOriens Knowflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: May 2009	posted August 28, 2008 07:28 PM it's my hair, isn't it? hehe IP: Logged
writesomething unregistered	posted August 29, 2008 06:31 AM LMAO...WELCOME. is that picture RECENT?? you look so young and yet it looks like you were born in 1975...wow, must be that youthful sag rising. IP: Logged
fieryscales unregistered	posted August 29, 2008 12:23 PM Wow, someone has got fire in them hehe Which country are you in? IP: Logged
DominaOriens Knowflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: May 2009	posted August 29, 2008 02:19 PM writesomething, glad u appreciate my humor 1 part abrasive + 1 part funny = somehow it seems to work somewhat sometimes, hehe and yes that is a new pic, and yes you are correct 1975 is my year I am just reallly lucky... I chalk it up to my immaturity that keeps me so youthful! hehe fieryscales, looks like we both have a lil' fire then yeah? hehe I'm in the US btw IP: Logged
Unmoved Moderator Posts: 1662 From: Registered: May 2009	posted August 30, 2008 03:02 AM Hi there. You're funny. i'm typing from my mobile so I'll be brief for now until I get to my computer. welcome. And thanks for your kind words on my thread. I hope I don't disappoint you as you read on. Cheers for now. IP: Logged
fieryscales unregistered	posted August 31, 2008 01:28 AM Fire all the way Dom hehe IP: Logged
Unmoved Moderator Posts: 1662 From: Registered: May 2009	posted August 31, 2008 07:00 AM Hi There I dig the hair. Really!! The most colorful I have ever gone was when my hair was short and spiky and unnatural red. I am thinking of cutting my hair again actually. Anyhooo... Why are you confused? IP: Logged
LEXX Moderator Posts: 1767 From: Still out looking for Schr�dinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009	posted August 31, 2008 08:27 PM DominaOriens! ------------------ It is not about waiting for storms to pass...it is about learning to dance in the rain! __________________________________________________________________________ IP: Logged
fieryscales unregistered	posted August 31, 2008 08:28 PM Hello Lexx IP: Logged
DominaOriens Knowflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: May 2009	posted September 01, 2008 02:48 PM Hi Unmoved! Glad ya dig the hair I haven't seen yours now of course, but I'm always encouraging everyone I know to take risks & get creative in the hair dept, so you should go for the new cut!! It grows back, so you can always start over, and that's what makes it so fun to experiment with! You can't do that with other body parts, hehe. Anyway, to answer your question, I'm confused because I'm at a career crossroads. I'm afraid to do what I want because it seems frivolous and of course there is a chance for failure. But by playing it safe I've found that my identity has been slowly eroded by the jobs I've been in and as a result I can't seem to function in those jobs anymore. That means, I've just been sort of floundering lately, and not even really keeping my head above water. Ugh. IP: Logged
DominaOriens Knowflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: May 2009	posted September 01, 2008 02:50 PM Why thank you Lexx! That is a proper Welcome indeed! hehe IP: Logged
Unmoved Moderator Posts: 1662 From: Registered: May 2009	posted September 01, 2008 04:01 PM DominaOriens - personally, I would say go for the frivolous thing that you love. If you are worried about the money, you're right, you should be worried because at first you will be dead broke, but with time things will look up. Doing what you love leaves no room for instant gratification. But, with all the hardships of this road... there are great rewards. I am slowly getting my rewards, but they come slowly but... the slower they are, the more sustainable they become. So, it is worth it. And be realistic enough to know that for a few years, you are going to suffer for your dreams. It is called "paying your dues". But once paid... Whooooo! Good times. I don't know what you want to do, but doing jobs you hate kills the soul. Trust me. Been there and done that. Good luck though. IP: Logged
DominaOriens Knowflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: May 2009	posted September 01, 2008 04:44 PM all very good advise there Unmoved My interests are just so varied that I often feel I'm being pulled in a million directions, so it's hard to commit to one career path. I just wish there was something glaringly obvious in my chart, or at least an area where I have obvious support. Maybe I will try what has worked in other areas of my life in the past - reckless abandon! hehe Although the odds are probably against that working again... I've been lucky to this point IP: Logged
Unmoved Moderator Posts: 1662 From: Registered: May 2009	posted September 07, 2008 10:24 AM Hey How are the crabs? IP: Logged
fieryscales unregistered	posted September 07, 2008 12:38 PM No favourtism allowed in my corner here hehe We share and share alike in here IP: Logged
DominaOriens Knowflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: May 2009	posted September 07, 2008 02:57 PM Unmoved, I saw the Doc & you'll be glad to know the crabs are all gone now oh wait... that's not what you meant? hehe, j/k! gahhhhhhh I'm doing fine thanks how are yewww??? IP: Logged
DominaOriens Knowflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: May 2009	posted September 07, 2008 03:11 PM favouritism fiery??? hehe Ya know folks just hate to love me & looove to hate me, teehee IP: Logged
LEXX Moderator Posts: 1767 From: Still out looking for Schr�dinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009	posted September 07, 2008 04:44 PM You are all a major hooot! ------------------ It is not about waiting for storms to pass...it is about learning to dance in the rain! __________________________________________________________________________ IP: Logged

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