posted July 31, 2011 12:07 AM            

oh, and welcome!!

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted July 31, 2011 09:22 AM            

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted July 31, 2011 11:01 PM            

anyways, i think he is interested...i think you should be forward with him and tell him you have feelings

and i dont think its uncommon for leos to be shy..i actually have a leo moon and i'm very shy, and lioness here is a leo stellium and she is not very "center of attention"-y

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted August 01, 2011 10:08 AM            

Being insecure is also common in Leos, however most of the people don't realize that, but I believe this improves with age and even though I am still young, I am much more confident nowadays than 5 years ago (I am 25).

I am really sorry about your ex boyfriend, I am glad you got out of the relationship on time.

About your current situation, just talk to him and ask if he is still in contact with you just because of his friend and see what he says. Whatever he says or how he says can give you hints if he is really interested in you. You can also tell him you are interested in someone and see his reaction.

Anyway, if the outcome is not what you want, don't suffer too much, take it as a freeing experience so you can find someone that is better for you. Be optimistic, always .

posted August 01, 2011 11:06 AM            

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Originally posted by cuteangel:
NickiG , I don’t know if Edward’s really interested. Because sometimes if I initiate then, he does not mind talking to me in front of his friends. But he never initiates the talk in front of his friends. Also, when there are other girls with me, he talks to them first & after that he talks to me. I cannot just go & tell him about my feelings because I don’t know if he treats me as a friend or something more. Also, I don’t want to lose his friendship. Do you have any suggestions to test what he thinks of me?

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THIS is the game cancers play...they dont go after what they want directly...actually, my first love was a cancer, and he was like this....i strongly believe he likes you

you can do small, simple tests to see if he likes you by wearing certain jewelry like a bracelet made of coins from a foreign country (because cancer loves travel)...cancer also loves home and the family life, as well as food....i probably wouldnt try telling him that your interested in another guy just for his reaction because of my own fears that i would lose the guy i really like...i think you and i are a lot alike so i would go with the safest possible tests

oh, and dont be afraid to tell him your troubles (somehow i dont think you have that problem, lol)....tell him things that he can really empathize with, as empathy is waters natural gift

if he is truely interested, he'll be glad that you told him...however, if he is not interested, he'll let you down in the best possible way (cuz, like i said, empathy is waters natural gift...if you hurt too much, he'll actually feel your pain and cancer doesnt want that)

you also must be patient with his "crabby" moods, since the moon is his natural ruler, his moods sway with the tides

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted August 01, 2011 11:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Sunia:
NickiG, I didn't mean telling she likes another guy, but just that she likes someone and see if he is curious to know who or interested in the topic. But, you know better than me, my only experience is with a Cancer moon guy (my bf), no experience with cancer suns guys (thank goodness apparently lol ).

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lol...i think even that, though, is too "strong"....a cancer will get hurt very easily

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted August 01, 2011 07:58 PM            

as far as any other suggestions, i cant think of any right at the moment, hopefully someone else will pop in and give some more

a cancer, as i said, wont go directly at what they want...they'll approach, but stay at a distance, then pretend to be interested in something else (but close enough to what cancer is really interested in to keep an eye on it) once cancer decides that what he wants he'll go after it (in a crab-like back and fourth motion...almost literally! lol)...if the two of you are at a table together, one telltale signs that a guy is interested is if he sits across from you instead of next to you...its body language for "i'm so into you" so he can look you in the eyes better, while if he sits next to you its like saying "your a friend"....people do body language like this unconsciously, so he might not even realize he does it

definitely smile, its a safe way of letting him know your are interested....doesnt matter if hes with his friends or your with your friends, its a message that he'll definitely get

if he does have feelings for his ex he might talk about her often...if he does its a bad sign...if he doesnt but looks for her unconsciously, same thing....if he does neither (and its pretty easy to see if he is looking for her, he'll probably look at the doors/doorways often...again, he might not realize hes doing this)

if he runs back to her if she shows she wants him back, best thing to do is let him go, no matter how hard that will be, and trust me, it'll be hard....chances are he does still like her (water=emotions, remember?) and probably will for the rest of his life but the more time he spends away from her, the more he'll be over her....my cancer ex had found me and contacted me after he had moved to the mountains for several years and told me he was moving back to town and told me he was interested in getting back together...i never did get back with him, but my point is after all those years he still wanted me...we'v both moved on now though, so i'm sure he will too

my only other suggestion is to just be yourself...that is my biggest thing

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted August 02, 2011 10:22 AM            

but jokes aside, i strongly feel he likes you...for as hard as this is (and believe me, i know how hard it is) try to have some confidence and tell him...you can do it subtly if you want or directly (if you do do it subtly, he'll probably get the message all the same and know who the message is from)

eh, sorry if it seems like my posts go in circles...its just the way i think

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?